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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I will get straight to the point! I have never ever used social media like Facebook etc.,It has never ever appealed to me that’s all. When I met my husband 7 years ago he did not ever use social media and told me he didn’t like those kind of things.He has always been calling people names who use these type of things. I have done so much for my husband in the last 7 years, I’m not going to explain as you would all think I was a very stupid person for standing by him. I have just found out he is using Facebook and snapchat behind my back and still trying to deny it even though the proof is in front of of our eyes. Now my husband is also an extremely jealous person and if I had done the same my phone would be destroyed and I would quite likely have been assaulted. He has been accusing me of being on these things when I have no interest at all. He will not show me these accounts and I have left him.Why? Because I have never made these things and He always told me most women on social media are whores etc... and he would never want to be on them. I have no trust in him now, do you thing I have done the right thing? As I am now ready to divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2018): Yes I do.
Yes.
And YES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2018): You say that your husband would have destroyed your phone and assaulted you if you had done the same thing. That in itself is very disturbing. He's a liar and you give indications that he's possibly abusive. Divorce him.
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reader, N91 +, writes (10 May 2018):
 Yes, I would divorce him.
You can’t trust him and from what you’ve described it sounds like he has a bit of a temper on him. Both great reasons to get out of there. I think it is extremely bizarre to actively namecall people that use social media and then have hidden accounts.
He’s up to something and I don’t think it’s with good reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2018): I am the original poster, and I would just like to add once again that the point I am trying to put across is that my husband is using double standards as in the fact that if I was to do this sort of thing and especially behind his back then I can’t imagine what he would do to me.
And I believe that on Facebook you can actually have private messages with people, so I am told.
There’s also the fact that he says he doesn’t like this kind of thing but obviously he clearly does.
I believe in a marriage you are supposed to be honest with each other?
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