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Archived questions from: June, 2019 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I stop falling in love so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2006 days ago

30 June 2019 (F) - It is so easy for me to have feelings for someone that I'm kind of scared being too influenced by this... I don't really like group social gatherings much, and would prefer one on one talk. The problem is, once I have a really good communicati...

How can I not let my past affect my dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

30 June 2019 (F) - I'm trying to make sense of my nonexistent dating life. What I've noticed is that as soon as someone wants to get serious with me, I run away. Sex is easy, but when someone shows me they want more, then I back away. Back story: My parents have a c...

I'm scared I won't be a mother because of climate change.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

26 June 2019 (F) - My whole life I have wanted to be a mother. I love kids – I worked as a nanny and a tutor for several years, and I have nieces who I adore. My own mum died when I was a kid, and I think a part of it is that I want to have a mother-child relationship ...

Is it worth for me to get into a relationship if I feel that the man will inevitably lose interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

26 June 2019 (F) - I am having trouble dealing with the thought that it seems no matter how good a relationship or marriage or how beautiful a woman or how well she looks after herself it seem that everything I hear about read and see in real life it’s ineveitavke ...

I escaped an obsessive ex only to get married to a man exactly like him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

25 June 2019 (F) - I don't even know where to start...I guess I'm going to tell you about this in two parts. When I was in high school, there was this guy, James, who was new in school and he wanted to go out with me. I refused because I wasn't interested. He p...

How do I get rid of my horoscope addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

24 June 2019 (F) - HI I am 25. Last year I got dumped by my high school sweetheart of 6 years. It was painful and finally I moved on . I had mood swings at times I cry myself to bed. So I picked up this habit to believe on horoscope . Now I check my predi...

My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1987 days ago

24 June 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the ...

Why does a man with a perfect girlfriend still feel the need to have sex with someone else?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

22 June 2019 (F) - I'd like to know WHY a man can have sex with two women at the same time? I don't mean a threesome. But having two sexual relationships concurrently. One of the relationships is with a woman he's been with for 6 years and he supposedly loves...

She didn't answer should I call again or just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

21 June 2019 (M) - So I called her a few days after getting her message. I'll probably see her again at some point but the bottom line is she didn't answer and from what I've seen it's really a mixed bag when it comes to calling vs. texting. So, if she didn't answer ...

Why is there so much pressure for women to stay youthful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

21 June 2019 (F) - As I am getting older I’m finding that outside influences make me conscious of my aging and like there is somehow something wrong with me or less attractive about me because I’m a woman getting older. It seems that every se one ad on is about how to ...

Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

18 June 2019 (M) - Recently my gay friend invited me to accompany him to the gay club. I'm straight and I was kind of in two minds about it. I'm not homophobic at all but somehow I felt like I don't belong in there and as a straight person, I shouldn't occupy places ...

How can I shake off the pressure to be married ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

17 June 2019 (F) - How can I shake this pressure to get married and settle down off? I am a single 33 year old female and everyone around me is married and already at kid number 2. I will only use example of friends and family that I know and say that these marriages ...

Ten years together and yet I still don't feel like part of my boyfriend's family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

15 June 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I are close to being in our 10 years of being together. I love him deeply and I am happy to marry him. There is just one thing that bothers me. His mother and brothers do not care about me at all. I understand that family means ...

Why am I always the runner up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - Why am I always runner up? I don't date much - in fact in the last few years I hardly dated at all, but the last three men I was involved with all chose someone else over me. The first went back to his ex, the second chose to date my friend instead ...

How do I deal with post-breakup loneliness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - My ex-fiance and I were together for three years. I was very upset and lost shortly after the breakup. However, as soon as I moved out a few days later, I was neutral/happy. The pressure had been lifted and this neutral/lighthearted feeling lasted ...

Why did my boss act so strangely when I put in my resignation? Did he think I was his stress shock absorber?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - I have just recently left a job in a toxic situation and been offered one in a more mentally healthy environment, It has taken me over six months to find the new job and I have suffered considerable stress as financially could not just walk out ...

How can I deal with judgmental and snobbish people in my place of work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - I work in a engineering firm and I have come across a group. Of people two men and some of the woman that seem to be judgmental of where people live and the city they were raised. I live in a major city in the US near New York and like every city ...

What jobs can you do from home without major qualifications?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 June 2019 (?) - What jobs can you do from home without major qualifications? Particularly in the UK, but any ideas welcome because you may think of some in the UK that don't spring to mind for others. I'm looking online too. I'm unable to work full-time outsid...

Is it true that if you cant be happy on your own, then you wont be happy in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

7 June 2019 (M) - I am sure you guys have heard the saying " if you cant be happy on your own you wont be happy in a relationship" in your guys opinion do you believe that this is true. If someone isn't happy with there life and who they are and they just keep j...

What do I do inbetween therapy sessions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

6 June 2019 (F) - What do I do in between therapy sessions? I know life goes in per usual but I feel so lost. During therapy, everything seems to make sense, we are getting closer to solving the puzzle. I am still in process of telling my therapist my life story and ...