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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Drunken fumble, was what the guy did normal making out or was it more than that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love ...

I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is ...

Should I be hungrier and work harder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

28 May 2017 (M) - So I'm 25 year old guy.I've got a decent job, a home,a car. I am completely content with my life. Although I would refer to my status as 'middle class'.I look at people my age and who have the same things as me... And they're quitting their current ...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

Is it time to downsize due to illness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - Is it time to downsize due to illness? My husband just got diagnosed with a chronic and deblitating disease. His diagnosis came a month after moving into a bigger house. We have two young children. Since our finances are now affected (not to...

Has anyone felt lost in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - Has anyone felt lost in life? And has someone gotten out of this funk- I'm 33 and I've gotten the education - the fancy corporate job - done everything by the book - the worrying - the - counting the pennies - the over exercising - the nice ...

Does this look like a deeper relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - I've had a FWB about 6 months now. We casually meet every other week, do our thing, split ways and just chat via messages the rest of the time. Lately, when I go to his house, he wants me to spend all night, go out to the movies, go eat, he kisse...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2747 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

How much do I need to earn to be an acceptable bride?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - Hi , Thanks for reading my post. I am very confuse with my current situation. I am 38-year-old female. I am in US. I work as nanny. I done my becholer from Middle East. But, I was not able to focus to my career in US. My father was sick I was takin...

Help me with this family situation, my father thinks I'm avoiding an event!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - I have a difficult situation with my over 65 yr old parents Need advice please My parents live in another state that is a 1hour plane flight away I visit once a year and they come to my state, once a year to visit and and we talk on phone sometim...

Is this kind of kiss usual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - What does it mean if a guy kisses his hand and then touched your lips with the hand he has just kissed? No guy has done that 2 me before have always gone with a proper lip on lip kiss Yes I properly sound young and not very experienced but ...

How do I know if my coach likes me and what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

14 May 2017 (F) - I think my coach likes me but i dont know? So basically ive known the lad for half a year its got to the point where i think he likes me.I was training and he turned up.when it came to a couple of months later,i started to notice he was ...

How do I ask him his true feelings, and ask about commitment, without it appearing as me pressuring him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. He doesn't live near by so we video chat, call each other and text more then we see eachother. I sense things getting serious by the way he starts talking about our future together. He consta...

What, if anything, should I tell my future husband about my dating history?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

7 May 2017 (F) - After dating few men and some random hook ups, i eventually had to agree upon an arranged marriage by my parents. While my parents are seriously looking out for a groom, I am confused if i have to change my contact number and also delete my faceb...

Trust and retroactive jealousy issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

7 May 2017 (M) - Okay, well this is hard for me to write, but I really could do with some help or advice, please. I have been in a relationship with a lovely woman for 3 months now, and we are both getting along great and really enjoy each others company. We are ...

I give my manager the cold shoulder but he still tries to be friendly!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

7 May 2017 (F) - My head manager acts friendly with everyone. He is very helpful. All the female employees are attracted to him. Some even flirt with him. I just keep a low profile and do my job. But he seems to try to get my attention a lot. He tries making s...

What purpose does it serve to have women's clothing that exposes so much skin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

6 May 2017 (M) - Hey all, I have questions about women's fashion. This will probably make more sense to folks from the eastern part of the world. I'm sorry if this hurts sentiments but this is something I really do not understand. My city has changed a lot i...

Pipeline wives: how do you do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - my husband has presented the idea of him going to work on the pipeline on and off for the past two years or so now. i feel bad because every time he brings it up, i turn into a bitch (i'm woman enough to admit that) and nag until he drops it. i know ...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

What do I tell my child if he wants to know about his father's side of the family? My ex has another son, do I tell my child about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - !6 years ago i was in a relationship and had a baby , the ex decided he didnt want us both so 'disappeared' moved away and denied it was his child. He was 8 years older than me i was 23 so not like we were young and didnt know about things. I neve...

Should I move back home? I'm feeling pathetic with no close friends, boyfriend and stalled career

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - I'm feeling so lonely. I live with a roommate who is also very alone. I satisfy myself by watching porn. I recently found out the I was the side girl with a guy who was cheatimg on his main gf and basically wasted 8 months. My family is not near ...

Why is my General Manager so hung up on whether or not I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - He is already liked by the entire staff. Especially the female staff. I am not sure if he is looking for "all" of us female to like him to boost his ego, but all he keeps mentiong is how he doesn't understand why I don't like him. I never gav...

I miss my teacher so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

2 May 2017 (F) - I am really confused about my feelings for my former teacher. It's been just a few days less than six months since I last saw her,and I still miss her terribly. I was shocked when a sub told our grade that our teacher "won't be back this semest...

Should I stay, hoping for a ring and a piece of paper, or leave now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

2 May 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and our relationship journey has been one of the toughest I have ever experienced with anyone. During our time together, we have had to put up with travelling 90mins each way to see each other as we both...

I cant let go of this anger!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

2 May 2017 (M) - I am having trouble letting go of anger and resentment for someone that has got under my skin. The guy isn't a close friend, he was more of an acquaintance that I would see and speak to from time to time due to overlapping friendship group...

I want to talk to my boyfriend about my miscarriage but I am too angry with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

1 May 2017 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year. He made it clear from the start he didn't want more children, he has a daughter from his relationship with his ex wife, and I have a daughter from a relationship in my late teens. My ...