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writes:I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt lightly. It was all over the shirt and heI moved on from my breasts to other parts . Hr didn't linger and it was interminnent . I didn't do breasts as I usually do but heI still caressed them and touched them a little.heI may have squeezed them one or twice but it was mostly cupping. I think it part of first base and make out and not second base. What do you guys think? Do girls usually like if the hands roam around the body, but not actually squeeze them?I did not like when he squeezed them but it was nice to be touched all over while intense making out. Is this normal or is it more than making out?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 June 2017):
 Every girl is different, I wouldn't allow a guy to run his hands all over me unless I was actually dating him.
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reader, browngirl101 +, writes (31 May 2017):
browngirl101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut would a lot of girls let a guy do this? Or did I do something out of the ordinary? I mean I really didn't wanna go to second base with him and I thought it's part of make out nowadays.
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (31 May 2017):
Is it common during make-out sessions for a man to run his hands all over the woman's body? Well, yes, it's "normal" but it depends on the context...
It's okay for dating couples who have got to know each other a little, but for a guy to go that far at a party when you've really only just met - it's quite forward and presumptuous of him.
But it's not "abnormal" - plenty of guys will do this kind of thing if you let them. It's not an indicator that YOU are extra special or that he is falling in love with you or anything.
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reader, browngirl101 +, writes (31 May 2017):
browngirl101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo, is touching second base or is it second base when you actually concentrate on the breasts. Because as I read online people usually don't go to second base during the first time.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (31 May 2017):
I do hope for you this is learning experience for you.You were lucky and safe this time.Please remember a drink or two is fine......ALWAYS REMAIN SOBER.....that way you will know who you are with.[2] What they are doing to you.[3]How far you want to let them go.[3]You will be able to find your own way home safe.Your life is important,treasure it.NEVER NEVER DRINK YOURSELF TO SUCH AN EXTENT THAT YOU HAVE A BLACKOUT.......YOU ARE PUTTING YOUR LIFE AT RISK.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, browngirl101 +, writes (31 May 2017):
browngirl101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI clearly remember what happened. As soon as he tried to get his hands under my shirt, I pushed him off. I did not even let him fondle them over the clothes. I just wanted him to touch me all over. I was a little uncomfortable with touching but I thought it's normal part of makeout nowadays where hands are roaming around. He did not linger or anything. I mean it wasn't like I would do second base or boobs with anyone. He touched me all over which included boobs interminnently. I was wondering if it's pretty common during make out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2017): How well do you know this guy? Was he some random guest and you just picked him out of the crowd?
Most girls like to have their wits about them so they know what's going on; and be able to bring things under control if the guy goes too far. It's certainly your call as to what's too far.
Maybe if you were sober, you'd be able to decide what you liked and didn't like. It's foreplay if he takes it to the level of groping, reaching under your clothes, and feeling every inch of your body. You did say it got very intense.
You said it was all over clothing; but if you were pretty drunk, are you absolutely sure of that?
You were lucky. If you let things get too intense with some guys when they're drunk; they might not be as easy to handle as the guy you were with. If he wasn't your date or boyfriend, what you did was pretty risky.
Here in America; there are male college students in trouble for taking advantage of young intoxicated girls. There are girls who were raped and afraid to tell anyone for fear of being judged; or letting their parents find out. It wasn't their fault, they were just too drunk to realize what was happening to them. Or, they lost control of the situation.
During an alcoholic blackout, you may not recall everything that happened.
Making-out is fine, as long as you're not too high or too drunk. It's more dangerous for the girl than for the guy.
Did he do anything you wouldn't let him do if you were sober? The scary part is, it seems you don't know how far is too far!!!
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reader, Lexine07  +, writes (31 May 2017):
I'd say that's pretty normal when making out BUT it's not because it's normal that you should accept it. If the squeezing wasn't comfortable or enjoyable to you, you have to tell him. It's a two person activity and communication is key. If he's doing something that you don't like or that you don't want/agree to, no matter how "normal" it is, you have the right to say no.
Don't worry most people are really attentive and they want to make sure they're doing a good job!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (30 May 2017):
 This is why getting drunk is a bad idea. He can do what he wants and you're less likely to stop him - he's also less likely to care what you want, if he's drunk.
Different people like different things. Some like just stroking and others like grabbing too.
Stay safe in these situations, don't get tipsy or drunk. Tell someone if they're doing something you don't like.
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