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Archived questions from: 16 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Shall I move in with my boyfriend now or let my parents get used to the idea first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - I need abit of advice from any parents or people who have recently moved out of their parents house. My boyfriend has his own house, shared with a house mate at the moment, and it is alot closer to my work than my parents house where I live. Over ...

A quick (honest) survey: How often do you and your partner have sex?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - This is something I am interested in as this often comes up on Dear Cupid, how often are couples actually having sex? I know personally I feel that my boyfriend and I are not having enough sex, I am 24 and he is nearly 28 yet we have sex once or...

How long will I suffer following my husband's cheating? I don't want to think about it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - id like to post my feeling towards my cheated husband. how long can i recover this pain in my heart. im tired of thinking negative thoughts about him. please help me how long do i suffer of this angry feeling towards him after his cheating. he ...

How do I get over the hate I have for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - Hey(: i'd like to tell you of an ongoing issue i have with one of my boyfriends ex's. She's a true cow, a real evil piece of work and whats more, shes the mother of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter. He's taken her to court, he's tried reasoning ...

Taking a one-month long holiday and leaving my daughter with my mother, is it ok for me to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - Dear Agony aunts, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I have an inner conflicts that is troubling me. Me and my husband are planning a one-month trip to the USA, and i have a two year old which i will leave back home with my mother. Is it ri...

My husband cheated but we are working things out, how do I get over everything that happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - My husband cheated on me with one of my friend who split from her partner last year. I knew something was wrong as he was not himself but I did not find out until a week after he left me in june. Up until then we had a full sex life and continued ...

When should I just accept it is never going to happen for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - At what point should a guy who's never had a girlfriend, never kissed, held hands, or ever had anything more than a friendly hug from a girl just accept that it's never going to happen for them? Let's be realistic here, after a certain age and no ...

How do I know if I'm really in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - How do I know if I'm in love or just infactuated? I've been with my boyfriend for five months ans I find myself always thinking of him. We talk every day and text multiple times a day. We were seeing each other 3 to 4 times a week but now he ...

We are having huge issues lately, could this be because he is cheating on me with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been having HUGE issues lately, I really don't know why they started, the things he does are kinda making me mad though. He gets mad over every little thing i do wrong, he is always angry, he has been ignoring...

What was the point in doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - When my ex betrayed me and dumped me callously for no reason, he somehow managed to turn everyone against me aswell. I don't know how he did it. I was shocked and devasted when we brokeup, it was completely out of the blue. I thought these people ...

Does performance matter with women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - I got out of a real nasty relationship one year ago and have not had sex since then. He was my first, and i am 25 i was with him for five years. My question is this:: Im not super experienced in bed, and do guys find that as a turn off? I mean...

Is it normal to have a crush on someone else when you're in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4943 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - I recently started a new job and met a guy there who I've developed a tiny crush on. What's bothering me is that I have a boyfriend who I love very much. We've been together for almost two years and in that whole time I haven't had a 'crush' on...

Contacted by my first years later, and he wants me to behave like a whore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

16 May 2011 (F) - I am 55 yrs. old. Out of the blue and old boyfriend of mine from high school, contacted via facebook..He was my first. I was 17 years old and was what i thought was true love. I was inexperienced and scared back then. Throghout many years I have ...

I may never see my ex again after the next time we meet... should I ask for my possessions back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - Hi all, When me and my girlfriend of 4 months were together, I would often leave a long sleeved hooded top at hers. Eventually it got to the point where I would never take it with me. When we split up back in February due to the fact that I'm le...