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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Doctor proposed HIV tests to my husband, and I'm freaking out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 years, but we've been together for almost ten. When we started dating, we both did HIV tests. All of them came negative. In the past 4 years we've been living under extreme stress, mostly caused by financ...

Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...

Is it time to dump, date, or do nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I am dating this guy for the past 3 months. I only got divorced 7 months ago after a 13 year marriage and 3 children. To me, my kids are my first priority. I was a stay at home mom until the divorce. I have been working for the past 5 months and ...

I'm rare, but does that make me wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I seem to have the perfect life in which I am fully satisfied with but yet everyone seems to think that there is something wrong with me. I am 23 years old,I have had years of community service, a Black Belt in two martial arts, a loving girlfriend ...

I have this distorted image of the world and need advice on how to fix it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I have low self esteem and have battled with depression for years. I have a really bad body image and hate the world right now because of how it has become about hot bodies, sex, one night stands, etc. i feel like women have become more obse...

Should I just ignore him or make an effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I've quite liked this guy for the past couple of months or so, and we talk all the time. The trouble is; he keeps sending me mixed signals on whether he feels the same or not. For instance; he's always saying how pretty I am, plus last week he ...

Is it normal for someone to be feeling sexual urge all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Hi evry one, pls is it normal for someone to be feeling sexual urge all the time? I always feel like having sex, is it normal? ...

It seems like he's just lost interest so should I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused with dating. I started seeing this guy and we went out on a few dates and we used to talk almost everyday and on the second date he told me that he told a girl who tried to ask him out that he was already seeing someone, that is ...

He's ten years older. When I wrote "hahaha" he didn't joke back. What do you think this means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I was chatting with the guy I like (he's ten years older) on facebook the other day. I was talking about how I got hit on by an older guy again (I got hit on before and i tried to get this guy that I like to help me out but he was busy at the time). ...

I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very ...

Can someone shed some light? Why do I like her romantically, but not sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I have been having feelings for a girl at work for some time now. We don't interact outside of work, I only see her there. The thing is I am not sure if I actually fancy her. I really like her, I think she's pretty and cool, but I don't feel any l...

Would it seem stalkerish if I got a job at the place where he works?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - dear cupid, so, there's this guy that i met through mutual friends, and those mutual friends seem to think that the two of us would be absolutely perfect together. he works at a restaurant near the college that we both go to, and i just recently ...

If it is just friendship, why is he sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i met this guy and he says we are just friends. We had sex twice but we keep reminding we are just friends. My feelings for him have died down to friendship level and now he keeps asking me have i told any of my friend girls about him. I'll say ...

How can I get past this stupid drama and move on like a mature adult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I'm struggling to forget my boyfriend's infidelity two years ago. Sure, it sounds reasonable enough, only that at the time we were referring to each other as "more like friends" and he never actually SLEPT with this girl. Since we met, we'd bee...

Should we have a break? Will this pattern continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Im in need of some insight right about now!! When i was 15 I was in an abusive relationship that lasted 3 years with the person who i feel was my first love. I endured all abuse possible being talked down upon, being accused of things i never did, ...

Does grammar matter when people communicate today? Or is it a lost cause? What's your pet grammar issue?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - First off I will admit it: sometimes I mis-spell words. And another thing, sometimes when I'm in a hurry I abbreviate some words. And when I was at University I used to have the best set of abbreviations in Contract Law. If I needed to refer to ...

He had an emotional affair, but he wont accept he cheated! How can I make him understand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we get on like a house on fire, I've never felt like this with anyone before, everything just worked. Before christmas he was having a tough time and I supported him best I could not giving him any ...

Should I try for this job again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Any advice much appreciated with this. I am currently looking for a job at the moment...not easy. I have heard about a job where I live at. The thing is I got offered a job at this place about this time last year. I said I would take it but at the ...

Are our friends trying to sabotage us, or honestly give us a heads up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - Over the past year and a half I have been the happiest I have ever been. I've always been happy, but now I am even happier. A year and a half ago is when I met my boyfriend, best friend, my other half. See, our relationship is not the problem....

What makes me so incapable of attracting a girl?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I'm 25 and have never in my life had a girlfriend or even anything close. I'm not a virgin but might as well be. I've had sex a total of one time several years ago leaving me with almost no sexual experience and zero relationship experience in my ...