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writes:id like to post my feeling towards my cheated husband. how long can i recover this pain in my heart. im tired of thinking negative thoughts about him. please help me how long do i suffer of this angry feeling towards him after his cheating. he remain silent. he never argue. im tired of. i dont want him to see. but we are in the same bedroom but we never talk Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 Stand up on the bed, look down on him, and scream:
"I'm so very very tired of hating you, when I just want to love you"
See where that leads, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
Sometimes a primal call of the wild is all it takes to break every tree in the forest, shake every rock from it's foundation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): Your husband probably doesn't fight with you because he feels guilty and deserves whatever you dole out. Not letting him see your pain is a mistake though. I think clear communication is in order. Purging the negative without replacing it with positive will only create a vacuum.
A few sessions of individual and couples therapy might help.
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