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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I ask my wife if she would like to watch porn together to spice up our sex life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I have been reading this site and a lot of women seem to question why their husbands like to look at porn or even disapprove of it completely. I think I understand that. It makes you feel inadequate and like he's cheating on you. However, d...

I'm willing to make whatever changes are necessary to improve my chances for intimacy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Hello, I thought that my teenage years were going to be about out who I was and to some extent I have. But I am missing the one thing I desire most, intimacy. I guess the care from my family isn't enough any more. I want someone I care abou...

No one else will make me feel this way. How can I get him to notice me as a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I've fallen for someone and I know that no one else will ever be as special to me. I'm originally from Ireland but live in Mexico City, and I have no one to discuss this with and feel desperately lonely. He's dating some whore right now, and...

I'm pregnant at 15 and scared to tell anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, but I am pregnant. It was a mistake, but my own fault. I live with my Grandparents, my parents died. They are really strict. I need to talk to someone and the only person is my Head of Year. She has been really comfortin...

I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...

For anyone who has cheated after agreeing to get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (?) - Have any of you had affairs after you became committed to a person, but before getting married? If so, what were the reasons? Was it ever revealed or did you keep it a secret forever? How do you feel about it now that you are married? Does it ...

What is a reasonable budget for a not too over the top wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Hi We would like to get married but we are trying to pay off priorty debts first. Does any body know what a reasonable budget is for a not too fanciful basic wedding that we can do ourselves. We are thinking of £1,000. Is this a reasonable...

The first time we tried a relationship, he said it was too fast. Now, the "fast" behavior is happening again -what does he want from me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - First Story: (Sorry its long but it is the whole story) This guy I briefly went out with (a week and a half) broke up with me because he said we moved to fast and he needed time to find himself (Hes 26 im 19). To me he wasnt over his ex wife. He ...

He won't text me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Basically this guy and I have been great friends for a while. Then, he did everything he could to make me think he liked me - flirting, texting, etc. But recently, he won't text me back, and when I ask him why, he just gives me a stupid answer, like ...

Does my TA have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I’m a humanities student in the middle of my college career. My TA is somewhere between 26 and 28. The semester ends tomorrow. I didn’t really think anything of him until I started going to office hours—his course material is extr...

I want children, but he's ambivalent. What goes through his mind, and is there hope for having children with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Well, I think I would like to hear if anyone has been in a similar situation like me and how they decided... I am in a very happy and stable relationship and it is save to say that this is it for both of us. We are both 32. Ther...

What are the signs a girl is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - What are the possible signs if the girl are just playing hard to get? ...

What would represent a creative, memorable, thoughtful, romantic proposal of marriage that I could arrange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - what are some creative, thoughtful ways to propose to your girlfriend? i know it sounds terrible that i'm having to ask, but i've just never been very good at this sort of thing. i try so hard and love her very much. i just want to make this ...

How do I make her realize that I love her beyond our religious differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Hello. Since 7 months I've known a girl who was just a friend in the beginning but as I got to know her more and more I was deeply, very deeply attracted to her. It's just that only I see her that way and since she doesn't want to get into ...