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writes:I dated this guy for a year. we clicked and i thought he was the one.although he consistently cheated i was sure i was the one. anyway i recently ended it coz i couldnt take it anymore.we had so much chemistry though i cant help thinking ill never have that with anyone else again. I dont want to settle.how many eole can you connect withlike that in a lifetime. wat are the chances of me finding someone i really click with again? Reply to this Question
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reader, kurlyq2121  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 I've gone through the same thing myself. And honestly right now i might this person who is even better =] hes honestly amazing and i've never known a guy better
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): It depends on whether you clicked with him in spite of his being a player, or if the attraction you felt was partly BECAUSE of it.
Don't laugh. Nobody ever thinks they "want" to get cheated on, and yet there sure are a lot of people out there who aren't attracted to anyone who stays faithful and treats them right.
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reader, accused +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Clicking with someone and being cheated on are not what I call the way to spend your life with someone. If this man constantly cheated on you, then apparently the "clicking" was not the problem. I was happy to see that you didn't want to settle! GOOD FOR YOU! and you shouldn't have too... Trust me there is someone out there for you, you just have to keep positive and it will happen! but if you let this man cheat on you, and your staying all because of the chemistry then its not REAL... You will spend your time wondering, waiting, & always being ready for the "CHEATING" side of him to show itself... Trust me break your losses and use him as a stepping stone.... Don't give your self respect and what you are entitled to away for just mere chemistry... You are better than that........ Best of luck Keep me posted
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reader, inloveoutofmind +, writes (11 July 2008):
your chances are very great. think about it there are roughly a billion people in this world and your telling me that a unfaithful uncaring guy was the one? it will be hard but be open to new things clear you head and take a deep breath and go for it. go find your true love because if you want happiness
your the only one who can achieve it. when you think your life is turned upside down fate comes in and completely messes it up and it might not be pretty but you will see that it was exactly what you needed :) good luck
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