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writes: My older half sister is getting married for the second time in just a few weeks. Me and my younger sister are not very happy about it. We were very much attached to our original brother-in-law. (who we have had zero contact with for the last two years) To add, she is getting re-married on the day out baby cousins died last year. She hasn't spent much time with us, in which she normally does. And we have not seen her without the new guy since her divorce. So how do we tell our older sister how we feel about the whole ordeal?
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Hi Hunny
I no how this must feel for you, But your sister is moving forward with her life and her choices are what make her happy love, I no you feel that her getting married on the anniversary of you little cousins death not right, But maybe she is doing this as a rememberance of your little cousins..I understand perfectly that you are upset and sad and dont understand as you cared very much for her ex husband, Things for her may have been very different...Your sister is happy at this moment hunny this is a good thing, If you want to speak to her there is no reason why you should not. You have many questions you need answers to but instead of talking as if you are angry and cross about the whole situation try asking her to sit with you in a nice kind way on your own the three of you and just put to her your worrys and concerns and you may understand why things went wrong with her first husband why she is so happy now and even about the wedding date hun, Talk with her love next time you see her tell her you and your sister could you 3 have a chat and hopfully all you worrys and concerns will be put to rest sweetheart. TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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