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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are the rules of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - Okay hey guys, I got a qustion. What are the rules of dating? Im new to the whole dating scene and Im wondering if there is rules that apply. Like time in between dates, phone calls etc. I know its diffrent from time to time....

Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Thank you to all who replied here. Your insight is much appreciated....

How can I describe to him what it's like to have sex with someone who's so drunk they hardly can recall it? He hid this "habit" until after we got married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I'm 51 y/o, married 7 months to a total alcoholic, functional in all ways, but a drunk nevertheless. He hid it from me until after we were married. I knew he drank a few beers a day, but not also at least a 1/2 pint of vodka, too, straight from the ...

I still have feelings for him but is it time now to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6133 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - When I was in my mid teens my cousin came to stay with us. I hadn't really known him before but while he stayed with us he got to know me and one night kissed me. When we met up again months later we ended up carrying on from where we left off ...

How the hell can I convince him that this actually can work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - (sorry bout the lenght of this question, but you need some backround info...) Okay, so I'm 15 and he's 18. (we dont live in the states, so its leagal to have a relationship with a person over 18 if u're under 18, so its not a problem leagally...

Are sex noises a turn-on??

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - hi! This is sort of a question for males, but female input is also appreciated. im 17, not that that is really important right now, but i was wondering: do guys enjoy it when women make noises during sex? is it a turn on, or just really annoying...

Is a female who performs oral sex still a virgin???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - I have a curious question, if a female did oral sex once but she never had any sexual intercourse before, Would she still be considered a virgin?...

Why is a man being a virgin in the west a shame?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - Why people in the west think that an adult man to be virgin is a shame? I think being a virgin, because you don't want to put yourself with someone who doesn't deserve to make love with and to be with a lady who shares the same beleif, is something ...

Different cultures, do girls expect a kiss, or sex on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - I dont understand your culture. As i came from different culture background...I need to know something about dating.. Do you usually guys kiss in the first date or have sex? I dont like to have sex nor kiss from the first night, but this may tur...

Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...

How do I get through these three weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriends in the army and going away on an practice training session He will be away for three weeks I saw him last night and had a great time with him We have been togetheer 18 months and are real happy We are so into each other But I already ...

Is this interest or just friendliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6247 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I'm female and I take martial arts. I ahve a sensei who has been acting weird around me. He does weird stuff like: - If I get injured, he's overly concerned and one time I pulled a calf muscle which wasn't serious but he massaged it. - He does...

What can I do to look closer to my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I look very young for my age. Depending on the age of the person I've heard I look anywhere from 12 to 21. However, VERY few people have said 21. I am 29 and I think this is a huge problem with dating. I want to date men in their 30s but the only ...

I don't want to fall for him to quick this time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - hello agony aunts and uncles!. okay heres the deal, I recently got back with my ex, he asked for me back. Well some people who answer all my questions on this boy probably know the whole story. We were split up for a few weeks and now were back ...

My kids are out of control, and my wife and I fight over it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - My 3 kids of ages 11, 9 and 6 are always fighting among themselves. I being the father have a little control. I mean when I am home they take notice of me, but for the mother they dont seem to listen her. I always ask them to behave but in worst ...

I falsely accused my husband of cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I accused my husband of 6 years of cheating on me, because I saw a phone number I did not recognize. I did not ask him first, I just jumped the gun. What can I do to earn his trust back and get over my own trust issue?...

We've been trying to have a baby for over a year, any advice.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are trying to have a baby. We have been trying for over a year now. I am looking for tips on how to conceive easier. Positions, times etc...without using any fertility clinics? Can anyone help? ...

I don't want to loose my bf or my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I KNOW MY BOYFRIEND SINCE THE SEVENTH GRADE..WE STARTED DATING 8 MONTHS AGO BUT MY PARENTS DOESN'T APPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE IS AFRICAN AMERICAN.. WE ARE BOTH IN LOVE BUT HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH ME AT THE MOMENT BECAUS EOF MY PARENTS SO ...

What should I do about my love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - There is this guy i love him soo much, we used to be soo close. we started saying we were together a while ago now but there is a huge age gap of 11years and it is hard for him to love me because he is used to living with his girlfriends, and as im ...

I just can't seem to just give up on her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - I'm going to try and keep this short and simple. Me and ex-girlfriend were together off and on for 2 years. We had alot of good times and alot of ruffs ones also. I loved this girl and i still do. She lied about certain things sometimes(some not ...

Is this considered abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Was my ex-fiance abusive? He never hit me, but he told me that his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and he slapped her on the face. Does that count as abuse? I'm not with him anymore, but I was just wondering if someone could give me some insight. He ...

She "wants to take a break"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - My girlfriend (of 4 months) recently told me that she "wants to take a break" but assures me she doesn't want to break up with me. She thinks we've been taking things too fast and wants to take a "step back". She finds it really hard to explain ...

How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) - How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?...

Any suggestions to find out what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - hi i have been split from my husband for 6 months he wants me back and we have been seeing each other again for 3 months but i cant make my mind up whether i want to go back .i dont want to lose him completely but i just cant make my mind up .any ...

I'm unsure if I should stay with my boyfriend or move on to an older, mature guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (?) - should i finish my boyfriend of 14 months to go out with a hot guy thats older, more attractive and more mature?? im 15 and have been with my 16 year old boyfrind for 14 months but a guy i met a few months ago asked me to go out with him. we meet ...

I feel used and can't give away my virginity again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my fiance for going on 7 years. We just had our first baby 4 months ago. from the beginning of our relationship he has always told me that I was the only person he has ever slept with. When I first started talking to him 7 years ...

I'm debating on whether to remain friends with him or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago. Just a usual hi and by thing. He would come over to my place of employment every so often because he's a friend of one of my employees. Then I met this young lady who just recently graduated from college and...

Does he have feelings and care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - The other day i went to see a guy i love on his birthday. We spent the afternoon together and when we were sitting in his room he was staring at me so intensely for ages. He finds it very difficult to show emotion and when we were saying bye he ...