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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Should I go out with him on Valentine's day? Any advice about us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - You've probably heard this a thousand times. But I'm going to spill it anyway. I'm 13 and the guy I am in love with is 17. He told me he feels the same way too. But I'm not sure if I should continue this... It's gonna be a heck of a long story bu...

The age difference is freaking me out! How do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There's been this guy that I had been asking questions about lately. He and I have known each other for about five years; have become really close friends for 2 1/2 to 3 years and have started really flirting back and forth since last summer. He w...

She doesn' t like older guys, if I express my feelings I think she'll cut me off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - I am 40 year old single male. I live in a duplex. My neighbor is a 21 year old very attractive female. She is sassy, fun, and spontaneous. She doesnt have a washer and dryer, so this is how we started to get acquainted. We have a good friendship....

How can I stop myself from going too far with my fantasies of men I work with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm 39, happily married to a wonderful man who is a couple of years younger than me. I love him very much and we have a young daughter together. For the last 4 years I've found myself highly attracted to older men - at work, at school... anywhe...

I don't want to be the "other girl" in his life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone. I am in love with a guy older than me(10 years). I am about to turn 18 in March. Something really weird happened yesterday and I hope y'all would be able to help me out a bit here. Since our families are close together,he call...

So what do you say to this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi everybody, I'm just writing this to get an idea of peoples reaction to this situation. I see someone most days I go to work and we have a little chat going. I find her very attractive, lovely smile and pretty eyes and she is different...

How do you know if you're just an ego booster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Just wondering if there are any warning signs. Say I think we have great chemistry, but in reality I'm just boosting his ego. We have been flirting a lot and we've known each other for quite a few years. The main reason I'm asking is because he's ...

Will their relationship last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years has split up with me and is seeing a 16 year old girl, he is 23 will their relationship last?...

Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...

My GF's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I'm 20 and my girlfriend has just turned 16, when she was 15 she told me that her parents were strict and wouldn't approve of the relationship, she's now 16 and they found out about us even though we didn't want them to know yet. They've made her...

Is it normal to get attracted towards really old people? (30's-50s) I'm only 13!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hey I don't know if it's a normal teenage thing just like my friends say that our hormones are going mad? is this true? I dunnno why but I find old people more attractive.... Like somewhere in their mid 30's-50s I know it sounds wrong and gross (I ...

If we're happy, is our relationship still wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunt Im 18 and recently started a new job, theres a guy there who is is 55 and we have got really close. He is such a lovely man and i love him and he loves me, we have had sex but recently people at work have been saying things about us...

I like more mature ladies (over 50) but I'm 27. Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 27 years old but I like muture ladies over 50. I wanna marry a muture lady but most of ladies think that I am joking or interested in their wealth. Please, anyone that can help me... how can I get and impress a lady over 50?...

Is it fair....? Help with age difference.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Is there a big difference between 1980 and 1982 in years because I feel big difference. I'll be turning 30 and someone in born 1982 will still be there 20's so is it a big differcne. 30 years old is very depressing and I feel so over the hill. ...

Could she be covering up her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for 3 years, and I want it to be more. We have talked about 'getting it on' (as lovers!) with each other, but she keeps avoiding the question, either age gap problems (I'm 29, she's 19), or other stuff! Could she ...

Will the age difference be a bother to us later?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 22 years and my partner is 29 years old. We are planning to get married soon but I sometimes feel that the age difference is somehow big and it can affect our relationship because sometimes I do things and he sees them as childish since he ...

Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...

I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because ...

I want a baby really badly!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Ok me and my bf have some what of an age difference but its not a big deal. The thing is we've been together for 2 almost 3 years febuary 2. And i love him with all my heart and he feels the same...the problem is i want a baby really really badly. ...

Is he still interested in me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I'm having trouble. I don't think my boyfriend is interested in me any more. We've known each other for about 5 years now and dating for about a month now. he doesnt act like he's interested in me any more even though he says he is. For some reason ...

Having a hard time opening up to my older bf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - I have been talking to this guy, he's 22 and I am 18. The age difference scares me since I have never dated some one that much older that me. He has had two serious relationships and I haven't had any. He also has had sex and me I'm still a virgin. ...

Does 10 years make a difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - So there's this guy... we have the same political views, beliefs, etc. and he respects me. i think i'm in love. the problem? he's 10 years older than me. in the future, how can this work? i've heard of many successful marriages where the age ...

Greatest age difference where it can work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - In your opinion, what is the greatest age difference in a relationship that can work out?...

Age difference is causing problems with sexual compatability

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - I have been an absolute idiot and don't know what to do. I have been so stressed out I can barely sleep. I am in a relationship with a much older man and have been for four years. It has been my only serious relationship. I have no issues or any...

How am I to survive the next 9 days...???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants ...

I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The th...

My ex-boyfriend/teacher is mad I hooked up with another guy in my class

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - well... i have a really stressful situation.... ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now.. hes 23 and im 18.... im in my last year of school, and he's an english teacher... a few weeks ago, he got a permanant posting at my school!! ...

Are our ages okay to go out together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 14. Is this OK? When I turn 17 she'll be 14 for another 4 months....

I feel the fool now, how does this happen? A person who said I was the love of his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I too am very prplexed and also hurt I have been term relationship of over 7 years he was much younger and persued me. he was innocent a virgin at 26 and i never knew till after. now after 7 years he says he wants to still be with me but needs to be ...

Should I ask him to visit me during spring break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My former college prof and I are really good friends. I'm falling for him (I can't stop thinking about him) and I'm pretty sure he likes me back, but we're both painfully shy. We've been flirting back and forth a lot and have gone out a couple times ...

His age is messing with my head.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been email...

The problems are numerous, I just want him to be my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - so, i really really like this guy... steve. and there is about a five year age difference. but age has never mattered. he is my brothers friend and my mom loves him! and my brother doesn't care that he and i are an item kind of thing. so i really ...

Is us being together going to be a problem because of the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid... age thats a big problem for love that's what i think but i always hear love has no age you know you don't choose who to fall in love with! my friend shes 16 and shes in love with this guy that's 30 years old is that a big diffe...

I get laughed at in work cause of my age gap with my partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I am dating a man in scotland who is 19 years older than me, he knows I love him, but people at work take the mick out of me cause I'm 24 and he is 42, what should I do? ...

Is it strange for an older man to be saying he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Im 19 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 months. He is 43. We really get along great. We live in two different states. I fly out there every weekend to spend the weekend with him. He says he is falling in love with me. Is that ...

We started a romance, I didn't know he had a girlfriend! What to say/do to him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I'm living abroad for a year and I fell in love with a man I met here. He's 32, I'm 22. We were seeing each other for about three months, and it was wonderful. He called me his girlfriend, introduced me to all his friends as his girlfriend, wrote ...

Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am an attractive, divorced, young at heart female who was introduced by a work friend to a guy. We happened to have a twenty year age difference. Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?...

I fancy my dermatologist... is she too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl. My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. Sh...

Have you been in a relationship where you were dating someone over 10 years older than you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Your personal experiences. Please share them, so I can make a conclusion on what I need to do with my own problem....

I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...

Is she totally over this forbidden love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I had a girlfriend and we just broke up a week ago.. Our love was so intimate .. She was younger than me though..She's 16 but she thinks maturely..(I guess).. The reason for our break up was because of her mother... Her mother doesn't like me at al...

Has his flirting increased?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hi, just giving an update about a previous subject I posted on here: I had mentioned that I'm good friends with a former college prof (I've since graduated). I know he's about twice my age, but I don't care cause we get along so well. Below's my...