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writes:I have been friends with this girl for 3 years, and I want it to be more. We have talked about 'getting it on' (as lovers!) with each other, but she keeps avoiding the question, either age gap problems (I'm 29, she's 19), or other stuff! Could she be covering up her feelings, and if so, how long do I wait to tell her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat would be better! I'd forgotten about email and text not being anonymous!
Next Question is, I don't know where she lives!, and meeting up to give it to her will spoil it as well, wont it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWould it be better t give it to her in person than by email or text? If I gave it to her on Valentine's Day, wouldn't she suspect something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShall I give her this:My days are filled with yearning;My nights are full of dreams.I’m always thinking of you;I’m in a trance, it seems.You’re all I ever wanted;I wish you could be mine;And so I have to ask you:Will you be my Valentine?If yyes, I was thinking initially of emailing or texting it, but now I think I want to give it to her face-to-face
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reader, Mesterious Gall +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Well as she avoids the subject means she might not feel really comphy with the questions for now anyway but its really not about the age my mum is 34 and my dad is 40 and they love each other and thats how she would feel get closer and care always for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): If she keeps avoiding the question, she obviously doesn't want to talk about it. Perhaps she isn't interested, or perhaps she needs a bit of time to get used to the idea - 10 years is a big age gap when you're only 19! Either way, I wouldn't keep talking about it, as you'll only make her feel uncomfortable and maybe damage your friendship. Give her a bit of space, and if she doesn't respond when you hint that you like her, then don't force the issue.
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