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female
age
51-59,
*antasizesaboutoldermen
writes:I'm 39, happily married to a wonderful man who is a couple of years younger than me. I love him very much and we have a young daughter together.For the last 4 years I've found myself highly attracted to older men - at work, at school... anywhere that I work closely with a guy who is nice and older (ie 20 yrs older or so). I fantasize almost non stop all day about a guy I work with, to the point I think it interfers with my work. When I was in University (2 yrs ago) I fantasized almost non stop in class about one of my older professors.I enjoy the fantasies and I don't think my husband would be upset that I do this, both of us think it's normal to fantasize. But I am worried that my obsession may get me in trouble one of these days. At work I found myself lately looking for any little excuse to go and talk to the man I have a crush on and if he finds it annoying it won't be a good situation.Is it normal for married women to still get crushes on guys? If so, is it normal to fantasize often about them?Does anyone have advice for me how I can keep myself from doing anything silly, at least until my crush passes (which they always do by the way)?
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reader, eddie +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Fantasies are in your head. Putting yourself in the company of the men you fantisize about is an actual action. It puts you in a dangerous place. Keep your thoughts in your head and your feet on the ground.
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