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writes:I too am very prplexed and also hurt I have been term relationship of over 7 years he was much younger and persued me. he was innocent a virgin at 26 and i never knew till after. now after 7 years he says he wants to still be with me but needs to be with friends too and says hes dating wont say weather hes sleeping with these people or not but needs me also.we hadnt been together for 5 months untill last night i am so in love with him and waited 7 years for him to have me over (in the basement) he still lives at home with his parents and he snuck me in i couldnt say no someyhing ive wanted for so long it was great but now i feal used even though he said how much he misses me he still wants his freedom to do what he wants whenever he wants.this was a person who said they could never live with out me and now for the fist time i insisted he use protection he wasnt happy but im so unsure now and feal he has others and will only say were not together anymore i should have said no but my heart said yeas now i feel the fool and i really dont matter except for a botty call how does this happen when this person said and expressed i was the love of his life help
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Hon, he was just too young and immature. You said it yourself that he was a virgin til 26. Which probably means he has no life or love experience enough to tell you that you are the love of his life and really get what that means. I would say that you should no longer waste your time on him and take care of yourself. And no matter what anybody says, age does matter. At least to a point. Your life was pretty much set in stone when you guys met and his had barely started. I hate to be cruel but you should have seen this coming.
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