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Is it normal to get attracted towards really old people? (30's-50s) I'm only 13!

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Question - (29 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *weet_lover101 writes:

Hey I don't know if it's a normal teenage thing just like my friends say that our hormones are going mad? is this true? I dunnno why but I find old people more attractive.... Like somewhere in their mid 30's-50s I know it sounds wrong and gross (I think so too) but I just can't help liking those type of men. And I'm only 13 to add more weirdness to this question.

Is it normal? or do I just have bad taste? xxxxx

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A female reader, silver2 United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2009):

Most boys at your age aren't all that, so I think it is perfactly normal to be attracted to men older than yourself. I was the same when I was a teenager, but luckily I did not act on my impulses!!!

Wait until you are older to start dating, there are so many other things to focus on right now, discovering who you are, your studies etc! Also there are a lot of men who will take advantage of young girls, so dont get caught out!

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A male reader, The old Man? United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

The old Man? agony auntIt is very common!

That is however, where the maturity of the older man has to step in and not allow anything to happen.

I started noticing this happening when I was around 30.

You're not weird! You're fine.

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A female reader, Emajayne Canada +, writes (29 January 2009):

Emajayne agony auntIt is perfectly normal. Women naturally are attracted to older and wizer characters when it comes to men because females mature faster and lets face it...all the guys ur age right now are a bunch of pervy young boys who dont care whether your skirt makes u look fat. They however want to see u without said skirt. So stay away from them whatever u do. Ur hormones are ALL OVER THE PLACE. listen to ur friends because they are right. Think about it. Do u think Bradd Pitt, Johney Depp, George Clooney...i unno who but those kinds of hunky people are indeed gorgeous? It isnt wrong to be attracted to anyone. What is wrong is if u are actually serious about finding a relationship with someone that age. It is not only illegal it isn't safe and it isn't healthy. I suggest u talk to whoeever u feel the most comfortable with about this. :) hope i helped.

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