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Archived questions from: March, 2024 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she no longer want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

31 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a little fall out with a friend. I don't know all the details or why she got upset with me though I have a few ideas why. When I first tried to speak with her about it she said to please respect that she needed a break and didn't want to talk about it anymore...but I ... (246 words)

I got involved with engaged co worker and made her choose

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 March 2024 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! Here's my situation: two and a half years ago a new coworker arrived into the company I've been working with for the last 7 years. A couple of weeks after she arrived, she started to flirt with me in a real intense way, I mean, she seeked for physical touch, ... (242 words)

Should I just be straight to the point?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

29 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been really struggling with my husband for so long; I no longer know what to do. I have become hopeless however my main concern, despite everything else i.e. I complained of him not being compassionate enough when I am sick...e.g I have been sick for a few days and not ... (412 words)

Falling in love unintentionally to my best friend's boyfriend. Title (e.g. My

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

29 March 2024 (F) age 30-35 - It's hard to put into words the mess of emotions swirling inside me lately. I've found myself caught in a whirlwind of feelings I never expected to have, all because of my best friend's boyfriend. It started innocently enough. When I first met him, there was a connection, a ... (768 words)

When do I tell people that I'm asexual

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

27 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - When should I tell people I'm asexual? I've had too many situations where people (including and especially the guy himself) think a guy and I are dating/would be great together and I have to clear that up ASAP. I do the best I can to let him save face, to be direct but polite ... (509 words)

Did I handle things wrong? Need some encouraging words

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

25 March 2024 (M)

age 36-40 - Back in December I attended a Christmas work party. They had hired some hostesses to go around the party and offer different food and drinks. I spoke to one of them and she seemed more receptive to conversation than the others. I spoke to her a few more times when we would run ... (504 words)

I don't hear from him alot does it mean he isn't keen on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

23 March 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - i feel silly writing this but if a guy doesn’t constantly text me all the time or go a few days without texting does that mean he is not keen when we meet he says he likes me and is starting to get feelings but could it be because he is texting a lot of other people maybe? I do ... (78 words)

Partner's cousin is having a wedding, but don't want to attend. Title (e.g. My husband is

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

22 March 2024 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello all, My partner's cousin is getting married this year, but I am not overly thrilled about the idea of going. However, I feel like I need to go for my partner's sake and, well, because my partner is basically saying I have to go. The reason for me not wanting to go ... (488 words)

Boyfriends father is causing problems with us moving in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

21 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to move in with my partner and he would like to move in with me but his father insists on using his name for everything and not putting his own name on anything. This is getting to a point that its seeming like we will never be able to have a tenancy together or a ... (217 words)

Is it possible to be friends with my ex on social media

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

19 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I am happily married to my husband who I met ten years ago. However an ex boyfriend from when I was 17-18 added me on social media. I accepted because there are no feelings there and I didn’t see the harm in being on good terms as it was so long ago, I’d have been happy to ... (205 words)

Could this lead to love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

19 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met this guy a couple of times and i have this electric undeniable connection with him, i don’t know him that well at all but when we kiss it’s amazing i know it’s not love but could this connection lead to love i have never had this before with other guys it feels ... (89 words)

Why does she want a black dildo

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

16 March 2024 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my gf 27, me 34. recently mentioned she wants a dildo. So I said I will look for her. When we were looking she pointed she wanted a black one. We are white. So it made me think is she into black men? She doesn’t watch porn but I don’t know if I’m looking into it too much. ... (94 words)

Should I stay or should I go? Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

15 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can I get some career advice - I’m so torn….. I’ve been working for this company in customer services for almost 18 years. I’ve always felt a bit over looked and never really given much opportunity to progress - unfortunately it’s always been a case of “not what you... (402 words)

They hate the fact we are doing so well!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

15 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - After a rocky few years with my health issues and some financial issues things have started to turn around for me and my husband for the better however it seems that some so called friends and even some family aren’t really happy for us and it’s ruining what should be a ... (514 words)

I am sick of my partner trying to hit on women 1/2 his age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

15 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is 50 soon and he keeps talking to young women half his age in public when he's with me. He keeps helping young women in the supermarket for instance the other day a young woman dropped a can of coca cola in the supermarket on the floor and he quickly rushed to pick ... (191 words)

Would it be acceptable for my cousin to walk me down the aisle at my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

14 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 19 years old, I had a one night stand with a friend and ended up pregnant. My parents, who always been judgemental and verbally abusive kicked me out when they found out. My cousin, Justin, who is a year older than me, was always close to me. He is a male but he... (177 words)

Time to pull the plug or am I being too impatient?

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13 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, So after seeing someone for five months, I initiated the "what are we" talk. When we first met we were both on the same page about wanting something long term and committed that would lead to marriage and having children. When I asked him after five months how ... (340 words)

How do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

12 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - I work at my church as a secretary but now I'm afraid this stranger is going to send a link to my sex blog to my employers and potentially ruin me. I have never looked at or worked on my blogs outside my home. I have a regular one where I blog about other things (mostly growing ... (170 words)

Is he normal following girls 1/2 his age on social media?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

12 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who is 42 years old has an Instagram account where he added over 100 girls half his age, shaking their boobs and butts. So last month, my BF decided to create an Instagram account because he wanted to follow some singers and foodies. I trusted that he was only int... (164 words)

I am having a hard time accepting the real me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

12 March 2024 (M)

age 18-21 - What can I say, I come from a deeply religious family that has always shamed gay sex, so I guess its always going to be hard for me to accept myself and come out, but how do I help that, how do people help themselves out of this confusing state? Untill a few months ago I was... (405 words)

I ended things with my ex but now feel sad and confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

11 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so heartbroken right now, I have told my ex I want nothing more to do with him as I can't take the emotional torment anymore. Wee wee were together for four years and in that time wee have had some really good times but really really bad times as well. Like he... (303 words)

A friend told me that my husband is having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

10 March 2024 (F)

age 51-59 - I’ve been told that my husband of 25 years is having an affair with a woman we know. The person who told me has said they’ve been seen together in places they shouldn’t be and that it’s been going on a long time. There is no proof and he’s never done anything like this before. ... (156 words)

My boyfriend is a good man but is it time to walk away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

10 March 2024 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my partner for four years when I met him he was amazing and wee just seemed to click. I also have a young daughter and after about a year he started offering days out with her too, which made me fall in love with him more that he didn't have to do that but he ... (354 words)

I feel used and unappreciated by my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

10 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a follow up to my post on the 3rd March about my friend staying with me but not contributing to household costs….. My friend was told that her new living space would now not be ready for a further 3 weeks so I told her that I really did need her to contribute a lit... (289 words)

Is he playing? Feeling confused, foolish, stupid, and ashamed Title

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

9 March 2024 (F) age 41-50 - This guy who lives in my neighborhood and I started communicating and occassionally seeing each other in September 2023. We both are busy and don't get to see each other often. He works 8-12 hours a day, and I am unemployed due to disability and I also am a caregiver for my s... (786 words)

Crazy man I've never met will not leave me alone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

9 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I matched with a guy online. We have FaceTimed one and agreed to meet on date however before the date I changed my mind as he was very pushy and whilst at work he sent me repeated messages despite knowing I was at work asking why I was ignoring him, after work I explained to ... (651 words)

Tired of his drama

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

7 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I met someone online and we began a relationship. He has moved to where I am and I'm seeing a lot of red flags. I didn't ask him to move here, firstly. He did it on his own. Once he arrived here he got angry that I didn't see him for about a month. I work alot.... (172 words)

Polyamory vs Cheating - are you in a polyamorous relationship? Will you do it?

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5 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - After several failed relationships or attempts at love, getting involved in emotional cheating, physical cheating (no sex just a kiss on the lips), I ended up with a conclusion that all these are rooted to lack of honesty in a relationship. And so in my current relation... (157 words)

Am I important to him still? Does he still care for me or is he just stringing me along?

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5 March 2024 (F)

age 41-50 - Everything was going so well, we had a plan. But then I made a mistake, a very immature mistake, that led him to back out of what we we're starting. His words "I won't pursue you romantically anymore. Let's just be friends. You have some growing up and maturing to do. I am ... (377 words)

Should I say something or let it go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

5 March 2024 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether I should speak up or let it go. So me and my boyfriend now (fiance) have been together since we were 16 years old. We have been living together since 21 years old we are now 32. Last year he decided to incorporate sex toys into our sex life which I was ... (194 words)

Friend temporarily staying with me is costing me money and she isn't considerate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

3 March 2024 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is living with me temporarily until her apartment is ready. She went through a break up last year so had to sell her house and needed somewhere to stay until her new living place is ready. She’s been with me 2 weeks and it will possibly be another 2/3 week... (435 words)

Have a made a fool of myself with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

2 March 2024 (F) age 36-40 - I recently ended things with my partner of 7 years around a month ago, things fizzled out a long time ago as i felt like i loved him but wasn’t in love with him and stayed with him purely for our two young children. I went online and was chatting to this guy who is also sepa... (186 words)