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Polyamory vs Cheating - are you in a polyamorous relationship? Will you do it?

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Question - (5 March 2024) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

After several failed relationships or attempts at love, getting involved in emotional cheating, physical cheating (no sex just a kiss on the lips), I ended up with a conclusion that all these are rooted to lack of honesty in a relationship.

And so in my current relationship, I have decided to "foolproof" it by talking about "cheating, boundaries and other sexual fantasies he may have". I also brought up "polyamory". We both agreed that we will consider that as opposed to cheating behind each others backs. And how whether it's a one night stand that we will make sure we get everybody involved tested and be safe from STDs before being sexually active outside our partnership.

This led me to ask....how many of you here practice "Polyamory" and has that helped or broken your, otherwise, peaceful relationship? Would you be willing to do it? Any other thoughts?

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