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writes:i feel silly writing this but if a guy doesn’t constantly text me all the time or go a few days without texting does that mean he is not keen when we meet he says he likes me and is starting to get feelings but could it be because he is texting a lot of other people maybe? I do reach out to him sometimes and he always replies but i don’t want to be constantly bothering him
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2024): You've recognised it's a habit you have so why not try texting less. He has told you his feelings. You don't need to feel insecure. Just let things enfold and enjoy getting to know each other.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 March 2024):
 Constantly texting doesn't equate to caring or liking someone.
How often someone text is about habit and personality.
Or he doesn't want to come across as "too keen".
Could it mean he is talking/texting a lot of other people? Also, possible.
IF you WANT to get to know him, find ways to spend time IN person, AKA go on dates. Save the sex for when you two ACTUALLY know each other well enough IN person to do so.
I will say this though, IF you are ALWAYS the one to reach out, he doesn't seem as interested in getting to know you as you seem to get to know him.
If you didn't reach out, what would happen, you think?
Would HE reach back out?
or
Would the communication just stop?
Maybe you should try it and see. If he doesn't reach out, then maybe you need to look elsewhere for someone to date.
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reader, kenny +, writes (25 March 2024):
 I gather from your post that you have not known him very long and you are still in the getting to know one another stage.
Try not to over think things and make scenarios that may not be happening, or ever happen.
He say's he is starting to get feelings and that he really likes you. In the beginning part of relationships its normal to not be texting all the time. You would rather it this way than someone who wants to text every second of the day burning your phone out.
You have both met, you are both getting to know each other, you meet up, text every now and then because you both have your own lives, this is all good and normal.
Relax, stop over thinking and enjoy getting to know each other.
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