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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Everything was going so well, we had a plan. But then I made a mistake, a very immature mistake, that led him to back out of what we we're starting. His words "I won't pursue you romantically anymore. Let's just be friends. You have some growing up and maturing to do. I am nothing. You are better off with someone else." (I combined most of what he said but this is essentially the message). He had kept the communication going by responding to my messages and engaging in civil conversations BUT it wasn't romantic or intimate as before, understandably. He even said "Forget me. Focus on your life instead." But he still responded to my birthday greeting to him and we even joked. Yet, after two months of this, suddenly he stopped talking to me. And then he deleted 90% of our convos leaving the part "I miss you." that he sent me awhile back. Its been 2 months since he did that. 6mos. since he ended things with me. He still hasn't blocked me on Facebook but he NEVER liked any of my posts or made a comment since 2 months ago. I wish he could just tell me the answers to my questions 2 weeks after he ended it but im left wondering. I think to myself maybe he just needs time. But I wonder if him not answering IS the answer to these questions: can we have another chance at this? Will you forgive me? I need the space to just live my life. I have no intention of bugging him again. BUT what do you think is where he's at?Losing him is devastating but I'm learning to live with it. I told myself, I don't need him to love me back but I can't let myself stop loving him. I can live with this love in my heart, even from a distance. I just wonder, where do you think he's at? How does he feel towards me? Towards us. I know it's hard to say but take your best shot. Thank you.
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