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writes:I have met this guy a couple of times and i have this electric undeniable connection with him, i don’t know him that well at all but when we kiss it’s amazing i know it’s not love but could this connection lead to love i have never had this before with other guys it feels amazing my head is in the clouds at the moment i know i need to get to know this guy on a deeper level but is this infatuation or could this lead to love? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 March 2024):
 Attraction and lust is not love.
But... it CAN lead to love. It can also lead to heartbreak.
You never know. But nothing ventured, nothing gained.
GO SLOW. take your time getting to know him AS a person, IN person. Spend time around him.
How does he treat others? waitstaff, family, friends, coworkers?
Are you compatible?
Do you share hobbies/interests?
Are you both ambitious?
Do you have the same goals? (like marriage, kids or to travel the World)
You are not 15, but a grown woman, so you need to use your brains not just "follow your heart".
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 March 2024):
 Sounds like you are in the beginning stages of those first stages of meeting someone, encountering that connection and getting that dizzy butterfly feeling of connecting with someone you like.
Its very early stages so all you can do is go with the flow, keep meeting up and see what transpires.
Its good that you recognise that its not love at this early stage. There is a huge disparity between love and lust.
Does this have the potential to lead to Love?. Possibly, possibly not. The only way you will find out is to keep meeting up and see where the road takes you.
In the mean time enjoy those beautiful fun feelings of butterflies, head in the clouds feelings and excitement.
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 March 2024):
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2024): Who can tell?
The problem is that you are definitely infatuated with him and cannot think clearly. So whatever this REALLY is, you can't see it.
You need to step back and try to assess the situation. Only you can know how stable and real this is or could become.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2024): Well you're attracted to him for sure. It can be hard to see things clearly so give it time and keep an open mind.
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