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*pcomputer87
writes:Dearcupid. Help me to solve this problem before it is too late. Don't get it twisted. My cousin sister introduce me to her friend for a relationship that could lead to marriage. Me and her met at the restaurant to relax and to explain more about us. She told me everything about her and I told her mine. We planned to marry each other and my cousin sister is aware of that because that's what I told her that I will marry her friend. After the first and second day me and her met. Her behaviour has changed. she don't always attend my calls, whenever she pick the call, she said am busy.Sometime ringing no answer and am worried about it. Sometime I ask myself whether she really love or she just love me cos of my cousin sister. I plan to give her one week break or more to see her reaction. The funny thing now is my cousin brother and her knew before I met her. They have been dating since.He was surprise and told me that he have been dating the girl that I shouldn't joke with him about the girl. He told me If I can remember when he introduce me to the girl about five years ago. I am totally confused and I don't want any problem between me and my cousins because of this girl. Tell me what to do about this. Should I move on or what?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 February 2017):
 I don't think she is ready yet either OP. I mean does she not have a say on who she should marry? It sounds to me like she does not want to marry you, she is making excuses not to see you, you need to read the signs.
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reader, jpcomputer87 +, writes (6 February 2017):
jpcomputer87 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy cousin brother spoke to me and said if I want to marry her that I should go ahead and marry because he don't want to delay the girl in marriage. he simply not ready.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 February 2017):
 So according to your cousin, HE is dating her and has been for the last 5 years? If he is then obviously you can't date her too nor marry her as she is not available. And I don't think this girl is seriously looking for a husband, or maybe she wanted your male cousin to step up and propose IF he has been dating her for 5 years and hasn't offered marriage? So she used YOU to make him jealous.
Why not ask your cousin who introduced you to the girl on what is going on?
However, I'd probably look elsewhere for a bride. Find someone who isn't dating family and get to know her better than 2 dates before deciding on marriage.
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