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writes:Hi,My friend of 1 year 3 months decided to break up with me because of "society" as he says.Because my family background doesn't match up to his expectations,my uncle(my dads sister married him)the uncle in question,who died 23 years ago was a gangster and part of the under world.Now this uncle I haven't met in my life as I was barely 3 years old when he was shot dead and this is a problem to my boyfriend because he comes from a political background.I'm hearbroken and I have started seeking help cuz I went under depression.For a fact that he left me for something that has nothing to do with me which he admits saying I am the best person he has ever met and that he decided to leave because of my family background hurts me.Please tell me how do I deal with this?Right now I reached out to him and he was more than happy to reciprocate saying he misses me but only to leave me again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2016): Your ex has put himself in pole position by cutting you out and he has left you with confusion and unhappiness!
So, to move himself forward he has dumped you ,with a rather pathetic excuse to mull over.
You should be glad to dissassociate!
This man with ambitions is clearly quite ruthless in how he goes about stepping on people in order to move forward!
Can you imagine the Obamas acting that way?
No, because they do not step on people to get where they want to go!
Now , in order for you to stop him using you further you must drop him back!
Just do it or be manipulated for years as he makes his career moves!
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reader, llifton  +, writes (10 September 2016):
 Not that I liked George W. Bush (US president) - I loathed and despised the man. But he married a Democrat while he was a well-established Republican. Of course, she eventually changed over and sold-out. However, point being, politics is just a cop out. If you love someone, you love them. And that's the end of it. You make it work. For him to end things with you over such a stupid reason seems like he was looking for a way to end it. His loss.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 September 2016):
 Stop reaching out to this pathetic, judgmental and shallow man. PLEASE.
It's not like you can change your past, or that o your uncle and quite frankly someone who would judge you on whom your uncle is, is an idiot.
Honey, BLOCK the guy from further contact, delete his number and sally forth and met people who WILL like you and LOVE you for WHO you are. Don't waste your time on someone like this guy. He isn't and wasn't a true friend - and you know it.
Why let him keep you from being happy?
Screw him! And the horse he rode in on!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 September 2016):
 If he really loved you then he would not have walked away from you so quickly, it sounds like he is using that as an excuse. If you want to try and understand then ask him to explain, but at the end of the day, he is either scared that you are mixed up in some sort of troubles, or else he is stuck up.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (9 September 2016):
 I think it is rather interesting to have a colourful relation like that. You found someone who lacks backbone. Good job you found out early.
If on the other hand he was mixed up in 'the troubles' then I can see how your man could be apprehensive over future complications.
You should ask him the reasons for his feint heart.
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