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Archived questions from: 15 July, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Our months together suddenly vanished when he received an email from his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7067 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - hi, I'm 28 years old. I am a stable, funny, talented, adventurous, artistic woman. For the past 7 months I have been seeing a wonderful, loveable, musical, handsome 20 year old. Young yes, but damn handsome and truly loving. He moved out here to escape a painful and unco... (406 words)

If he went soft when we were having sex, does it mean he wasn't enjoying it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - If 2 people are having sex and enjoying it, what does it mean if the guy goes soft half way through?? Does it mean he didnt like me? or wasnt enjoying himself? I'm filling my head with lots of rubbish and just need someone to tell me what it could mean. Thanks... (61 words)

My kids have chosen to live with their father, and I'd like us to be together as a family... just don't know if I can stand my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - I'm 54 years old, and I left my husband about four years ago. We haven't filed for divorce, we're just separated. I have a 24 year old son, and a 19 and a 16 year old daughter. My youngest is rebelious and depressed, and wants to move in with my husband, for religiou... (152 words)

The marriage is only a year old and we've both changed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - I'm 22 years old and married for almost a year.I gained weight with my pregnancy, but I'm working out to lose it. I have a beautiful face but a full figure. I've lost 55 pounds before. I'll do it again within this year. We married early because of our daughter. She's ... (212 words)

What can I do to win her back? I treated her badly in the past...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

15 July 2005 (M) - I have been dating this women for 3 years and grown up with her all my life! Things were great for the first year and a half. Then I cheated on here and disrespected her on and off for about a year while she hung on to me. I was trying to work on it but had other things ... (152 words)

Should I give my ex-husband another chance? He says he's changed...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - My husband and I are separated for 18 months after 23 years of marriage. It was an abusive marriage due to his anger. He now says that he has changed with the help of God. He says he loves me and wants to be a good man to me. He wants us to get back together. I am scared ... (88 words)

My one-night-stand is making me question my long-term relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (?) - I need to know other people's perspectives on this problem. Don't be judgemental, just put yourself in my shoes. Two years ago my bf broke up with me and I went on vacation (4 hours east) and met a guy at the bar. I took it to be a one night stand, but one week later he phone... (127 words)

I don't want a relationship with my co-worker, but don't want to ruin our friendship either...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (M) - I have a co-worker who has shown some attention to me in a casual way for the last couple of weeks. I care about this person and have grown closer over this time; even though we are both married. I'm not sure if she might feel the same way as I. I don't want a relationship, ... (112 words)

When we have any dispute, he storms out of the house. Then he blames me for being emotional...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Hi, my problem is this. I've lived with my boyfriend for the past two years. I sometimes get grumpy as do most women I'm sure. However my boyfriend really hates this and every time we have the smallest of arguments he gets pissed off and stormes out. Then he confuses me and m... (125 words)

I found him hanging out with a group of girls... and he had the hide to introduce me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7067 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - What would you do in this situation? Started seeing someone I used to date a long time ago. At first it's cool, then the calls are a little more infrequent, hanging out once a week, maybe twice. So, anyhow, we hang out on a Monday, and then Tuesday I go out with friends ... (139 words)

We split up after I read a relationship book...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - hi I have recently split up with my bf who I was with for 10 months. The reason we split up was because I read a relationship book, in the book it says to distance yourself from the relationship if it is not going your way. So i decided not to see him for a week. During th... (267 words)

Kissing doesn't do anything for me, but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, who loves it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Ok, basically my problem is that I don't like kissing (on mouth), it really does nothing for me. Recently I have started seeing this guy who seems to love kissing, he's 18 and has been in serious relationships before whereas I never have (I'm 16). When he touches me it feels ... (106 words)

My tears during sex turned to laughter... What was going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7059 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Hi I have a problem. The last time me and my boyfriend had sex, I found myself crying. The crying soon turned to laughter as I became hysterical from the shock of it all. Please help, is this normal? My boyfriend was very concerned, and I need to explain to him that he wasn... (85 words)

My neighbour is lovely, but she's becoming intrusive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - My next door neigbour is a very loving person, with many problems in her life. As a friend I try to be there for her as she does me. The problem is she is very lonely and I have often given her advice on how she can help herself, as all she does is sit every day drinking... (304 words)

Accidentally saw my son's father and I didn't know whether to hate him or love him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - I feel so stuck between love and hate. I haven't seen my son's father in almost four years and out of the blue I see him at the grocery store. I wanted to cry, yell, ask so many questions, but I just couldn't get up the courage. I still love him even though he hasn't been the... (95 words)

His family and I don't get along... and his son isn't much fun either. Should I just learn to deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7069 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but I can't stand his family. Every time he is around them, which is a lot since they live in the same town and they babysit his son, they fight a lot and yell and disrespect each other. It's awkward and uncomfortable, and then my boyfriend is in a bad... (260 words)

I know my girlfriend likes me, but she's not good at showing it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

15 July 2005 (M) - Me and my girl (whom I care a lot about) have been dating for about 2 and a half months. It's been great. I cant go a more than 3 days whitout hearing her voice, at least. I know she likes me, but she shows none of it, sometimes when we're alone, but other than that not too ... (133 words)

Three years into our relationship, my boyfriend needs to "live a single life" in case I leave him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - Im 21. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When he came back from holidays last summer, despite the fact that he emailed me every second day, things had changed for him in that I was becoming a lot less of a priority in his life. He was thinking very far ahead and sayi... (298 words)

What happened? She left her husband for me... then she turned on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7069 days ago

15 July 2005 (M) - I broke every single relationship rule I have... I had a crush on a girl in college seven years ago, remember everything about her, nothing about the classes we shared. Then about seven months ago I ran into her where I work, big office building, didn't know she had been wo... (324 words)