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writes: Me and my girl (whom I care a lot about) have been dating for about 2 and a half months. It's been great.I cant go a more than 3 days whitout hearing her voice, at least. I know she likes me, but she shows none of it, sometimes when we're alone, but other than that not too much affection.When I move in for the kiss she is hesitant and sometimes moves away. It's been like this for 2 weeks. I don't know what to do.She is a great kisser! And then after she turns away it makes me feel like I'm overwhelming her.Am I too overpowering for her? Please help, I am currently away for 2 weeks, and I can't wait to hold her again.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (15 July 2005):
 It could be that your girlfriend feels embarrassed and awkward about displaying affection but I think you need to ask her if this is the case.
Explain to her that you are a little concerned that sometimes she turns away from you and you are worried that you are pushing her to much. Then wait for her response.
By all means tell her how you feel and that you care for her but allow her to answer this question first.
She may not be a girl that easily displays affection, particularly in public but the only way to find out is to ask her how she feels, gently and tactfully.
I hope this helps.
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reader, lyns +, writes (15 July 2005):
OK, this sounds like a situation I have been in before, but I was your gf not you. When I first got together with my current bf I was unsure. I felt he smothered me and I felt guilty because I knew he liked me more than I liked him.I didn't want to finish with him because I did like him; I just didn't love him. Anyway I persisted and know I am madly in love with him.I suggest you back off just a little bit so she feels she can breathe. Still see her as much as you was but when your in her company just give her a little space. She must like you otherwise she wouldn't be with you. Do things for her that will make you look at her in a different way, like getting her favourite dvd and watching it with her. Take her to the cinema or the zoo, buy her a rose. It's the little things us girls like.
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