I'm 14 and pregnant, my mum's single and disabled, please advise me what to do.
Q. I'm 14 and i'm pregnant. The boy doesn't want me to have the baby he's only 16. My mom doesn't think i should either. My mom is a disabled single mom and we are having a hard time. She takes care of me and my 10 yr old sister by herself. Is it fair...
A. 3 May 2008: im going to be honest im a 19 year old ive just had a beautiful baby girl wjo is 11 weeks old, it is very hard my dad is also disabled and my daughter has brought joy to everyone, what i am trying to say only u can make this decision and yes it is ... (read in full...)
How can I break it off with her after all this time?
Q. I want to quit my present relationship because there's no communication, she does not call. I'm tired of it and not happy most times when I flash back. How do I break this relationship of 1 year and 7 months?...
A. 1 September 2007: hiya
the best thing for you both to do is talk about your feelins.you both may decide that there isnt anything worth putting in to the relationship that is worth saving yuboth may feel the same wa...speaking about it will make you both feel bet... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a guy friend. I want to tell him how I feel?
Q. I have been friends wth this boy for years, and as you have proberly guessed i really like him (as more than a friend) but recently he has started dating my best friend and i dont know what to do, as i know she really likes this other boy, i wa...
A. 1 September 2007: hiya hun
the thing is with getting involved with your guy mate is that if he dont feel the samethen you will or may not b mates again...but if you go these feelings you will feel the urge to get this off your chest and it is always better to do so... (read in full...)
I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!
Q. Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...
A. 1 September 2007: hey alrght hun.me again.
this is sort of inappropriate but it depends how close of friends that he is at the end of the day if he is only jokin then it is only a bit of fun.but can you tel how serious he is?/ have you spoken to him about it??? an... (read in full...)
I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!
Q. Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...
A. 31 August 2007: right first thing first luv....my boyfriend is the biggest culprit of eyeing up the ladies we could be in the car in a full blown conversation and he will start eyeing up a girl and i will be like what the it does bother me but at the end of the day ... (read in full...)
Is there too much damage between us for things to be how they used to?
Q. Hi, i need some help. I lost a baby after 15 weeks about 4 months ago, but had to go in to hospital because the baby had been dead for 3 weeks. ever since this has happened me and my fiance havent been the same since. We don't talk anymore and i fi...
A. 31 August 2007: hya hun
well the reason you are finding it so hard is because you have gone through a lt at the moment....the best thing is for you to speak to you partner otherwise you are not going to mend yourself..if you open up then your partner will to ... (read in full...)
I'm still worried I could be pregant!
Q. Hi everyone, Well about 3 days ago i lost my virginity and he was protected , we had sex for about 30 mins , but we had to discontinue because my mom came home . so he came over the next day and we had sex once again but unprotected this time ,ye...
A. 31 August 2007: hey hun...
you will need to go and speak to your doctor because only they can tel you what you need t know...you not stupid everybody does things ike that...the only way you will rest your mind is if you go and see the doc...it will be to early to... (read in full...)
Can the size of your vagina change?
Q. Can the size of your vagina change? Or, does it just stay "tight" if it is that way, or loose if it is that way? My guy sometimes will say that mine isn't tight, and it hurts my feelings....
A. 31 August 2007: hey hun....
blimmin blokes they havent got a clue have they....well a bloke likes making the girl feel like shit but not all are the same and as the fact that your vagina is not as tight as he would like then that is his problem you cant help the... (read in full...)
Should a guy satisfy the girl first and then themselves??
Q. Is it just me, or should guys care about satisfying the girl first, and then themselves during sexual relations? It just seems like the guy I am with only cares about pleasing himself. ...
A. 31 August 2007: hya hun
the thing is when it comes to blokes as the lady said before men are selfish but you can stop that by telling him that he needs to put you first sometimes and that you got needs... dont be to harsh though coz some blokes cant help it....bu... (read in full...)
I'm a girl and worried about what to do during my first time.
Q. what does the girl do in sex? i am a virgin but am thinking about having sex woth my bf of 15 months. We are both virgins so he's not sure either but what does the girl do in sex?? do i jst lay there or do i hav to move or what? obviously i am going ...
A. 31 August 2007: hya hun...
firstly dont want to preach but have you thought about contreception before you even think about making love to your boyfriend................... well gettin down to the good stuff you only do what you are happy with doing yes you do m... (read in full...)
He treats me bad and I feel i should leave. I need some strength...
Q. Thank you for you support through your advice. I have been with the guy am talking about for almost 4 years. We moved for 1 and half year and without any reason he left me. I never went into any relationship again because I loved him. After 3 ...
A. 30 August 2007: hey hun
first thing first a rlationship is built on trust if you dont trust him then you shouldnt be with him...because it not halthy for the two of you...but h soundd like a dick to begin with to be honest with you but now he has introduc... (read in full...)
He treats me bad and I feel i should leave. I need some strength...
Q. Thank you for you support through your advice. I have been with the guy am talking about for almost 4 years. We moved for 1 and half year and without any reason he left me. I never went into any relationship again because I loved him. After 3 ...
A. 30 August 2007: hey hun
first thing first a rlationship is built on trust if you dont trust him then you shouldnt be with him...because it not halthy for the two of you...but h soundd like a dick to begin with to be honest with you but now he has introduc... (read in full...)
Together 4 yrs, I had to go away, she said she would wait, I got back and shes vanished! How do I deal with no explanation and no contact?
Q. My girlfriend of four years planned our breakup two months before I was to take a work related trip to Italy.We spent Christmas and the night before I left together.We exchanged gifts made love, and I looked into her eyes to say to her how much I ...
A. 27 April 2007: you have done all you can and you need to let her go you need to get on with it and enjoy yourself meet some one new i know that you loved her dearly but she making it impossible for you to explain sorry i cant help much more i know it hard
good ... (read in full...)
After 2 years she wants a break, I feel in limbo, what do I do ?
Q. Ok being dateing this girl for 2 years I worship the grounds she walks on She rcently broke up with me she tells me she stills loves me still misses me but just wants to be friends feel like my heart has been ripped out...... Then she tells ...
A. 27 April 2007: this is a hard situation because you have spent two years of your life with this girl andd it will feel as if your heart has ripped out what you should do is go throug wit her plan of having a break it dont mean you cant see her prove to her that ... (read in full...)
Due to get married after 7ys together, not sure if I'm "in love" him, is this just pre-wedding nerves ?
Q. Help!! I have been with my partner for nearly 7 years, we live together and are due to get married in a few months. However - I really dont know if I am doing the right thing! I do love him and he is a great guy - BUT - I just dont think ...
A. 27 April 2007: please please dont get maried if ur having doubts it not fair to either of u, you could decide to get married and be totally unhappy you dont want that on the other hand you may be the happiest you have ever been,you need to speak to your fiancee ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to have any girl "friends", I can't believe her attitude!
Q. My girlfriend says that she would have been put off by me if i'd have had girl friends not relationships just girls as friends before i met up with her in person. I remember she used to get funny with me if i was chatting to another girl on ...
A. 27 April 2007: you should have just said to her it not fair that she is being like this with you, a relationship is built on trust and everybody knows that if u havent got trust then the relationship wont succseed...of course you are entitled to having girl mates ... (read in full...)
He's getting vulgar texts from another girl but pretends he doesn't know who they're from, why won't he just admit he knows her?
Q. Why wont he admit it? My boyfriend is getting these texts from this girl who i know he know's.. she texts him dirty things and this isnt the first time.. he pretends that he doesn't know who its from.. why dont he just tell me.. or does he have ...
A. 27 April 2007: hya babes
it tough being in a situation like this it is hard because the guy flies off the handle everytime you mention something like this and then it makes you think are they hiding something i have been in a situation like this with my bf but ... (read in full...)
Do gals prefer to give oral sex or do they prefer to recieve it??
Q. Do gals prefer to give oral sex or do they prefer to recieve it??...
A. 27 April 2007: well me and my bf do it equally that what i reckon is the best so you not missing out then lol... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my friend but lately he has been telling me to get over him and meet other guys.
Q. I have feelings for my friend but lately he has been telling me to get over him and meet other guys. He called me yesterday and asked me if I've been talking to guys and I responded no so he got mad at me and told me that I better have a boyfriend ...
A. 27 April 2007: hun hun hun my question is why did he say it like that,,,thats an ultimatium i wouldnt put up with that who gives him the right you need to stand up for yourself and say il get a bf when im good and ready and not when you tell me i cant believe he ... (read in full...)
Should we look into new kissing techniques or do you think it means that I'm just not feeling the chemistry?
Q. With the exception of my neck, I am not turned on by my boyfriend's kisses on any parts of my body, to the point that i've sometimes wanted him to stop kissing me because he does it so much (haven't had the heart to bring it up). Should we look into ...
A. 27 April 2007: hya hun this is a toughie
u just may not be turned on where he kisses you or it may be the fact that it the way he is kissing you so yeah bring it up with him and try and explore different ways of kissing like little at a time little sexy kiss... (read in full...)
Took my pill too late and had unprotected sex--how long do I wait before taking a pregnancy test??
Q. well, i am 17 years old. i had unprotected sex and i took my pill too late and its too late to take the morning after pill.. how long do i wait before taking a test its been two days... the main problem is that i was going to break uo with my...
A. 26 April 2007: hya chicks..well your on the pill it highly unlikely that you can catch but it is possible what i mean is if you are trying for a baby you have to come off itt it could takes weeks...im not saying it aint possible though you need to do a test to put ... (read in full...)
Not sure if i could be pregnant!
Q. ok PLEASE please help ... not sure if i could be pregnant.. i had unprotected sex on the 13th of april... i was freaked, but had my period the following day and was delighted... only i had unprotected sex the day after... he didnt cum or anything...
A. 26 April 2007: im not going to give you a lecture about having unprotected sex but please use condoms otherwise you will be worrying like this all the time...do a test babes if your worried or go to seee your doctor... (read in full...)
I like him then he ignores me, so I stop liking him and he likes me again!!!
Q. I really like this boy from school and I have been told that he likes me and I cant get him out of my head. Though sometimes he acts as though he doesnt even know I'm here. After these times I stop thinking about him, but when this happens he talks ...
A. 26 April 2007: since your so young babes these are the classic signs of him fancying you but he is afraid of what his friends say you seem very mature and talk to him about it he can only say no cant he try it... (read in full...)
I'm crazy over this girl, do I tell her and risk being rejected again!?
Q. i fancy my m8. we talk alot. i asked her to da prom last year n she said yes but made an excuse later. she woz reli quiet for bout a few weeks n didnt talk much afta. i guess she didnt lyk me. well im crazy ova er now! do u guyz fink its worth t...
A. 26 April 2007: hya
well all i can say is if you feel like this then you need to tell her face to face but then you need to think about the fact is that you are friends and if you say something and you get rejected then it maybe to awkward around eaco... (read in full...)
Are Good Looks Everything?
Q. Are Good Looks Everything? Hi There, I was just wondering do you think that good looks are everything because i personally dont.. but many of my friends say that 'oooo hes ugly' when its there personality that attracts me to a boy and not just the...
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
na personally i think that personality is the main part in a guy looks dont matter a bit even though they do help personality is the main thing
put it like this what would you prefer
a guy who is the most gorgeous thing you have ever ... (read in full...)
Does his lack of contact mean hes just not interested in me ?
Q. hi, ok so my boyfriend has been away for four weeks and i will see him again in two weeks when we go travelllng together... he did promise that he'd call every day, tho i didnt expect him to coz hes on holidays he shudnt have to but he's only ...
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
just relax at the end of the day he is on holiday and is just enjoying himself it doesnt mean he aint thinking about you and it not as if he hasnt made any contact he may just be busy there is nothing to worry about soon he willl be back ... (read in full...)
I want to make a move on him, but dont want my friends to be mad at me!!!
Q. Okay this is like the typical issue with teenage girls.. only it usually happens in like middle school.. but im 16 and me and my two other friends all think this guy is extremely gorgeous.. and hes got a sweet personality too.. so we all decided not ...
A. 26 April 2007: well thinking about it and doing it is 2 different things...you need to ask yourself these questions
is a silly crush that may not go anywhere worth upsetting and maybe losing them worth it
o just maybe talk to them and see if they say go ahead... (read in full...)
We have trouble talking and communicating and its only been two months! Help!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two months now as I write this. The beginning of our relationship was happy and fun, and we can still almost sense each other's feelings and thoughts. I love her very deeply, and I know she loves me, ...
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
well some people find it rather difficult to talk on the phone beacause you cant see the other people talking i dont think you have got anything to worry about cos as you said you two are very intamite so why dont you txt her you prob wou... (read in full...)
We decided we are better as friends, but it hasnt been the same since we tried dating!!
Q. I went out with my best friend for only 2 day... then we realized that we were better as friends. But lately we aren't as close of friends as we used to be. How do I get the relationship back to normal?...
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
for some reasons when you tend to take the next step with one of your friends that when you finish it just seems to be downhill but this is such a odd situation because you was only togrther for two days but you need to speak to your fri... (read in full...)
I want a baby but im only 14 years old!
Q. Please help me! I want a baby but im only 14 years old! My boyfriend is 16 and we want to be parents already! I feel ready for some reason! What shall i do!!??? Please please help me....
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
you may feel ready but your still young you got your life still ahead of you it not a doll it a human being you will have a responsibility and you just cant pass it on on and on it wont be fair to the baby
and there is your educatio... (read in full...)
He makes me wet, but that's all. What can be his problem?
Q. I'm going out with someone for about 6 months. The first 3 months we had a lot of sexy moments together. I'm about 80% sure that he likes me because he invites me to go out, he say nice things to me, frequently he calls me that he miss me and want...
A. 26 April 2007: hya hun
he prob like this because he may be thinking that you dont want it to go any further even though you have been having sexy moments and he is prob shy so speak to him and see what he says
hope this helps... (read in full...)
I sometimes agree with the nasty things they say about my GF, should I finish it ?
Q. ok me and my girlfriend are kinda having problems. i love her to death but my friends hatee her. non of my friends like and they say mean things that i sometimes agree with . should i keep her or dump her? please help me!...
A. 26 April 2007: well as you just said you love her to death but you should be sticking up for your gf my bf would and does when his mates say things only you can answer do u still want to be with her
good luck ... (read in full...)
He made this comment when I was giving him a handjob! What did it mean?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend a hand-job today and he smiled and said "if you carry on like that you're going to tip me over the edge" any ideas on what he meant? x...
A. 25 April 2007: why do you assume she young coz she didnt know what it meant..she asked for advice not a lecture.......anyway it meant he was really enjoying it so keep up the good work... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for normal people to masturbate?
Q. I just want to know is it normal for people to want to masturbate? Is their anything wrong with it aslong as it doesn't become excessive? I must admit I'm 14 and I find myself wanting to sometimes, I do it privately is this wrong? Chee...
A. 24 April 2007: hey there nothing wrong atall for anyone to masturbate so just relax and enjoy
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Sex felt good, but then it started to hurt. What's the problem here?
Q. Hi, I've been seeing this guy for about a month. I really like him and we had sex. It was my first time and it was really good but then it started to hurt and we had to stop. Is this normal? Thank you. ...
A. 20 April 2007: hya hun
why dont you try lube it will be easier and more comfort maybe just try something smaller for you to get used to haveing anal sex... (read in full...)
Go for the best mate with the great looks or the best mate with the great personality?
Q. I have started college in september and i really like two guys the problem is the are best mates. One is really good looking with a nice personality but the other is not as good looking but with a great personality! The problem is they both flirt ...
A. 20 April 2007: hiya hun
well eventhough looks do help it is the personality that is the thing to go 4 in a guy at the end of the day it pointless having somebody that never laughs or knows to have a joke he could be the best looking guy on this world but he m... (read in full...)
My sister is only 14 and going on the pill, Is this just so she can now have sex ?
Q. My sister is being put on the pill, and she is only 14. She is a virgin, and she says she wants to have birth control to help her periods. She just got her first high school boyfriend. As her sister I am afraid that she is doing this so that she ...
A. 20 April 2007: some teenagers think that this is an excuse to have sex but she most prob telling the truth and especially if your mam agrees with her... (read in full...)
Together 4 months, ready for the next step (sex) But how do I tell him!?
Q. Hi i've been with my bf for 4 months now and feel ready for the next step with him (we have done other stuff but not that) i think he is too (it will be his first time not mine) just i don't know how to bring it up with him. Things had bee...
A. 20 April 2007: hiya
well things like that just happen but you also need to speak to your bf to see how he feels you just need to be open with him just tell him that you want to be physical with him and that you are ready if he is..if he aint then you have to ... (read in full...)
Nothing more was mentioned about our date, do you think hes gone off the idea ?
Q. hi, im 20 and there is this guy that i like whos 22 and he really likes me yet nothing is happening between us. we text for hours during the day, speak on the phone for hours and he has said he really likes me yet when i suggested a date he said yes ...
A. 20 April 2007: cd is right...you need to break the ice by asking him firstly if he wants to go out with you and your mates and maybe his and ask him then does he fancy doing something in the week just you to and then take it from there you can see he is interested ... (read in full...)
I slapped him in temper, hes left me but left a note, it says he still loves me! I dont know what to do!?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years i left a violent marriage to be with him. The last two years have been very bad i discovered i was pregnant but had to terminated as he "wasnt ready for the comittment" my father was diagnosed with cancer and ...
A. 19 April 2007: hya hun
soz to hear about all this...he just needs time to calm down a bit or he may something that he will regret or do something...you need to sit down and speak to him about it and appologise say you were in the wrong and it wont happen..... (read in full...)
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