My soon-to-be-wife proposed a threesome... serious opinions please?
Q. Ok, my gf and I enjoy our sex life and we r very experimental. We are normally a very private and intimate couple but we’re always open to try new things. (We r 28yrs old btw) Now which guy wouldn’t fancy a threesome? (of course FFM) but I never ...
A. 19 August 2008: I agree with Tellulah. Its more trouble then its worth. Besides a three some where you can't do anything with the other girl...? Thats just stupid. Three somes arnt as much as they are cracked up to be. I have done it and I will tell you I wo... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do with my life
Q. hello, well this is going to sound really random. but im scared with what to do with my life. im going into my last two years of high school and im taking my GCSEs pretty soon. Ive always liked the ideas of writing books, i have good ideas but then...
A. 15 August 2008: Most people don't know what they want to do at your age. Look at me im 20 I have ideas but I am not 100% sure what to do. My suggestion is not to worry about making a big choice to soon, if nothing else go to college and get a General Studies ... (read in full...)
How can I make my beautiful young sexy wife agree to have sex with my friends?
Q. I have been married since 3 years and have a 2 yr. old son. There is something going on inside me, which turns me on. My wife is very beautiful, young, sexy, but she is a homely girl. I want to see my wife having sex with 2-3 guys at a time in front ...
A. 4 August 2008: What is wrong with you? If you want to watch some guys tag team somebody look at porn, that is something you should never want to do to your wife, thats just messed up.
Do you realize what that could do to her emotionally? Not to mention the heal... (read in full...)
Do guys like short girls?
Q. do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?...
A. 4 August 2008: I love short girls, I dated a girl who was 5' and it was awesome.
Im 6' 3" by the way.... (read in full...)
We broke up, have had no contact, saw him at a function, he said nothing, just looked at me, and left early, I want to be friends, but cannot bring myself to contact him, what should I do?
Q. Hi there. I am hoping the great agony aunts can help me here. The answers are great and so prompt so thanks in advance. My ex and I had a pretty fiery breakup at the beginning of June. I was upset, he was upset and we have had no contact at all f...
A. 29 July 2008: Leave it alone, its to soon. Also the chances of you two being friends arnt even all that great. Sometimes it just doesnt work out like that. If it does it usually takes awhile in which you shouldnt contact him.
No eye contact, wouldn't talk to ... (read in full...)
He loves pornography, if I start behaving in bed like a porn star, will he stop watching the pornography?
Q. I know my boyfriend loves me, but if I start acting like a porn star in bed and doing all the acts he enjoys watching in porn, will he begin to lose interest in porn and stop watching it altogether? I've lost weight and now I'm thin like the girls ...
A. 29 July 2008: Porn is a fantasy, its really something you watch to "dream about" and nothing more. Act like you want to in bed, but don't try and act like a porn star. Changing it up is fine, trying new things is fine. But don't do it because he likes to watch ... (read in full...)
My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?
Q. My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally ...
A. 29 July 2008: Could be, but your going to need a little more evidence then this. I agree with Fade, straight up ask him whats going on. If nothing else tell him you think that him spending so much time with his friend is taking away from you two.... (read in full...)
I get a lot of sleep, but I'm always tired, how do I get my mom to take me to the doctor?
Q. this isn't about love or sex or any relationships.. But I still need some help.. I sleep A LOT and I'm not sure whats wrong with me, my mom wont let me go to the doctor or anything to get checked because she just thinks it's the way I sleep...
A. 29 July 2008: Well two things one the if you sleep to much it actually makes you more tired. I would recommend trying to keep a scedual I sleep about 5-6 hours a night then again that isnt by choice Military....
Another thing I have noticed drinking water, i... (read in full...)
I just can't seem to get how I feel about him out in words!
Q. If a guy asks you how do you feel about him what do you say. I know how i feel i just cant seem to get it out in words....
A. 29 July 2008: Well depending on how you feel about him,
I like you,
I love you,
You make me unexplainibly happy,
You are to amazing for words,
Something along the lines of that might help...... (read in full...)
The word 'cousin' is keeping him apart from me, I've never felt love like this before!
Q. I have fallen totally in love with my 1st cousin and he feels the same but he feels he cant move forward with me because of the word cousin,we have always had a special bond between us and have only just recently meet up at a relatives funeral after ...
A. 29 July 2008: Well, persoanlly I think that you two should go for it. Who is sociaty to tell us who we can and can't love? Love is not something that we make, we can't understand it. As long as its with in the law who cares what others think?
You are both at ... (read in full...)
What is a Jack the Lad?
Q. I have recently star6ted seeing a young man and we seem to be getting on well. His sister I get on very well with and she4 confided in me and said I know he is my brother but watch out and dont egt huirt as he has always BEN A AJck Teh Lad. ...
A. 24 July 2008: a Jack the Lad (British, informal, old-fashioned)
a confident and not very serious young man who behaves as he wants to without thinking about other people. Three children with three different women? Well, he always was a bit of a Jack the Lad.
Se... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became my stepsister!
Q. Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...
A. 23 July 2008: Well, I am glad to have helped! I hope it all works out well for you. Sounds like its going pretty good so far (well for the most part) Good luck!
-Cris... (read in full...)
He's 44 and she's 19. Is he a pervert?
Q. the man i am sleeping with, wants an open relationship, i am in love with him so go along with it just to be with him. Now he tells me hes met a 19yr old girl and wants to see her again cos they have a connection - he's 44! does that make him a ...
A. 22 July 2008: Regardless of how old he is, she is 19 which means she is legal so to answer your question, no he isnt a pervert.... (read in full...)
If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?
Q. hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you...
A. 22 July 2008: I agree with Jen exept for one thing, you can like hetero and still be gay. For instance, men watch porn for the woman right? We really arnt bothered by the namked dude as long as the woman is there. Could be the same for somebody who is gay, he ... (read in full...)
I've been a faithful girlfriend for years - why am I tempted by this new guy?
Q. Im in a long term relationship and can honestly say Ive never even turned my head at another guy in the 5 years we have been together but recently a guy at work has caught my attention and Im confused. I have only known him since december but he ...
A. 22 July 2008: Because he is THERE, you don't have to wait weeks, or months to see him. You can see him pretty much when ever you want. Further more your flattered that he is "interested" makes you feel wanted. It happends, one of the reasons long distance ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became my stepsister!
Q. Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...
A. 17 July 2008: Well, as you guys were dating befor you became "step siblings" I don't see a reason to break it off.
Obviously you guys really like each other, and like I said this happend befor the wedding. As for your friends, who cares? They will think wh... (read in full...)
Sex without Protection
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? ...
A. 14 July 2008: It is very possible, You need to go take a pregnancy test. As for the dreams they are more then likely due to you being worried about being pregnant, not necisarly meaning that you actually are.
But please, your to young to have a child use prot... (read in full...)
Is anybody NOT cheating?
Q. Does anyone know TRUTHFULLY of any couples who have never cheated on their partners of say over 5 years in a relationship. I despair all my friends are saying their partners are cheating not jsut the men women too. Is anyone faithful these days ...
A. 11 July 2008: Yes, my Brother and his Wife dated for 6 years and then got married and have been for 2 years now. In that time neither have cheated.
Its rare, but it is possible.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents think it was slutty to leave with with a hickey, how can I change this?
Q. my bf's parents saw the hickey (love bite) i gave him, weve been going out for 10months and were both 17 they told him i was a slut how do i make them realise im not? how do i fox things please help!!!...
A. 10 July 2008: His parents need to grow up, nothing wrong with leaving your mark on your man. I know that you want his parents to like you, but honestly you not dating his parents your dating him.
My girlfriends parents dont like me. but that is because I am whi... (read in full...)
Read text about my boyfriend and one of my good friend's relationship, now I am troubled, any suggestions how to deal with this pain?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend since july 2006, but than when 2008 hit he broke up with me at least 4 times because he wanted 'time to do his own thing for a while', and guy stuff like that. So, during probbaly our third break up, I find out he slept ...
A. 8 July 2008: Well, why would you want to be friends with this girl? She didn't care about you when she did it, do you think she wouldn't do it again?
As for him, why are you with him still? He broke up with you so he could sleep with other people and once he ... (read in full...)
Dating for a year, how do I get her to realize I want to kiss her?
Q. me and my gf have been dating for a year now. i am 14 she is 13 . we have have been huging and holding hands my question is how do i make her want to kiss me but she does not know i want to help please....
A. 8 July 2008: If you have been with her for a year, then I would assume she wants you to kiss her. If I were you I would just kiss her. Don't ask "Can I kiss you?" because that is just lame... Wait for a good time (Like when she is looking you in the eyes and you ... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Ever hear the phrase "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? It isn't as simple as "Guys like this one type" every guy is different. Just like when you break it down, what body part do guys notice first/perfer. I am an eye/smile guy.
I really d... (read in full...)
My BF's semen was white at some point, now it is yellow! Is this normal?
Q. Ey! I guess im back..:) My question is kinda wierd but its worth it... I was wondering what normal semen actually look like. I realised my boyfriend's semen looked yellow. Is this normal or is there something wrong with it. I know it was white at...
A. 1 July 2008: during sexual arousal the prostate gland manufactures fluid that accounts for about 2/3 of the volume of ejaculate. The seminal vesicles are paired structures located behind the prostate gland that also manufacture fluid. Sperm from the testicles ... (read in full...)
How late is too late to enter the dating game in the modern world?
Q. How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start experiencing relationships. 20? 23? 25? 30? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due t...
A. 1 July 2008: Yes, girls like guys with more experience. This is for quite a few reasons. But No, its not to late to start dateing. I didn't start till I was 18, yes its a little harder but its a learn as you go thing, the only way you can get better at it/ get ... (read in full...)
Do men these days really want LOVE or do they just want pure SEX?
Q. I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be ...
A. 30 June 2008: I want a real relationship, yeah sex is great but really doesnt proove anything. A real relationship is a battle worth braging about. It takes far more energy and heart ache to make a relationship work then just to go and sleep with somebody.
... (read in full...)
Is this too much of an age difference?
Q. Hi everyone... I'm after meeting this guy a few weeks ago and have been out on a few dates and we just get on really well... The thing is the other nite we were talking and I found out he's nearly 24 and I'm 31 next month! I thought he said he...
A. 30 June 2008: I don't think it is that big of an age difference. 7 years? Please. If you like each other then why does it matter?... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16 and never had a boyfriend. I am also shy. Any suggestions?
Q. Im nearly 16, and have never had a boyfriend. Is that strange? I'm really sick of waiting for someone to come along! Im good looking and have a nice personality, and people are always asking me "Why dont you have a boyfriend?" which makes ...
A. 27 June 2008: No, thats not odd at all. You are still young, I didn't have my first Girlfriend till I was 18, I know some girls that didn't have a boyfriend till they were 20. Don't try to date just because everyone else is doing it, it will just cause more ... (read in full...)
Is she just toying with me?
Q. I'm a pretty confident guy and normally feel fine around women.This girl i met a while back has confused me like never before though.At first we didn't get on at all,she even said she thought i was arrogant (to my face) on our 2nd meeting!She told ...
A. 24 June 2008: Sounds to me like she is a big flirt.
She wants to flirt with you via text when she has the time, or when she feels like it. Or possibly when she has nobody else to flirt with. Yet when you try to talk to her on your time she is "busy"
I don't t... (read in full...)
My fiancee told me things about her past. I wonder..can I trust her, in the future?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and recently got engaged. There is no doubt that I love my fiance. There is however something that I have never shared with anyone and wanted to know what your advice would be. About two weeks after startting ...
A. 24 June 2008: How much of your past have you left out? I know you havn't told her everything. You know what, I don't want to know every little detail of my lovers life because its not my place to know. Yes if its a big enough deal then I might "want" to know, but ... (read in full...)
My large breasts are a real hassle...should I get a breast reduction?
Q. This is kinda awkward 2 ask without sounding totally full of myself, but here goes. I have really big boobs, which i hate by the way, and my friends boyfriends always comment on. It makes me uncomfortable. They kinda look fake because im slim. They ...
A. 24 June 2008: Well, every girl is jealous of somebody they think they cannot compete with. Don't take that in a bad way, people can't always be pleased and the best thing is just to not try to please everyone.
For the breast reduction DO NOT get it if you are ... (read in full...)
Why do straight people develop romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?
Q. Does anyone have a psychological insight into why one can easily develop sexual/romantic feelings for a friend of your own gender even if you are usually straight? ...
A. 24 June 2008: ever think about the possibility that you arn't straight?
possibly bi?
If your straight your straight. I have some really close friends and I have never once thought of them sexually, or romanticly.
Maybe your just confused.... (read in full...)
What can I do? ! really hate my body!
Q. Hi i'm sure you get this all of the time but i'm going to ask my question anyway. i really hate my body. i have small breasts (about a b-cup) they used to be bigger (a c cup) and then they shrunk (i lost 30 pounds because i was overweight). they are...
A. 24 June 2008: I find smaller "perky" and well shaped beasts more attractive. I am not into huge boobs, because one they just arn't all the atractive, and two women start to have back trouble as the breast size goes up... which just isnt cool.
As for breast i... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?
Q. I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...
A. 24 June 2008: If he really cares about you he will wait. You have nothing to prove my sleeping with him. Besides your young, wait as long as you can.
My Girlfriend is 20 years old and a virgin, sex can always wait plain and simple.
-Cris... (read in full...)
Stuck in "friend zone" with this girl I like! What do you think?
Q. I'm in love with a girl who has a boyfriend. I know a lot of people are in my situation but I have been stuck in the 'just friend' zone with this girl for the past year. She likes talking to me and admits it, because her boyfriend doesn't listen ...
A. 23 June 2008: The best way in some cases to keep fighting is to stop. About the only way you can get out of the friend zone is to distance yourself. Stop talking to her as much, don't hangout hardly at all. When you do hang out if you can, try and do it with ... (read in full...)
If we don't like each other then what is this?
Q. This guy i work with liked me since i began working with him at [...],and he told me when i first started,but we never hooked up.I have feelings for him because we spent a lot of time off work together,it felt like a relationship.Now we argue ...
A. 23 June 2008: Argueing doesn't mean that you don't like each other, or even that you don't get along. Everyone argues, we are only human. As for you both geting upset talking about "other people", I can see two reasons. One, it was never an actual relations... (read in full...)
She's really confusing me! Can you help?
Q. uhm.. Hey to all. I need some advice. Please! Well here is my story... Im dating this other girl... For a month and two weeks now already. But i dont know what to do. during the week everything is fine and we talk through text messages and voice ...
A. 23 June 2008: First, How long has she acted like this?
second, you need to talk to her. During the Week when she isn't acting different talk to her about making plans for that or the following weekend. Now if she doesn't want to bring up the fact that she neve... (read in full...)
He flirts and he seems interested. Is he serious?
Q. hey! there is this guy.let me call him X.well,X and i live in separate ocuntries but we talk via mail,msg etc everyday.he doesnt call me often and neither do i. our families know each other and i used to think of him as a n elder brother..but d...
A. 23 June 2008: Yeah, he doesn't want to hear you talk about other men... because he likes you.... (read in full...)
He flirts and he seems interested. Is he serious?
Q. hey! there is this guy.let me call him X.well,X and i live in separate ocuntries but we talk via mail,msg etc everyday.he doesnt call me often and neither do i. our families know each other and i used to think of him as a n elder brother..but d...
A. 20 June 2008: Sounds to me like he likes you, grant it I don't know anything more then you tell me. First of all I have never known guys to put their arms around somebody they don’t fine sexually appealing. I would never put my arm around my real sisters, let ... (read in full...)
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