I feel confused, lost and alone
Q. Hi I'm 23, and have been with my fiance for 2 and a quarter years, we met in my workplace when I was 20 and she was my first girlfriend, being overweight, and a bit of a reclusive person I had, and still have almost no self esteem. Due to this ...
A. 27 August 2008: Oh boy have I got some answers for you. one the lack of errection may be from the weight. Overweight people are more likely to have circulation problems and you need that blood to be at attention. As for the way she treats you, there is something ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the 'woman on top position' both for my size and it being uncomfortable after a while...
Q. I'm getting married this upcoming November. although my fiancee and i have been sexually active in the past, we have abstained from actual intercourse for the past year and a half. i've rarely had 'woman on top' sex (one of the things i was try...
A. 24 May 2008: You sound like I did many years ago. At that time I was a size 10 and thought I must be the fatest person out there. Now i'm a size 16 and am actually more comfortable during sex. My boyfriend, like yours, likes or doesn't mind my size. I was ... (read in full...)
Husband blames me for getting pregnant on purpose!
Q. hi, i have been married now for less than two years, we have had a tough time with our marriage to be honest. Broken up and have gotten back together since, originally we had broken up, as he did not know if he wanted to be married, he was ...
A. 23 April 2008: Chances are you aren't pregnant just screwed up because you stopped the pills midstream. Most people, me included, take several months off the pill to get pregnant. Don't worry about it, kick him to the curb, and find someone who actually loves ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering because of my husband's lack of affection towards me!
Q. My husband is not affectioniate towards me now that i am pregnant, i feel so alone and not loved, What should i do? please help...
A. 18 April 2008: I had the same thing happen to me. Just because he was afraid to have sex, he seemed to cut out all affection. He wasn't ever really affectionate anyway but at the baby shower he showed off a bit so I knew it was just him being him. I dunno what ... (read in full...)
How long to fall pregnant after sex?
Q. My current girlfriend fell pregnant two months after she was dumped by her former boyfriend. Is it possible that her former boyfriend is the father of the child? Some people are suggesting that she might have slept with someone else after the ...
A. 17 April 2008: It only takes a few days to a week after sex for the ferilized egg to implant. The most common time to get pregnant is 2 weeks after her last period but it is possible anytime after her last period as well. Basically if she had sex with anyone else ... (read in full...)
Responses only from readers who are experienced with what I'm speaking of please
Q. I'm an adult male who is experimenting with anal sex for my first time with my girlfriend of a couple years. She's had anal sex in previous relationships though. I only mention this in case it may be a factor in some way. When inserting a fing...
A. 16 April 2008: I'm a girl so I don't know much about what it feels like on your end but i'm a nurse so I know what is and should be there. The colon, especially a few inches from the anus is completely surrounded by muscle and various nerves to help with pooing. ... (read in full...)
Will he get in trouble?
Q. I am 16 years old. The man that I am in love with is 27. I live in the state of Maine and it said I could be/do anything with anyone over the age of 21 with parental consent. But he is still concerend that he can end up in jail. Can he still go to ...
A. 11 April 2008: Not only can he end up in jail but he will forever be listed as a sex offender and forced to register wherever he lives. You don't know how your parents will react if god forbid anything bad happens between you guys. Also, anyone can report him. It ... (read in full...)
I would not have married her, had I known of her wild sexual past! What now?
Q. What do you do when you find out your wife has had a wild sexual past and you didnt know about it and if you had known about it, you would not have even asked her to marry you?...
A. 20 March 2008: You wanted to marry her for who she is. Unless she is still doing these things, then there is no reason to hold it against her. Just because you know about her past doesn't change who you fell in love with. We've all done things other people ... (read in full...)
My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!
Q. i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....
A. 20 March 2008: I agree with Laura. If you are truely pregnant then there are some decisions you have to make. You are very young and although I don't agree with abortion, you need to make the best decision for you and only you. Then regardless of the outcome.. ... (read in full...)
Left Wanting More...
Q. Hey :) I broke up with my 2 year boyfriend, whom I lost my virginity to, about two months ago and a month after I started out with another guy. We've been having sex too but I'm quite disappointed, and I know it sounds cruel and it's not the mos...
A. 19 March 2008: I actually had a very similar experiance once. i stuck with the "smaller" guy for almost a year and I actually got used to it and when I first had sex with my current bf it wasn't great becuase I was so used to the smaller size. I agree size does ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until they break up, or do something about it now?
Q. I am in the sixth grade, and I have liked this guy since like kindergarden, but it has turned more to love since second or third grade. I seriously like him, but he is already going out with a girl. I know he knows I like him and that the other girl ...
A. 18 March 2008: First off you scare me. I mean i liked boys when I was your age but not like this. This kinda stuff didn't happen until high school. I have an infant son and to think i'm gonna have to deal with this in 10 years is frightening. But anyway, my ... (read in full...)
At the moment we're friends with benefits but I want to ask her out as I really like her.
Q. Wondering if I should ask this girl out, not too sure though. At the moment we're basically friends with benefits, but we talk to each other for a cuple hours a day, and I like her, I think she likes me too. But I think she's got a thing for he...
A. 18 March 2008: Trust me... a girl doesn't keep sleeping with the same person if she doesn't like them. This seems pretty safe for you to go ahead on. Don't worry about the ex. Since you haven't given her what she really wants ( a relationship) she's prolly just ... (read in full...)
How do I compete with his perfect high school friend? We're all friends, but he has a crush on her!
Q. So my suspicions were correct. My boyfriend of 8 months still has a crush on his high school friend...who is my co-worker and also really good friend. We met through her and now I feel like I can't compare to his perfect girl. This was my biggest ...
A. 13 March 2008: Life is just too short to compare yourself to other people. Everyone has flaws and everyone has qualities unique to them. People are drawn to people with confidence. Partly why she is so amazing is that she isn't selfconcious about herself. ... (read in full...)
My mum won't be there for my baby's birth. Am I over reacting?
Q. I am having a scheduled c-section next FRI. because the baby is breech. My mom is not going to go. She said that she will just come by after work, she works in the same area as where the hospital is. But I am having the surgery at 10 a.m. and she ...
A. 9 March 2008: I feel compelled to respond in some way because I just had a baby last Monday and my mom was there for me the whole time and I couldn't have imagined it without her. I think sometimes we forget that moms are people too and they have their own ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and in love with a 35 year old man...is this wrong?
Q. I am seriously in love with a 35 year old man, would be 36 this month and I'll be 19. We've been going out for 5 months now, we really love each other. We know each other's pasts, flaws and everything and this isn't just a sexual relationship, ...
A. 1 March 2008: Its all up to you. I always tell people to make life decisions based on what you would do if you didn't have to care about anyone else's opinion but your own. Even though you love each other is this a relationship you won't regret if you settle ... (read in full...)
His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?
Q. hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...
A. 1 March 2008: At any age boys are obsessed with video games but at your age good luck getting them to pay attention to anything else. I don't think you will win this without coming to a compromise. Just tell him that you are okay with the video games as long as ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant without intercourse?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had a bit of sexual fun the other day. Well not the other day, bout 2 weeks ago now. He came, but his penis was not in side me as i am not ready to have full on sex yet. He fingered me about 10 minutes after he came but his penis ...
A. 27 February 2008: Its not very likely you are pregnant. First of all any pregnancy signs usually don't start until atleast 2 weeks or more after the first missed period. The only way the sperm could have gotten in you is if he had some on his fingers. Chances are ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...
A. 26 February 2008: I swear if it were up to men, online porn would become a religeon. It seems you have 3 choices... live with it, leave him, or start competeing. Either start watching your own porn or whatver turns you on or start dressing up and make sexual ... (read in full...)
I'm sure he's cheating, isn't he?
Q. Here is my question. To make a long story short, My boyfriend got a text from a woman that he is supposedly "friends" with, asking if she left a pair of black pants at his house. I calmly asked him how long he had something going on with her. He ...
A. 26 February 2008: A woman's intuition is seldom wrong. If you think something in wrong, it most likely is.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: You could start by getting yourself more prepared. Talk to him about using lots of lube and starting with fingering, maybe use some thin toys and gradually over time you will see what feels good and it won't be dramatically painful when it comes to ... (read in full...)
Do you think he just wants me for sex?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I just have gotten my first boyfriend. He's 13, and he's also in my class. It seems from what I have seen, that he is a nice guy. I'm just scared he will just want me for sex and I might be pregnant at age 13. I'm scared. ...
A. 26 February 2008: So far take one day at a time. If you are ever feeling pressured by him to go farther then you are ever comfortable then its time to say something. If he gets mad or makes you feel bad about it, he's a jerk and you should leave him as fast as you ... (read in full...)
I don't feel loved by him...
Q. Wow, when I didn't things could get worse. My boyfriend and I went through a really rough time. He cheated on me a few times and broke my heart. I love him and wanted to be with him, so I forgave him. I found out i was pregnant and just recentl...
A. 22 February 2008: There is very little you are saying to make me think he cares about you in the slightest. Maybe this miscarriage is a neon sign that says: you know what you want (a happy life with a husband and baby) and this is the last guy that will ever give ... (read in full...)
First time sex.. late period , HELP!
Q. I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 7 months... on the 14th I had protected sex with him my period is normally on the 15th its 3 days late.. it's NEVER late. I don't have any symptoms of being pregnant but I keep being hungry and needing a ...
A. 19 February 2008: Don't panic, the chances are so slim its rediculous. You are still young enough that your body hasn't had time to be 100% on time all the time. Take a test in a week if you still don't have it but i would't worry.... (read in full...)
Why do women play hard to get and when does the playing end?
Q. I am just curious...but how far will a girl play hard to get before she finally decides...Okay, I tortured him enough? I know someone who really likes this girl and he obviously makes it known to her. By the way she looks and flirts with him, I am ...
A. 19 February 2008: Either 2 things: she is either just being nice and really doesn't like your friend or he just has to flat out ask her. ... (read in full...)
Choice between abortion or keeping it
Q. If anyone here has ever had the choice to make between keeping a baby, making a person you love very much happy or aborting a baby and having a future, please help me! I'm 17 and a college student. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 10 mo...
A. 18 February 2008: I got pregnant at 25 and although you may think age is a factor, it doesn't always have to be. I chose to have him and did for one brief second think of having an abortion. A long time ago I decided that if I ever did get pregnant I would not have ... (read in full...)
Do I wait until my period is finished before starting the next set of pills?
Q. Im on the pill and its slightly new to me, Im on a pill which allows me to have a 7 day break to have my period. I'm due to start taking my next set of pills tomorrow however my period is not finished. Do i wait until my period is finished before s...
A. 18 February 2008: I'd call the doctor's office but I was on the pill for 10 years and my doctor always told me to follow the pill dosage regardless of what my body is doing. Eventually your body will conform to the pill cycle.... (read in full...)
Her tears make me weak and guilty.
Q. Hello all! Ok here it goes... Well i need/want to break up with my GF of 4years. I dont hate her or anything, its just that im not ready to spend my life with 1 person yet and she was my first GF. I have been getting alot of feelings lately ...
A. 16 February 2008: There is no easy way out of this one. I was that girl once and I literally almost killed myself because he was my whole world and that was the problem. You can do this one of 2 ways.... either just bite the bullet and leave or start to see her ... (read in full...)
Why do people do that ?
Q. Here is a question. How many of you out there have told a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, wife, husband you loved them but really you didn't? Just curiosity, why do people do that?? sue x...
A. 16 February 2008: I'm glad this website allows you to see the poster's age. At your age and younger this happed a lot. I think part of it is you don't really know what love is eventhough at least one partner might think they do. Another is sometimes people think ... (read in full...)
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