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writes:I am in the sixth grade, and I have liked this guy since like kindergarden, but it has turned more to love since second or third grade. I seriously like him, but he is already going out with a girl. I know he knows I like him and that the other girl likes him. What should i do? Wait until they break up, or do something about it, but this guy is a popular guy, but I still have feelings for him even though the popular girls hate me. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, velvetluv21 +, writes (18 March 2008):
First off you scare me. I mean i liked boys when I was your age but not like this. This kinda stuff didn't happen until high school. I have an infant son and to think i'm gonna have to deal with this in 10 years is frightening. But anyway, my best advice is don't act on anything while he's with someone especailly if her and her friends don't like you already. They will make your life miserable on so many levels... if he likes you better and leaves her for you they will never leave you alone. If he only finds out that you like him and doesn't do anything about it and they find out you like him, they will just laugh and torment you until they become bored. I know its hard to hear but eventually the cute popular guys get tired of the popular girls. i found out the fun way. The guy i liked for years was popular and although he was always friendly with me, i never even though I even had the slightest chance. After graduation we found ourselves at a party for a mutual friend and ended up being friends with benifits for a year. Granted no one beleived he was with me but after we split because one of those popular types caught his eye he ended up coming back and told me he loved me and he was an idiot for leaving. Now I feel like the idiot because I didn't take him back and now wish i did. So as you can see, you never know whats going to happen. The world works in mysterious ways but don't get off on the bad foot with a group of girls.... that can be impossible to fix.
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