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writes:I'm a 13 year old girl and I just have gotten my first boyfriend. He's 13, and he's also in my class. It seems from what I have seen, that he is a nice guy. I'm just scared he will just want me for sex and I might be pregnant at age 13. I'm scared. Do you think he just wants me for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx, your guys are great help;) you rock!
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reader, velvetluv21  +, writes (26 February 2008):
So far take one day at a time. If you are ever feeling pressured by him to go farther then you are ever comfortable then its time to say something. If he gets mad or makes you feel bad about it, he's a jerk and you should leave him as fast as you can. If he's really immature and spreads rumors about you, just tell everybody he pulled down his pants and all you could do is laugh and thats why you didn't do anything with him. There is always another guy or for the next 10 years of you life, another loser so don't sweat this one if it doesn't work out. Yes most all guys around your age will gladly take sex if offered but if they have been taught any manners they will respect your feelings and not hold it against you. Its a scarry world when you become sexually active. I did when I was 15 and although my accidental pregnancy happened at 25, I still over the years have ended up with Chlamydia and HPV. Almost all women get it at some point because both STD's are non detectable unless by a doctor. These things and pregnancy are not something you need to deal with for many many years. I first had sex because I wanted the guy to like me and he wanted nothing more than sex. I really wish i waited for someone who was worth it.
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