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Holiday romance ... what is his problem?
Q. hi my name is lisa and i met this guy away on holidays and i spent the week with him. it was like a holiday romance, but i didnt do with him. we all got back to dublin and i forgot bout the holiday. he never asked for my number but he found me on ...
A. 27 August 2009: If you two were meeting as platonic friends, there would be no problem. Now that he has stated that he wants to be intimate with you - even if he hasn't tried it yet - it wouldn't be appropriate for you two to get together since he still has a g... (read in full...)
I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?
Q. So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared ...
A. 27 August 2009: Everyone comes with a past. Everyone has made choices in their lives that they aren't necessarily happy with, and probably even regret.
If you are to date him, I would try to find out how he feels about his past... why he thinks he's been with tha... (read in full...)
Frustrated with my ex, does he want me or not?
Q. Im super frustrated.my ex and i have been in contact *been broken up over a mo*.We've slept together 2x, he's supposedly dating/hanging w/ someone we know, rubbed it in my face as much as possible *to get me jealous it seems*.Seems hes into ...
A. 27 August 2009: You both need to break off contact for a bit, and give each other some space. It sounds like he's either confused about what he really wants (and he's not going to figure that out if you guys are hanging out) OR he's realized that being single isn't ... (read in full...)
I fancy him, but am worried about him thinking I am easy, help!
Q. I had a date with a guy and we didn’t kiss at the end of the date. He then went away for 4 weeks and we were in contact daily and would talk on the phone for hours. He came back recently and we had dinner at his place. He kissed me first and we then ...
A. 27 August 2009: I do not think that you were sending him the wrong message at all by making out with him. As you stated, the two of you had gone out before, stayed in contact with one another, and went out again. If you're worried about coming off easy, I would ... (read in full...)
Can you stop taking the pill, then start again when you know when you are next having sex?
Q. Hello, I have a very simple question. I am on the Pill (Yaz) and have been for the last 4 months. I will only be seeing my boyfriend in 4 months (december) and was wondering if I could like , pause on the pill and then start re taking it again....
A. 27 August 2009: I guarantee your doctor would advise against it. You'll throw your hormones off, probably experience spotting, and you'd have to "rebuild" your pregnancy protection all over again. I would definitely keep taking it, especially since you'll be seeing ... (read in full...)
Help! My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt and as a result, keeps breaking it off with me!
Q. I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he ...
A. 9 August 2009: Do you think you have a flirtatious personality, or do you believe your boyfriend is being jealous?
If you are flirtatious and are aware of when you're being so, maybe scale it down a bit out of respect for your boyfriend.
If you think he is ... (read in full...)
Committing to someone scares me! Any advice?
Q. I'm going to try to say this as best as i can, so bare with me. Okay, I'm currently single and i dislike it like mad, i really would just love to find a girl, some-one to hold ect ect ect. For awhile I didnt get why i couldnt, I'm not ugly, gir...
A. 9 August 2009: It's normal to be scared and hesitant about starting a relationship with someone, you're making yourself vulnerable. It is definitely rewarding though, and you're going to miss out on so much in life if you aren't willing to let your walls down and ... (read in full...)
My cop boyfriend is obsessed with me! How do I get out of this relationship?
Q. Complicated... I am in a relationship with a veteran police officer. This relationship sucks. We started off while he was married, (yes it was wrong) and he left her to be w/me. Problem is ..to me..he's obssessed. I am not sexually interest...
A. 9 August 2009: I urge you to locate a nearby domestic abuse shelter/agency as soon as possible. They will help guide you through what you need to do to protect yourself and your children.
PLEASE DO NOT WAIT TO DO THIS!
Be sure to tell the agency that he h... (read in full...)
She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!
Q. Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see ...
A. 9 August 2009: She might not necessarily be a cheater. She could just be one of those people that unfortunately desires and enjoys attention from other people, even though they're in a relationship with someone that adores them. It's extremely frustrating and ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is dying and I am trying to save it! What else can I do?
Q. yesterday was year number 4 with my partner (not married) I got divorced while starting a relationship with him and i admit it was the worst possible thing i could have done. i dont think i did the right thing , but ok we did continue and its been 4 ...
A. 9 August 2009: I'm sorry to hear of your loss.
Losing his daughter and his irregular work schedule are both enormous stressors.
Every relationship will have it's ups and downs, especially one of longevity. Perhaps you're stuck in one of the downs right now,... (read in full...)
First date questions! Help!
Q. I met a guy recently. Although it was a very vague meeting. We were at the same party. He introduced himself, and we didn't really talk the rest of the night all though he did sit next to me at one point before getting kicked out of that spot. I had ...
A. 9 August 2009: I'd say there is a good chance he is interested, he sounds like he wants to get to know you better at least, otherwise he probably wouldn't have wrote you back. If you already have wrote back, let him initiate further contact with you, because if ... (read in full...)
He got a new girlfriend and now I don't know what to say. What would you do?
Q. I'm in college and I've been dating this guy for almost a year. I went home for the summer to take care of some family issues. When I first left we called and texted each other all day, everyday, but soon that became less and less. We were testing ...
A. 9 August 2009: How are you feeling about what he did? Were the two of you dating without a label, or had you agreed to be exclusive?
Either way, I think after over a year of dating he should have been more upfront with you about everything. I'm sure when you... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with him without his GF knowing
Q. I have this best friend to wants me to have sex with him nd give him blow jobs . but he has a qirlfriend nd I feel very uncomfortable with it . so wat can I do to actually give him the sex he wants with out his girlfriend findinq out. ?...
A. 7 August 2009: Why do you want to do this?
If you feel uncomfortable with it, which you say you are, then don't do it! Even if you do eventually feel comfortable with the idea, don't do it!
If he was really your best friend, he wouldn't be asking you to do... (read in full...)
Do I take my boyfriend back after he's been seeing another girl for 5 months?
Q. Hey people..ive just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. he lives like 4 hours away from me but i didnt think that he would do that. at first i found out the he kissed a girl he denied it at first and then admitted it and apoloigised and he ...
A. 7 August 2009: Honesty and trust are two of the most important things to have in a relationship.
It sounds like your relationship is lacking both, and it has been from the beginning. First with your infidelities, and now with his. Since he says he trusts y... (read in full...)
My bf stopped talking to me because of his family.
Q. me and my ex had been together nearly 10 months and we broke up just over a week ago. everyone said we was so much in love and we had been engaged and went on holiday 3 times together, we was also going to try for a baby. when he left i kept calling ...
A. 7 August 2009: You and your friends need to give him some space. I know it is going to be hard, but stop trying to contact him. You stated yourself that he is annoyed with it, so stop doing it! You're just pushing him away even more if anything.
He will con... (read in full...)
I'm so horrible! I'm going to lose everyone.. I don't know what to do.. help?
Q. Wot is wrong with me! Im so depressed its unbelievable. About 3-4wks ago i come off anti depressants for post natel depression, been on them 4 just over a yr. Thing is im so horrible, i dont just snap i lose it completly. With any1 even my beautiful ...
A. 7 August 2009: Did you stop taking the antidepressants suddenly, or did your doctor have you come off them slowly?
Either way, it sounds to me like you should visit your doctor and tell them what has been going on. They'll probably want to put you back on your ... (read in full...)
Updated from last post.....Still really scared went to the police...unsure who to believe help!
Q. Updated!!! Boy friend complications Now what to do? Please help im scared and confused? Ok, in june I broke up with a guy because he was cheating on me. In may some guy called his law firm and tried to get us fired. I thought it was my ex but...
A. 7 August 2009: I wouldn't believe anything that your ex is saying. He's already shown that he isn't trustworthy (when you found out he was cheating on you).
As for your current boyfriend, I'm not sure what to tell you. It sounds like the girl had A LOT of infor... (read in full...)
Stay in a sexless marraige or take a chance?
Q. I;m only in my early forties ,and my husband does not want to have any sexual contact with me due to some unclear psychological problems. I need sex, i don't believe in cheating, shoud I leave him? It is a tragedy for me, I never thought it will tur...
A. 7 August 2009: How long were you two in therapy together? What kind of testing has he had done? How has your husband said that he feels about this, or what does he believe is the underlying issue?
I would strongly encourage you to speak with another doctor o... (read in full...)
Do I give up? Back off? Keep trying?
Q. There is this guy I met almost a month ago. I've had some trouble with guys in the past, so I was skepticle about letting this guy into my life. I'm 15 and he's 17. I really like him, and I thought he liked me. We're friends for now, but he knows I ...
A. 7 August 2009: I would say back off and see what he does. It sounds as though that when he found out you liked him, and he decided to back off (so he may just want to be friends). Give him some space and let him initiate contact with you. If he's interested in ... (read in full...)
My best friend introduced me to an abuser, and still wants to hang with him
Q. I have been best friends with 'Jill' for well over ten years. In August of 2007 she met up with me downtown and brought one of her co-workers with named 'Jack'. We ended up hitting it off and he asked me out shortly after. We ended up dating ...
A. 6 May 2009: Thank you all for your responses. It hurts so much because she knows how I feel and it's as though it doesn't matter at all.
I see this as an enormous con in my book, because I feel as though I cannot trust her. It's somewhat enlighte... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?
Q. we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one ...
A. 2 May 2009: Its tough when you're with someone and others who are close to them don't always 'approve' of you for various reasons.
Thankfully, it seems as though your boyfriend doesn't really take what his friend said too seriously. Unfortunately, you're alwa... (read in full...)
How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?
Q. How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?...
A. 2 May 2009: I agree with the previous poster, he will definitely become distant. He'll all the sudden be busy, whether it be with work, school, sports. He'll spend more time with his friends then he used to. He might not answer your calls all the time, or get ... (read in full...)
How do I handle this relationship?
Q. My best guy friend of over a decade and I decided to have sex last night just to see what it'd be like with each other. Well, while he was inside me, he confessed to me that he loves me. The sex was so utterly great and the fact that he told me he ...
A. 2 May 2009: I would get together with him and tell him that you thought the other night was great, and were wondering how he felt about it. Bring up the fact that he told you that he loved you and ask him what he meant by that... was it genuine? Was is ... (read in full...)
I screwed up with my g/f and wnat her back badly!
Q. Long story short, she is the first girl I have ever had deep feelings for and I didn't know how to handle that so after couple of months I became clingy. Every time I look back on how I acted I feel like kicking myself because, rather than just ...
A. 2 May 2009: I'm assuming she broke things off with you and that she told you it was because you became too clingy? Please correct me if that assumption is wrong.
If that is the case, and that is the only reason she gave you for ending things, then perhaps ... (read in full...)
How can I get past the hurt... how can I trust him again?
Q. Hi, I broke up with my partner. In that time he had two other women. (seperately) anyway recently we have been talking a lot and the other nite he rang and asked if he could come over. We had a good talk and he told me that he wants to be with me. ...
A. 2 May 2009: Trust is something that can be easily destroyed, and is quite difficult to get back. If you truly believe that he is genuine with what he says, I think you two should talk things out and that you should proceed slowly. If at any point your intuition ... (read in full...)
We've decided to take a break..should he and I be in contact or not at all?
Q. I've been dating "Ben" for a year and three months. We started out having the ideal relationship, it's been an amazing relationship, there's just 'something' there. Anyways, the past couple of months have been rocky for us. He's been working a l...
A. 23 May 2007:
DVI,
Thank you for taking the time to give me your input. However I must ask you, how am I not willing to meet his needs, how am I being selfish? I see it as being the other way around actually... and don’t worry about being ‘rude’, I did ask for ... (read in full...)
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