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writes:me and my ex had been together nearly 10 months and we broke up just over a week ago. everyone said we was so much in love and we had been engaged and went on holiday 3 times together, we was also going to try for a baby. when he left i kept calling him and trying to get him to see me but he said he needed some time to think so i gave it to him and then a couple days later he said he made up his mind, it was over he didnt want to give it another go and wanted to get on with his life. He was getting messages from his family saying dont talk to her and then he changed his number and deleted me from his friends list :( all i want is to get him back but i dont know what to do as i think he is listening to his family who dont like me and said horrible things to me. my friends have tried to talk to him about us and him giving me another chance but he just gets annoyed and says he dont want to talk about it. when my friend asked him if he still loved me or if he is still wearing the engagment ring he doesnt answer. i just dont know what to think as the first time my friend asked him if he would talk to me he said when things calmed down but only as friends and then the next day he said he never would talk to me again and then today he said he wasnt making any promises that he will as he just wants to get on with his life first.
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reader, Twistedbaby420  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 You and your friends need to give him some space. I know it is going to be hard, but stop trying to contact him. You stated yourself that he is annoyed with it, so stop doing it! You're just pushing him away even more if anything.
He will contact you, if he wants to, when he is ready. I would definitely leave him alone!
(One thing that concerns me is the fact that you are 16/17 and were trying to have a baby? And engaged? You're both still young and hadn't been together all that long... this may be part of the reason his family didn't like the two of you together. Family and friends can have an influence on peoples choices, but he does have a mind of his own and will do what he wants to do --- regardless of what anyone says. So if he wants to be with you, he will be with you.)
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