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writes: I have this best friend to wants me to have sex with him nd give him blow jobs . but he has a qirlfriend nd I feel very uncomfortable with it . so wat can I do to actually give him the sex he wants with out his girlfriend findinq out. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): you should only do it if you go out with him, otherwhise it's morrally wrong.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (7 August 2009):
You're actually considering this? You want us to give you tips on how to give this dude bj's and have sex with him without his gf finding out? Don't do it. You're only showing him and yourself your lack of self respect, not to mention the reputation you'll have once others find out. You're probably still in high school I'm guess, and trust me, people find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): I'm not sure your head is on correctly but your question reeks of either full-on stupidity or immaturity. If you're smart then tell him to dump his GF and make you his exclusive partner. If you don't do this prepare to be disregarded. Don't throw pearls at pigs. They will NOT be appreciated. You will be forgotten.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): ermm hello? wakeup call...he's using you..'you want to find a way of having sex with him without his girlfriend finding out?' how would you feel if your boyfriend went and had sex behind your back!!!
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reader, samgurl0021 +, writes (7 August 2009):
To be quite honest, you shouldn't have sex with him. Why would you want to "be the other woman?" And also it's a good thing that you feel uncomfortable because you should, it's not the right thing to do. Talk to him about how you feel, after all he is your best friend..
Good Luck! =)
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reader, Twistedbaby420 +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Why do you want to do this?
If you feel uncomfortable with it, which you say you are, then don't do it! Even if you do eventually feel comfortable with the idea, don't do it!
If he was really your best friend, he wouldn't be asking you to do this. He has girlfriend!
Put yourself in the other girls shoes --- how would you feel if you had a boyfriend who wanted his best friend to do this for him?!
If you two are interested in being more then just friends, he should break things off with his girlfriend. If he's not willing to do that, then he's being selfish and he isn't a good friend.
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reader, FountainOfIndifference  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 I don't see why your best friend wants you to have sex with him if he already has a girlfriend. I personally would be much more worried about the status of the relationship that your friend has.
I think asking him why he wants to have sex with you instead of his girlfriend would be a pretty good idea.
Then again, if the girlfriend already knows about it and is fine with it, then it shouldn't really be all that big of an issue.
Chances are she doesn't, and isn't, though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): If you are going to have a relationship with someone, you have to assume that people will find out eventually.
If you are uncomfortible with people knowing what you are doing, then it sounds like you just should not be doing it.
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