Did he just not like me?
Q. Basically went on a date for the first time in ages :) but I'm kinda confused, because although we had good banter and he kindly paid for my cinema ticket and also wanted to pay for my dinner (I didn't want him to though because we're both students ...
A. 3 May 2011: Thanks for responses :) It's part of the whole dating world and it's just one of those things really. I had fun, so I think that's all it matters really, just not going to dewell on it xx... (read in full...)
How dos an 18 year old introvert get laid?
Q. I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin but I'm not very bothered by this, except when my friends make jokes about me and when I get the horn on. So, I'm coming to realise that I know absolutely nothing about how to get into a girls pants. I understa...
A. 3 May 2011: Look, don't just have sex because your friends are taking the piss out of you. It's hard, I know, but if you just have sex with someone for the sake of it then you're just going to regret it afterwards. You might even think to yourself afterwards, ... (read in full...)
Help my bf is going too fast, how do I slow him down!!!! DESPERATE FOR ANSWER
Q. i am 12 and am dating a 14 year old he is really cool and i like him but he is moving to fast for me weve been together for about 1 week and he already wants to kiss and makeout and maybe even see me naked but says he doesnt want to "ball" me until ...
A. 15 May 2008: You're a bit young to go into all of this. You both want different things; you want a boyfriend who you can talk as a friend and not really interested in all the sexual stuff, and it is understandable as you are in fact quite young. He, on the ... (read in full...)
Why is he always in my dreams and what does it mean??
Q. I'm a 13yr old girl and I need people's opinions. This boy in my class(13), he's my friend and he likes me alot. Like he has feelings for me. We're not going out but I think I might even like him the same way too. Every night when I go to sleep, ...
A. 12 March 2008: it just means that you really like him, lol. perhaps its because you think about him a lot. either way, you should ask him out.... (read in full...)
Had a fling in NYC this weekend, do you think he will call me?
Q. Ok I know this is bad, but a cute waiter hit on me in NYC this weekend. He could not stop looking at me all through dinner, then when I asked for my check, he said he would pay for it if I stayed (a $200 tab). We went to another bar and ended up ...
A. 7 November 2007: Or if you're too shy to call him, why not text him instead?... (read in full...)
I met a guy, who gave me his number, I called and think his phone dies, now I can't reach him.
Q. Can someone tell me what happened? I met a guy who works in the fitness center at my college. I was getting my id renewed and he took my picture and we chatted a little and he seemed like a nice person and very friendly, funny, and cool. He gave me ...
A. 9 October 2007: I heard that lads are crap on the phone, anyway. It's because they don't enjoy it. Other than that, though, it was damn right rude of him not to explain what happen when the phone got cut off! I'm sorry, but he doesn't seem very interested, and i ... (read in full...)
He abuses me, ...so why do I still love him?
Q. i am a 20 year old and my boyfriend is 31. we have been dating for a whole year and 6 months, well everything was perfect what any girl dreams for. its been like 6 whole months that our relationship just turned upside down. he calls me names ...
A. 6 October 2007: I think the only reason you're still with him is possibly because your self-system (sp?) is very low. You probably believe you deserve to be treated this way, or you're just simply afraid of being on your alone. When he told you if you leave him... (read in full...)
Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)
Q. i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...
A. 1 October 2007: My sister is like you! She looks younger than she actually does.
You shouldn't worry about looking older, not like you need to get into any clubs, is it? Or do you just want everyone to stop thinking that you look like a twelve year old? Hmm. Wel... (read in full...)
I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?
Q. why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...
A. 1 October 2007: I know how it feels to want a boyfriend at your age, but once you actually get one, you'd think to yourself 'Dear God, why did I actually want one in the first place?!' They can be such a hasssle at times, I swear to God on that. Wanting your ... (read in full...)
He never makes a sound during sex. Should it bother me, or are guys just not as verbal as girls?
Q. My boyfriend is not verbal at all in the bedroom. He never makes a single sound when we are having sex. He always turns his face away from me when he is coming too. Like he doesnt want me to see him (i guess thats why his fave position is doggy ...
A. 28 September 2007: Some guys aren't verbal, while some other are. Just how things are with people. And he's most probably worried on how he looks when he comes... Maybe a girl laughed at him before and now he's scared to show his face to you while coming? Other than ... (read in full...)
I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?
Q. Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...
A. 28 September 2007: Weird. Maybe your ex has told your current boyfriend some stuff about you, that's why he kind of blanking you out? I think you need to talk to him about him hanging out with your ex, otherwise you'd never find out on what's going on with him!
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He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?
Q. hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...
A. 28 September 2007: Hmm, I think you're a bit too young to be having sex, but I will answer your question...
It depends on how relaxed you are. If you was to be quite tense and nervous for some reason, or you're not turned on at all, and he was doing you 'deep an... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out. I'm not very good looking, do you think she will say no?
Q. Im in College and theres this girl who I fancy. Can't say I really like her at the mo. Should I ask her out on a date. Should I cos I've got nothing to lose. Thing is though I'm not particularly good looking. Do you think cos of this she'll say no?...
A. 18 September 2007: I'd say go for it! But you should get to know her first and become firsts, it might scare her off if you just ask her out straight away. However, if you're already friends, then i think you should ask her out to the cimema or something, just you and ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, he's 19, and he says he's wanted to propose to me!
Q. Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3months hes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much more i'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliant but last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how m...
A. 18 September 2007: To tell him to wait for a few months, and then see how it goes. I think what you and your boyfriend are going is what's called a 'honeymoon period'. Both of you are going to feel completely in love and never want leave each other sides! So I say ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend, Friend, or Babysitter? Which am I???
Q. Girlfriend, Friend or babysitter? I have been seriously dating a dad, he introduced me to his (almost teenage) daughters very quickly. He is seperated and has full custody. Because of the distance, I spend the night (on the couch alone)and spend ti...
A. 17 September 2007: Not being funny, but it sounds to me he's avoiding it all. What I mean is, how come he's only letting you come round to look after the children, and not spend any time with you? Sounds weird to me. Also, if the girls love being around you so much, ... (read in full...)
Does she like me?
Q. ok im so confused please answer dis girl in class always looks at me i can I her staring for a long time with the corner of my eye when she is near me i move a little to give space but she gets closer and what confuses me is that she had a boyfriend ...
A. 17 September 2007: Have you spoke to her yet? Try it. Easier said than done, I know, but when you see her, just take a few deep breaths, and then pluck up the courage to say hello. Then you can take your friendship from there. :)... (read in full...)
We have one child and another on the way but he keeps cheating!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2yrs. We have a 10 month old daughter and im pregnant again. Every since we been going out i have always had a problem with him and other females. He always hides his phone from me and puts it on ...
A. 12 September 2007: Then don't go back to him then. You gave him plenty of chances and he blew them all away. Keep in contact for the sake of the children, but if you're unhappy and don't want to get hurt by him again, then don't bother with him anymore. You could ... (read in full...)
I'm with my friends ex and she seems to have a problem with it. What should I do?
Q. my best friend use to sleep with this lad, and he fancies me. we got together last sat she said she was really happy for me and shes not bothered about him no more, but shes told one of our friends that shes bothered, but she has already got a ...
A. 12 September 2007: No, she lied to you... Of course she's bothered about it! She's going to feel like you betrayed her, even though she smiled and told you she's happy for you. Maybe she doesn't want to loose you as a friend.
I think you need to talk to her and get ... (read in full...)
Ready to experiment but what can we do to make me have a orgasm?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years lost our virginty to each other and before we started having sex i have never been so horney but when we did have sex i would feel next to nothing. I wasn't ready then but now i am. It has gotten much better and we are ...
A. 11 September 2007: If you're woring then the chsnces are you won't be able to get an orgasm. Relax yourself, and concentrate on bringing your boyfriend one instead. You'd be surprised at the results... :) (P.S, it also helps playing with your clit while you're doing ... (read in full...)
He is not text-book attractive, however has a fantastic personality. Should I pursue a relationship with him, against the will of my friends?
Q. I need help!! Ive recently become intensely attracted to someone ive known for several years, but this is not where my problem lies. The issue is that this man is not text-book attractive. He's in his 30's, roughly five-ten, incredibly thin,...
A. 31 August 2007: They should be happy for you. They think they're trying to look out for you, but in a way they are trying to control you, as well. I think you should go for this relationship, and as long as you're happy, then your friends shouldn't really bother at ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is on the pill but 4 hours after we had sex today she said she was bleeding, without pain. Why is this?
Q. hi. me and my girlfriend have been making love for about 7 months now. and shes on a certain pill cant remember the name., but today about 4 hours after we made love she told me she was bleeding but there was no pain, we had no idea what it was does ...
A. 25 July 2007: There's a fact file about pills that might help... http://www.bbc.co.uk/slink/sexlovelife/index.shtml?page=bodysub=pill Hopefully this will explain why your girlfriend is bleeding.... (read in full...)
I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?
Q. Okay, I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?...
A. 12 July 2007: Highly unlikely if there's different layers of clothes on.... (read in full...)
She thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person.
Q. My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly ...
A. 28 June 2007: She sounds very insincre with this relationship, and is probably afraid you'd leave her for someone else. Try to have a chat with about the relationship you're both in, and if she had ever been hurt in the past by her exes before. She could, ... (read in full...)
Broke up with him because the sex was too painful... should I give him another chance?
Q. Hi, I broke it off with my boyfriend because sex with him was extremely painful. It was my first time and i felt he was not as gentle as i would have liked him to be. We never even kissed for he said he hates kissing and there was no fore play. wh...
A. 26 June 2007: If you really must get back with him, then you should have a serious talk about what he did and how much he had hurt you. But in the end, it's up to you whether you should get back with him or not. Do you really want to be in a relationship where ... (read in full...)
My mates think I'm gay and won't talk to me now that I have a girlfriend!
Q. Me and my mates used to joke when i was single about me being gay because i played a gay in the school play. However when i met my girlfreind they thought i was joking when i told them and they ignored me from then onwards. I made new freinds with ...
A. 25 June 2007: Perhaps you have left them out and they felt they were being ignored, so now they're not talking to you as much. Or may they're just jealous of the fact you now have a girlfriend.... (read in full...)
She says she's not ready for anal, but she did it with her ex!
Q. My gf has done anal sex with her ex bf but will not let me. She says she will but is not ready yet ? She clames to love me unconditionaly and has never ever felt about anyone as she feels about me? I really want to do this with her and have tried a ...
A. 22 June 2007: Maybe she just didn't like it before and doesn't want to do it again. Anal sex isn't exactly everyone's cup of tea.... (read in full...)
Why do people turn their noses up at me just because I take pride in my self.
Q. Why do people turn their noses up at me just because I take pride in my self. like everyone i wash twice daily and i wash my hands all the time. i get up at 6 on a morning have a shower, dry, dry my hair, straighten my hair, do my make up, get ...
A. 17 May 2007: They're probably jealous of you, from what I read at least.... (read in full...)
Does he see me as quick sex or someone likeable?
Q. hey, i am 15 years old and i know that people say that it is to young to be in love but i am, i also know that however is reading this is having a good laugh but i don't care i just need to speak to someone. anyway i am in love he has sent me a text ...
A. 15 May 2007: Sorry to say this, but this boy clearly only wants to use you for sex. Forget about him and PLEASE, just move on. You deserve someone better than this and besides, you're a bit too young to be having sex. Try hanging out with your friends more, like ... (read in full...)
How do I get a boy to think about me or the things I do?
Q. I Want To Make Him Think.. I heard from somebody that if you make a boy think, then they start to like you.. or they ask themselves 'Why am i thinking of her?' Therefore your on their mind.. Is this true.. if it is how do i get a boy to think abo...
A. 24 April 2007: I know this sounds like a unoriginal advice, but just be yourself when you're around them. Believe me, if you can have a laugh, make good conversations or have a nice personaility, then you will be on their mind 24/7. Trust me, it does work!... (read in full...)
I sooooo like this guy in school but don't know how to tell him.
Q. Hey once again! okay so there is this guy in my grade that i really like. he has a great personality and is one of those guys that can just make you laugh at nothin, and he's a ball to be around. well, i want to tell him that i like him, but i ...
A. 13 February 2007: Just flirt like you never flirted before! Flutter your eye lashes, blow kisses... Okay, no, that could actually scare him off! But what I'm trying to say is that you should flirt with him, because it is actually the only way to get him notice you. ... (read in full...)
I'm new at all this dating stuff and have never had a boyfriend. I think my boyfriend wants more than just a kiss. Help!!!!
Q. I have got a problem with my boyfriend. He is 2 years older than me and had a few girlfriends. But I had no boyfriend before. But I don´t know how to say this to him. And I think that he wants more than just a kiss next time. What should I do in th...
A. 13 February 2007: Yeah, what the other said! If he actually cared so much about you, then he wouldn't want to rush you into it! Try and explain to him that you just don't feel quite ready yet, and if he STILL doesn't understand, then it's time you dump him. People ... (read in full...)
My best mate took the guy I wanted! I am so hurt,,,how do I get over this?
Q. this guy i liked kept askin me out in the end i gave in we went out. a lot of stuff happened and we finished he wouldnt get over it, he kept sayin he still loved me and i did rethink about gettin back with him. i told my best mate all this she ...
A. 13 February 2007: Not really your best mate, is she? I think you should talk to her and ask her why she did what she did. It may of been to teach you a lesson or just because she's a selish person and wanted him all a long. Either, you need to find out why she did it ... (read in full...)
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