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writes:My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person. She doesn't seem to understand that I act the same towards all women and even the same towards men. I keep telling her that she is the only one in my life, but for some reason, I get the feeling that she doesn't believe me.What happened was that I was just being mindful of her, so I decided to randomly call her just to say hello and I love you and all that jazz. The conversation started out fairly normal, but soon she was complaining about some comments left to me on Myspace from other girls saying things such as "you're so funny, i love you!" and the like. The problem with her argument is that she has guy friends that say the same things to her, and she even says that to a few other guys! I know that it means different things to people depending on who says it, but she misses that point for some reason. Also, it's not like I'm in love with these other girls, so what the heck is going on?Also, if it helps at all, I'm a very extroverted person, and she is extremely introverted. She doesn't like the fact that I have lots of friends that aren't, like, BEST friends.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 If she does not like the way you are with people, then is she really the girl for you.
You should not have to change the way you are just because she does not like it and i think you need to tell her that, if she can not accept that they maybe you should go your seperate ways.
Take care.xx.
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reader, towapa +, writes (28 June 2007):
 She sounds very insincre with this relationship, and is probably afraid you'd leave her for someone else. Try to have a chat with about the relationship you're both in, and if she had ever been hurt in the past by her exes before. She could, however, be rather possessive and wants you all for herself...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): she probly duznt doubt you think shes the only 1 but if youre behavin in a flirty way with your girl freinds then cant you see why she would be upset, shes clearly an insecur person and if you love her then for her sake stop doing what upsets her, even if you dont think its flirty she duz and its makin her more insecure, show sum consideration !!!!
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reader, Sbrwneyes +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Well, when you are together then try to control the urge to be "overfriendly". Tone it down a bit. But, you should be able to be yourself no matter what. Just try to talk to her about it...if that doesn't work then just tone it down a bit.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (28 June 2007):
You have a very insecure gf who no doubt will just become more and more possessive the longer that you two are together.Me I would be moving on into a more stable relationship. My mother was one of those, green eyed,jealous women,who would be screaming at my Father,if he were five minutes late getting home from work. She would jump on him,because he must of been sexing it up with half of the women in town. Now that was Hell on earth for us four kids. So welcome to Hell my friend, cause that's what your life will be,unless you move on with your life.
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reader, misha +, writes (28 June 2007):
 if she cant appect for who u r... it her problem then i know few girls r like that and i think it great to have bubbly flirty girl and if i had a girl like u i let her b .. as long she home in bed with me wink but i hope u sort it out....mwah xxx
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