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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): Thanks guys some good advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): Anal is something special that couples share...something that they wouldn't share with someone else for fear of losing that special thing that only they share with each other. I hate to tell you this, but she probably has a special place in her heart for her ex and she doesn't want to spoil the happy memories of her ex.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Anal sex is only bad for a female if you are too rough and don't lube up enough!
Sit down and talk to her about this. Maybe she doen't like it and has a fear that if she's honest you'll argue with her over it or something.
My guy keeps hinting to try and at first I went along with it saying yeah. I actually have a fear of anal due to my past. Once I opened up about how I felt my partner backed off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): anal sex is acctually very bad for the woman, it can damge ... yeh well details arent nessesary but maybe she just doesnt want to...also for all you know she hadbeen buiding her relationship with her ex for a long time and only when she felt totaly comfortable with him, wait for her
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reader, Yos  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Well, how long have you been together? Anal sex takes a lot of trust. Maybe you need to work on your trust of each other first.
To be honest, it sounds like you're being reasonable. The fact that she's asked you to wait and you keep trying shows that you're not being reasonable / cool about it. I suspect that she's waiting for you to back off and respect her wishes before she considers letting you. Which, if you ask me, is perfectly sensible behaviour on her part.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 It means she didn't like it.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Maybe you should let her fuck you with a strap-on first, to see how uncomfortable and un-natural it is?
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reader, towapa +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Maybe she just didn't like it before and doesn't want to do it again. Anal sex isn't exactly everyone's cup of tea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): well it more then likely hurts her. ask her
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