I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a family again
Q. I've been in love with my xwife for over 3 years. We are divorced. When I try to come forward she says Im crazy or scewed up. she wants nothing with me. We have a child of 3 years old together. I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a ...
A. 21 February 2011: She is not into you right now. You didn't explain why you divorced or provide any details, so it's hard to read into this situation. Why does she think your trashy? Are you well-groomed? Dress nice? Is your vehicle clean? Are you educated?... (read in full...)
Would you be upset if your fiance didn't give you a Valentine and a birthday gift in the same week?
Q. If your fiancée doesn’t give you a Valentine or a birthday present (Feb. 17th) after 6 years would you be upset? I have spent months taking care of him after his cancer treatment. I would have loved a card, but he just calls me names....
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
You don't say what names he calls you...is it "love bug" (sweet names) or "dumb-ass" (mean names)?
Does he have an income? Is it a money situation? Did he even mention valentines and your birthday, or just ignore them?
You have GOT to... (read in full...)
She keeps saying "I'm not ready!" Does she never feel horny?
Q. Hi!I'm 25 years old and have been with my girlfriend for the last 2 years. I really feel she is the love of my life, I have never loved anyone else so much. We get along fine, see eye to eye, everything's perfect. Except... we dont have sex or do ...
A. 12 February 2011: Hi again,
There is the possibility that she is asexual. Or not attracted to you. Or homosexual. Or she was sexually molested. Or she has bad-body-image issues. Or that she wants to wait until marriage.
There are very good intimacy-counsel... (read in full...)
I am seriously in trouble and don't know what's best to do?
Q. Hello, I've been with this girl for 2 years now, for the first year and a half I was unloving and ignoring her most of the time. I was going out with her for a few times and telling her how much I love her and once I return home I would call her a...
A. 12 February 2011: There is nothing to add to the advice that LoveWisely gave you. It is spot-on.... (read in full...)
Should I push her into a relationship with me?
Q. i like this girl, we have a lot of fun together but she does not want a romantic relationship right now b/c she is still getting over her ex. i want to know if i should push her into a relationship? or just take it slow and just be there for her. ...
A. 12 February 2011: Don't be the friend that she leans on. No, no, no. Girls do NOT like those guys longterm. A crutch is not sexy. "Still getting over her ex" usually means "still hoping we get back togetjher".... If you have made it clear you like her...Dis... (read in full...)
She gone's cold. What do I do?
Q. [Mod Note: The OP's 2 questions have been merged into one.] Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and sex was outstanding now she has gone right off sex and being affectionate, she says she still loves me and doesnt know why she is like it ...
A. 12 February 2011: She is breaking up with you. She is withholding sex and you will eventually leave her. Then she doesn't have to think it was her fault. Are you SURE she isn't corresponding with the former abuser? Sounds like he might be in the picture. ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I need to finish it face to face for closure!
Q. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago because i found out he had cheated a few times and just generally flirted with everyone. We were in a LDR between the UK and the USA. I split up with him over the phone when i returned home but I cant stop thinking ...
A. 12 February 2011: You only want a "closure" opportunity because you are hoping the flame will be re-ignited if ya'll get together. He would be on your front-steps begging if he wanted you. He's a cheater and he's not into you. ------And you are wasting your t... (read in full...)
She keeps saying "I'm not ready!" Does she never feel horny?
Q. Hi!I'm 25 years old and have been with my girlfriend for the last 2 years. I really feel she is the love of my life, I have never loved anyone else so much. We get along fine, see eye to eye, everything's perfect. Except... we dont have sex or do ...
A. 12 February 2011: 2 years is too long if its not religion. Her body should be yearning for you! It is probably all you think about right now.
You should definitely be giving handjobs or self-pleasuring or blowjobs or whatever.
I think you should break up ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend still has strong feelings for his ex wife
Q. I've been in a serious relationship with someone I've known and have been friends with for many years. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart but the problem is this. He is still close with his wife. Neither of us are legally divorced...
A. 12 February 2011: He is still in love with her. If not, he would divorce her. There are many nice loyal men in the world. Wish him well and go get yourself a man who loves YOU.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend think it's sexy?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been trying new things in bed and a few nights ago I joined in with him fingering me. He said it was sexy and he loved it. And I asked him why and he couldn't give me a straight answer. I don't understand why he liked it so ...
A. 12 February 2011: All men like to fantasize that their lady thinks of him while pleasuring herself. Just put his hand on his penis and ya'll mastrubate together. It's very intimate and fun.... (read in full...)
We're both married, our affair needs to end, but we keep it going on
Q. I am so conflicted in my thoughts that I can’t think straight. I figured that writing it down may help but as I begin to write I don’t know where to start. I know this much though that in these pages I need to confront myself…be true to myself as I ...
A. 10 February 2011: You are not having an affair. You are simply his "side piece".
I don't know your husband, but I hurt for him. Knowing that his wife is sleeping with someone who he obvioulsy considers a friend. Otherwie ya'll would not be socializing on weeke... (read in full...)
Tough Love...what to do? My boyfriends a bigger handfull then I ever imagined
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He goes to counseling once a week, is on antidepressants and anti anxiety medication. When we first met he was soo soo sweet (I really thought I got super lucky) but now we are living together in a ...
A. 10 February 2011: It sounds like your boyfriend may have high-level autism, or be on the spectrum in some manner.
Rarely shows emotion unless it benenfits him to do so, extrememly picky and blames you for his own obsessive reasons, not aware of how painful it is to... (read in full...)
I reached a point of not caring, does that mean that her past doesn't really matter or is something else?
Q. (Really sorry about the long post, but it should set the mood) Hi guys, I've been reading this site for a while now and I think I should say what's on my mind. Im 25 (had 3 partners in 7 months before her) and my girl is 28 (she had 14 in 6 year...
A. 8 February 2011: I think SHE has an issue with an insecure, snooping, immature, obsessive, controlling boyfriend.
She has landed by now, and is probably in utter shock and turmoil over you violating her privacy. And then bombarding her with drunken "I'm the vict... (read in full...)
In love with my principal...
Q. I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...
A. 8 February 2011: He can lose his job, his career, go to jail, shame his family, shame the school district, etc. You should be thankful he was professional enough to recognize this as a getting-out-of-control crush. He could have let it get to the point where ... (read in full...)
He's hot then cold, he's Jekyll then Hyde
Q. Sorry in advance for this long question. But there is a lot to my story. Just over a year ago, I met my boyfriend (who is 5 years older) we were both blown away, not just by how physically attracted we were to each other but also how well we got ...
A. 8 February 2011: It sounds like his ex is stringing him along.
You can't keep him from talking to her. He is not your puppy.
If they want to talk, then they are talking.
What if he treated your future children in this "hot /cold " manner?!
Oh my good... (read in full...)
She gives away the gifts I give her!
Q. I need some advice... Well my wife doesn't appreciate the the things I give to her, I have bought her many items and later on I come to find out she gives them away. Recently I found out she had given away to her sister a very expensive watch I had ...
A. 8 February 2011: Hi, Bless your heart. I have given jewelry away and I want to tell you why. I don't wear much jewelry, but my ex bought nice jewelry for me often. I felt so guilty about it that I gave it to people I love. So my advice is to have a hear... (read in full...)
I just don't think I love her, and while I'm still in love with my ex I don't think I ever will!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm having a bit of a crisis in my love life right now, and I've reached the point where I feel I need some impartial advice, so here goes: I'm currently going out with a girl who I've been seeing for about a month. The relations...
A. 8 February 2011: Hi, I read this with heart. Are you positive that you don't have a need to accept some guilt (father) via dealing with your ex's issues? LONG term....... Do you want to deal with these blame issues in all facets of life? This is surely on... (read in full...)
She wants to be FWBs, and I suffer from Premature Ejaculation... how should I let this play out?
Q. A female friend and myself, who seldom see each other, have been texting each other quite often for a while now. In recent months the texts have got more and more flirty until the other evening the subject of sex cropped up when my female friend ...
A. 7 February 2011: Well......do you LIKE her and respect her? Is this something you would do only as an "in" to pursue a relationship with her? I don't know how old you are. I would text her that you've been thinking it over and you'd rather not have meaningless... (read in full...)
How can I flirt and keep him interested?
Q. So I met this guy, I wanted him in my life and eventually I managed to get him in my life and now I don’t want to lose him! As well as being very close friends now, we lead a definite Love-Hate thing. We aren’t both players but we just cant hel...
A. 7 February 2011: Men who are interested in you DO NOT flirt with others in front of you. He is trying to wean you into having sex with him. He is letting you know that you aren't that special but that he wants sex.
He doesn't take you seriously and I don't re... (read in full...)
My ex is giving me x's and o's, but he's got a girlfriend! What to do?
Q. A few weeks ago I started to get close to my ex boyfriend, A. We're just friends at the moment, but he keeps giving me hugs, and sending my two kisses on the end of texts to me. We get on really well, and I think that he might like me, but he's got ...
A. 7 February 2011: You are probably not the only girl he's sending texts to.
I don't understand what you like about a guy who's sending messages that his gf wouldn't approve of? What if it was your best friend; would his messages still make you tingle? His gf is a ... (read in full...)
I've got the French maid costume, but what do I do after I put it on?
Q. My boyfriend has told me before that one of his fantasies is for me to dress up as a french maid. As we are at different universities we hardly see each other at all any more, so I thought I'd surprise him when I go to visit him next. The thing is...
A. 7 February 2011: The only thing sexier than a French maid is a shy French maid ;) I think you should take French wine, French dictionary....and a duster. Kudos for putting in so much effort!... (read in full...)
How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?
Q. Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he sai...
A. 7 February 2011: So many warning signs in this post that I'm wondering what's going on with your self-esteem? I don't read any parity in the giving department. You are telling him that it's OK to treat you like this. For always. Is this the kind of life you... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 7 February 2011: Hi,
My husband thinks like you do. It is a VERY romantic gesture to care for her emotional well-being.
When she leaves, you might want to surprise her with a good book from favorite author, pile of magazines, good chocolate (not drugstore j... (read in full...)
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