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writes:My boyfriend has been away travelling the world for three months now. We've been together for 18 months and thought we would be strong enough to get through the seperation. I love him very much but it has of course put a strain on the relationship. Very recently I went out with some friends and at the end of a drunken evening I shared a brief kiss with another man. I don't really know if this was something that should mean the end of the relationship or whether it was a moment of weakness that i really should just put behind me?
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (5 July 2008):
 Yes i think you should put this behind you. it was a drunken kiss and you obviously miss being held and kissed by your own boyfriend it's very understandable that this might happen but i think maybe you should consider telling your boyfriend. if he really loves you he will understand and not worry about it. just try not to let it happen again
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Obviously you've been away from someone who you love a lot. That hurts, a lot.
The strain of that, along with the alcohol was probably what caused it. A 'brief kiss' isn't something you should see as a sign, particularly under the influence isn't something you should base important decisions on.
Along with that, decisions under alchohol can't be assumed. Its meant to boost confidence but in what way isn't for certain. I wouldn't try and guess either.
If you can, try and pass it. If you become obsessed by it and need to confess to your boyfriend, I suggest you expect the consequences, however brief it was.
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