Why do I seem attracted to older guys?
Q. i have a problem...i'm only attracted to older guys! i'm 17 and it seems like people that are 23 and older grab my attention...the oldest crush i had was 38. i have no idea what to do because im in high school and i want to have a relationship ...
A. 26 March 2007: I have always gone for older men - always more mature and on my wavelength. I am 25 now and have been happily married to a guy who is a young 59. Just go for it and as long as you are happy then there is no problems whatsoever. I was never on the ... (read in full...)
My dad says hes too old for and that I need to break up with him! Im 16 hes 19!
Q. Me and my 19 year old boyfriend grew up together. we just started talking in November Im 16 i will be 17 next month. my dad wants us to brake up because he thinks that he is too old. Do you think i am too young for him my mom and his family thinks ...
A. 26 March 2007: Hi I'm sorry but your dad wants to butt out! Your the age of consent and old enough to see who you want to. 19 is nothing!. As long as he respects you and makes you happy then there is nothing at all wrong with this. I am 25 and married to my ... (read in full...)
Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!
Q. Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...
A. 26 March 2007: Hi I do sympathise with you. I am 25 and married and moved out 3 years ago - no disrepect to my parents - but the best thing I ever did!! I was 22 and my parents were the same. Wanted to know where I was going, what time I'd be back, who I was ... (read in full...)
I really regret the one night stand I had, but does my GF really need to know, as it would break her heart!?
Q. I'm in a long-term, long-distance relationship and I love my gf to bits. I don't drink and I came home from university and met up with some old friends. I had a few drinks, which turned into a quite a few and I slept with another woman. I feel awful ...
A. 26 March 2007: I would normally advise not to say anything as we all make mistakes such as this and it just shows that drinking in excess can get us into all kinds of trouble. i'm not going to lecture you as you realise that you have made a terrible mistake. You ... (read in full...)
I can't shake the fear that some other girl will take my bf! What should I do?
Q. Hi my "friend" developed feelings for my boyfriend and would do anything to spend time alone with him at a party she had i found them jus sitting in the kitchen talking (fair enuff) then in the living room, and when i walked in she walked out, ...
A. 21 March 2007: Hi I sympthasise with you. No wonder you feel this way. The best thing to do just be yourself and take each day as it comes. Don't try to be something your' not, be yourself. If history repeats itself then this guy is not for you. There is someone ... (read in full...)
Trying to get pregnant but it's not working! He does smoke weed..would that affect this process?
Q. I have had sex so many time with my boyfriend and hes always cummed in me but im not pregant and we r trying and it doesnt work... WHy does that happen??? By the way he does smoke WEED!...
A. 21 March 2007: Weed is bound to affect your chances of getting pregnant. At your age I don't know why you want child at your age and especially with a bf like that! we have been trying for a child for 2 and a half years now with no luck but I know I have plenty of ... (read in full...)
Our son died, and he asked his ex to get back with him!! Its a year on and I cant get past it!!!
Q. Hi, I got together with my boyfriend about a year and 4 months ago. We met through family. When I met him I thought he was the perfect person I had ever met. I knew it was my time to be happy. Since my ex boyfriend 4 years earlier treated ...
A. 15 March 2007: many thanks for your message. You will not be putting anyone out or letting anyone down. Your mum and brother care deeply for you and will be there to support you through it all. You do have the strength to do this. Could the cats go with you? ... (read in full...)
I've spent all day trying to clear my head. My ex wants to meet me, what if he wants to give it another go?
Q. Help! I split up with my partner last week. We'd been together nearly 5 years - I'd asked for advice on this site and the help I got was great. It made me strong enough to end the relationship that had run its course. I no longer felt that ...
A. 14 March 2007: If it didn't work a first or second time, it will definately not work at all in the futuret . My ex and I kept breaking up and getting back together and it never worked out in the end! Maybe you shouldn't meet him, if you do your head will be even ... (read in full...)
Our son died, and he asked his ex to get back with him!! Its a year on and I cant get past it!!!
Q. Hi, I got together with my boyfriend about a year and 4 months ago. We met through family. When I met him I thought he was the perfect person I had ever met. I knew it was my time to be happy. Since my ex boyfriend 4 years earlier treated ...
A. 14 March 2007: I am so sorry for your loss. Regards to your bf, the past is the past. Please move on. You and your bf are now back together that is the main thing. This relationship will not work if past events are lurking in the back of your mind. Cherish what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has asked to meet me and said that it was bad. I'm terrified in case he wants to break up with me!
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now. we were getting on fine and then this afternoon he rang and said that he needed to speak to me face to face and that it was bad. when i asked him if he was going to break up with ...
A. 14 March 2007: The best thing to do is get this over and done with. The sooner you know the sooner you can move on. As long as you have got your friends then they will be there for support. It isn't the end of the world. I for one have thought past boyfriends ... (read in full...)
Can I take an injunction out to stop my ex harassing my wife and I?
Q. I was a prize idiot, and cheated on my wife with an ex. It meant nothing, I've felt awful ever since, and since I told my wife about it, fortunately she appears to be giving us a chance to work it out. However, the ex is a bit of a nutter (has ma...
A. 14 March 2007: The best thing to do is keep a diary of events. Try and tape these phone calls by using a dictaphone. Print out these emails and keep them safe. When the ex calls play it cool on the phone and let her say what she has got to say. Keep a diary of ... (read in full...)
I feel more than friendship for her, but she's interested in other guys
Q. As i was writing a response to a girls letter in much of the same situation as i was in 4months ago it made me want to reach out for help too. As i said, 4months ago was when my problem arose, i came clean to my best friend at uni that i had feel...
A. 14 March 2007: Who we fall for cannot be controlled, whether opposite sex or same sex. Unfortunately if you show your jealousy and try to turn her against this guy, she will end up resenting you or worse you will lose her. You must state that you care deeply for ... (read in full...)
Hes nice to all the girls but me!! I love him, but this hurts!
Q. her agony i've never really done this before but well here goes.... i get so jealous about this girl in my boyfrinds drama A Level group it kills. we've been together 2 years and shes so pretty, shes slim, nice her where as im quite tubby and my ...
A. 14 March 2007: What an inconsiderate and shallow pig he is! You deserve better. Kick him to the kerb. Your self esteem is going to suffer if you don't do something about this, if it hasn't already. Talk to him and if he fobs you off - get rid. This shows he only ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so overweight when I only want to lose 5lbs?
Q. I think something's wrong with me. Recently I haven't been hungry at all, so I have to force myself to eat so no one is worried. All I can think about is my weight and how I really want to lose just 5 pounds. My friends and family tell me I'm ...
A. 14 March 2007: Please do not stop eating. We all need vital nutrients and vitamins for our body to perform on a day to day basis, this will affect your energy levels and you will easily be exhausted therefore your performance will suffer in the long run. What do ... (read in full...)
How can I have safe sex without condoms?
Q. I have 6 kids. And I am pregnant again. How can I have safe sex without using condoms?...
A. 14 March 2007: contraceptive injection or get that man of yours down to the clinic and have him snipped!!! All the best with your pregnancy ... (read in full...)
Im 15 and pregnant, the father is 18, would he go to jail if I put his name on the birth certificate ?
Q. Im 15 years old and im 3 weeks pregnant. but the father is 18 can he go to jail if i tell my mom. or put his name on the birth cirtificate...
A. 14 March 2007: If sex was consential no your bf will not go to jail. Please confide in someone soon. Whatever you decide regarding this pregnancy you need support. Have you told your bf? Is he standing by you? Good luck ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has broken up with me and now I think I'm pregnant! Help!!!
Q. hi my boyfriend broken up with me about 2 months ago but i think im pregnant. i dont know what to do i took one doctors wee test and one home test both come back negitive i have had my period in 3 months but they was not like my normal period. ...
A. 14 March 2007: Sweetheart go and see your doc asap and put your mind at rest. Change in menstruation can be caused by stress - which could be caused through the breakup or because you are feeling low. The way we are feeling affects our body more than we realise. ... (read in full...)
I finished my relationship but how do I move on after 5 years?
Q. Hi Everyone. I asked a question on this site a couple of weeks ago as I was thinking of ending my 5 year relationship. I have now done this and feel stronger in myself and I know it was the right thing to do as there was just nothing between us ...
A. 14 March 2007: All i can say is you are such a strong person. Well done. Many people stay in long and meaningless relationships because they simply can't bring themselves to end it and don't want to be alone. You knew deep down that this relationship had run its ... (read in full...)
Don't you hate when you are so close to someone, you can get those unwanted thoughts about them?
Q. Don't you hate when you are so close to someone, you can get those unwanted thoughts about them? Like say you are BEST friends with your mom and you get thoughts of her being ugly and stuff. Doesn't it hurt? I think my mom is beautiful and i hope ...
A. 14 March 2007: This is so strange because i think the exact same things and it's a vile feeling. i looked at my mum the other day and had a horrible thought but me and my mom get on great 2gether so i can't explain it either!!... (read in full...)
Why do women go for bad guys rather than guys who would love and treat them well?
Q. why does it seem that some women are attracted and stay with the guys who treat them bad , and the real decent guys who would only treat a woman with love and respect get treated with contempt by women ?...
A. 14 March 2007: I was with a jealous, possessive and control freak bf for 18 months and just couldn't see what was happening to me, although family and friends could. My self esteem was virtually non exsistent. We broke up and I then met a guy who was moody, gave ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my gf interested in me, so I don't lose her?
Q. hi...ive got a GF and i was just wondering how to keep her interested in me....cos i really dont want to loose her...thank you...:)...
A. 14 March 2007: Well for a start off you shouldn't have to do anything to keep your gf interested. She must like you for who you are to be with you in the first place. Just be yourself and stop worrying. Treat her well and be happy. Only time will tell if this ... (read in full...)
My dad pressed assault charges against my bf. What do I do if my bf goes to jail?
Q. im 19, with a young baby, and my 'bad boy' bf, the father of my child and my parents dont get on. He has no respect for them, i admit that, but things got so bad, he hit my dad, and now my dad has pressed charges, i dont blame my dad 4 doin it cus ...
A. 14 March 2007: I'm sorry to hear this. Your dad is angry and is not thinking this through and has acted in haste. Your bf should never have hit your dad out of respect for you whatever reason he hit your dad for. My Dad had an argument with my husband and hit ... (read in full...)
We've finished more times than I've had hot dinners but I can't seem to stay away from him
Q. iv been off and on with my ex for 2yrs, we work together and i cant keep him away from me, he keeps going back to his ex wife, but dont tell me about it, i finished with him more times then iv add hot dinners, but i love him so much, i keep taking ...
A. 14 March 2007: I really think that this is guy is taking you for a ride. Get some respect for yourself. Of course he is going to keep coming backwards and forwards between the two of you as he knows you will always be there for him when he feels like it. Don't ... (read in full...)
He's working away for a month, it's only been 2 weeks but I'm missing him so much!
Q. my fiance and I live together, we have done for the past 18 months, we spend all our time together, we dont get much due to work but when we are not working, we are always together. he's working away for a month and its only week 2 and i'm missing ...
A. 14 March 2007: Hi there I know exactly how you feel sweety. My husband and I only have to be apart for half a day and we miss each other so much that we can't bear to be apart. I think this is lovely, I really do. It just shows how much you love him and what an ... (read in full...)
Do you think my daughter is really in love with this boy?
Q. Hello. My daughter is 17 and she has a boyfriend. I think they have been together for around 2 months now. I am really not sure how teenagers act when they are in love but I think she may be falling in love with this boy. She is always asking if...
A. 14 March 2007: hormones, hormones, hormones!!!. At 17 your daughter probably thinks she is in love. All you can do is give your daughter space and let her have fun with this guy. Just be there for her - a shoulder to cry on - if anything goes wrong - that's all ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't like our age gap but I want to spend the rest of my life with this man!
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle! I'm 21 and my fiance is 35. My mum dosent like it because of the age difference. What can i do or say to help her change her mind? I love him and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I've been with him since i ...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi I don't understand what a 27 year old man wants with a 13 year old girl? Now you are 21, this is your decision but I can fully understand why your mum wasn't too happy. I was 23 when I met my now husband who is now 60 and my dad was ready to ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and still in full time education. Can I still get my prescriptions for free?
Q. hey. I'm 17 and go to college so am still in full education. i live in the UK and was wondering whether i can get prescriptions from my doctor for free. i want to enquire if i can possibly go on the pill so does anyone know if i will have to pay o...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi I know that while I was at college and your age I got my prescriptions for free. Also if you are put on the pill these should be free from your doctor.... (read in full...)
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