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*harlygirl
writes:iv been off and on with my ex for 2yrs, we work together and i cant keep him away from me, he keeps going back to his ex wife, but dont tell me about it, i finished with him more times then iv add hot dinners, but i love him so much, i keep taking him back, please help i dont know how i can stay away from him, i love him but cant be with him.
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reader, charlygirl +, writes (14 March 2007):
charlygirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni was ask if i av spoken 2 his ex wife, yes i av a couple of times, iv proved 2 her his been seeing me, but she is just lke me, she cant let go. id like 2 thank the people that av repied 2 my message thank u very much.
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reader, sunshine99 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 I really think that this is guy is taking you for a ride. Get some respect for yourself. Of course he is going to keep coming backwards and forwards between the two of you as he knows you will always be there for him when he feels like it. Don't waste your life on this loser. Give him an ultimatum and stick to it - "ME OR HER". Please don't be used. You are stronger than you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.you are in an addictive unhealthy relationship.i know someone just like you only they have split up 50 times in 4years and she has lost all her friends and most of her family.sounds like you dont respect yourself.you're probably used to the heartache of splitting up then going through the honeymoon phase when you get back together.he keeps going back to his ex-wife?how long are you prepared to play human ping-pong?what a user.sit and analyse it.he doesnt have to go through the loneliness because he has his ex to fan his ego.hes got alot of growing up to do and you need to wakeup and move on.just out of interest have you ever spoken to the ex-wife?
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reader, sunrise +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Hi, what about changing your job, asking for a move to another department. you need to strong cause at the moment he's got his cake and eating it to.I dont think you love him as much as you think you do, you are probably used to him and his company, but do yourself a favour and move on, you will soon realise that you dont need him as much as he needs you. Get out there and enjoy your life, dont hang around waiting at his convenience. This time finish it and mean it, he's truly not worth it. x
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