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writes: my fiance and I live together, we have done for the past 18 months, we spend all our time together, we dont get much due to work but when we are not working, we are always together. he's working away for a month and its only week 2 and i'm missing him so much i dont know what to do with myself! it sounds really sad reading back through it now but i am finding being alone so hard. any suggestions how to cope alone? i wish he was here so much. x
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reader, ali_jolie  +, writes (20 March 2007):
That is soooo CUTE!!!! I totally nderstand you. It´s only 2 more weeks, to keep your mind busy, why don´t you plan a special wellcome back surprise for him, maybe try to look for a new deliciuos recipe and meke a special dinner for him, buy some candels, get some sexy cloths for you to wear on your first night together,etc. that way you´ll be busy and very excited to see him again instead of been sad and blue!!!!
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reader, sunshine99  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Hi there I know exactly how you feel sweety. My husband and I only have to be apart for half a day and we miss each other so much that we can't bear to be apart. I think this is lovely, I really do. It just shows how much you love him and what an important part he plays in your life. It's a shame more relationships weren't like yours. It won't be long till your together again. Know it sounds sad but I couldn't bear to be away from my husband for an hour!!!!
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Well, if its week 2, you`re halfway there! Hopefully the last two weeks will go quicker if you can keep busy; I understand it`s hard to concentrate on anything right now as you`re missing him so much, but with a teensy bit of effort, you could suprise yourself. Also, it would be great for him when he comes home to see you`ve been busy, and he`ll be proud & take an interest in what you`ve been doing. It`s a good idea to get out & about, see family & friends; but if you don`t feel like it, how about making some little improvements to where you live? I don`t mean re-decorate the entire place so your fiance dosn`t recognise his own place! You could busy yourself making unique tie backs for the bedroom curtains, or how about making a sampler (home sweet home), or carefully embroidering both your initials on one corner of your pillowcases? You could get a baking book out from your local library to practise up on making cakes, what a treat for when he comes home! You could also pick up a book on flower arranging, treat yourself to a couple of bunches on the way home from work; and after supper get to work on a masterpiece. The possabilities are endless, please do try at least one of my suggestions; they should help time whizz by, and you`ll be bursting with news when he comes back. Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, kenny +, writes (13 March 2007):
 This is really sweet, you and your fiance sound like you have got something really good together.
Do you work during the week? I find going to gym after work is a good thing to do, it will keep you occupied. I think when you are sitting at home alone your mind works overtime, so you need an outside activity to pass the time. At weekends visit friends, family, do some gardening, go shopping. Keep yourself occupied and busy and before you know it he will be back home again.
Take care x
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reader, young mummy +, writes (13 March 2007):
ahh bless you! you need your friends, a good girly night in, i miss my bf, and he only lives down the road! but what keeps me goin, is knowin that i'll see him again. hes coming back to you isnt he! its not like hes left you for good, i think being in good company will cheer u up, and just think of all the nice things u can do together when he comes back.
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