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writes:her agony i've never really done this before but well here goes.... i get so jealous about this girl in my boyfrinds drama A Level group it kills. we've been together 2 years and shes so pretty, shes slim, nice her where as im quite tubby and my hairs a frizzy mess. i got raped a few years back and it really changed me. my boyfriend knows this but still he can be so horrible at times, sometimes i just want to leave him but i love him so much nd we have holidays and everything planned. i dnt know what to do his horrible to me yet his lovely to her and all other girls for that matter, i've tried talking to him but he walks off in a strop and says i go on all the time. i would have a break to scared him but this makes me ill as i ahte not seeing him for ages. please please please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Try talking to him again, and if that fails, give him an ultimatum. Say to him that ur feeling are hurt, and that if he doesn't change his actions, you will leave him. If he still continues to act like this, he really doesn't seem worth it.
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reader, sunshine99 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 What an inconsiderate and shallow pig he is! You deserve better. Kick him to the kerb. Your self esteem is going to suffer if you don't do something about this, if it hasn't already. Talk to him and if he fobs you off - get rid. This shows he only thinks of himself and doesn't give two hoots over your feelings. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Hey u need to talk to him and show him how u feel and if he doesnt listern or change for u then u really need to leave him because there are really caring guys out there and they would treat u rightHope it goes alright .x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Dump him and move on. You need someone who won't be nice to every girl around him apart from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): How old are you, you sound quite young, sorry i'm not being horrible, but i think if you were older you wouldn't let this happen to you. some of these things happen to us when we are young and immature. I'm so sorry to hear that you have been raped in the past, a terrible thing to happen to anyone, i know, it happened to me at a very young age.
I think you need to have a serious word with this bf of yours. Tell him that you are not happy by the way he treats you. Don't hold back on the words, it is your life and happiness at stake here. Tell exactly how you feel and how you want him to be with you. If he walks off in a strop, then fine, let him do so but on his return tell him that if things don't improve then you two are finished, and mean it!!!
You do deserve better and shouldn't have to put up with this kind of behavour. Walk on and meet someone else. Life is too short!!!!
Take care and keep in touch
xx
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