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Don't you hate when you are so close to someone, you can get those unwanted thoughts about them?

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Question - (12 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Don't you hate when you are so close to someone, you can get those unwanted thoughts about them? Like say you are BEST friends with your mom and you get thoughts of her being ugly and stuff. Doesn't it hurt? I think my mom is beautiful and i hope when i get older, i look as pretty as she does. The features i don't like of myself i think are from my dad like my nose and stuff because my moms isn't like mine. Like i said i think she is beautiful. Or you could also get these thoughts about a friend. It sucks because you stop and think, "do i really think she is ugly" but you know deep down you don't think she i.

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A female reader, sunshine99 United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2007):

sunshine99 agony auntThis is so strange because i think the exact same things and it's a vile feeling. i looked at my mum the other day and had a horrible thought but me and my mom get on great 2gether so i can't explain it either!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

I get those all the time- when Im aroudn someone and I just happen to be offput by them( even when they are just sitting there... its odd- like maybe someone istn wearing make up or had a bad nights sleep.) I sure hope people dont see me in that light often... It is sad... it it makes us human...

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