I want him back but not sure the reason why ?
Q. i have recently split up with a guy who i was with for over a year, i want him back but i'm not sure if it's because i love him or because i feel secure with him, what should i do? ...
A. 1 September 2006: look you just split up with him of course your going to think of getting baack with him but it werent meant to be. ... (read in full...)
Is my sneaking bad?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and my step cousin is 15,and I think i fancy her. Ok, shes family (in a way) but I'm attracted to her and take pictures of her on my mobile saying i'm texting. I've even sneaked into her room when she was out and saw a bra on her bed...
A. 23 August 2006: well if you have a crush on her you cant help sneaking around her and stuff but going into her room is abit private and shes a girl so she has loads of "girl" stuff in there you might of seen which boys shouldnt its ok having a crush but that all it ... (read in full...)
My husbands mother passed away and now he won't have sex with me!
Q. What should I do? Last year my husband's mother passed away. Since then he has refused to have sex with me! They had an extremely contentious relationship, and many issues remained unsettled between them. I know he was subject to her emotiona...
A. 23 August 2006: hes still grieving, griening comes in all different emotions he obviously is dealing with it, to not have sex, he will come round but you have to understand he has just lost his mother and him were close the way you were speaking so just be there ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test said negative but is it accurate?
Q. Ok i havent had my period for 3 weeks now and i took a pregnancy test but it said I'm not pregnant. But i feel like i am. Do the tests mess up sometimes or is it accurate?...
A. 23 August 2006: no there not true always i was about 13 and i tryed one ( by the way im still a virgin and im 17) and it said i was pregnant and it also depends on your age to if you just about started you periods then they mostly take about two years to funtion ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her - should I marry her?
Q. 5 months into a relationship, and i feel like she's the world to me. Even with other girls offering me to go out with them instead of my current gf, my gf means the world to me and i would never want to lose her. yet, i am too young for marriage in ...
A. 23 August 2006: marriage is for love and want to spend your life with each other not just to keep somone, show her you love her but not in marriage! you will only be unhappy trust me good luck xox... (read in full...)
He drinks more now, how can I gat him to understand?
Q. my boyfriend of 14 years has hardly ever come straight home after work he usually goes to the bar, he never even really communicated with me. he now drinks more and if it's possible talks less with me now. accusing me of having affairs. he stat...
A. 23 August 2006: need to talk to him. a seriouse talk to see how he feels inside without no drink if he is still accusing you leave him and show him whos boss he dont deserve you if he drinks!in drink mean/woman dont care or understand about other people so theres ... (read in full...)
He wants to try "woman on top", but I don't know how to do it!
Q. My bf wants to try the girl on top position. I'm new to this. I don't know what I'm doing! Any advice!? We tried it before and i felt uncomfortable!! I didn't know how to move, how to position myself or anything! What do I do? Any advice?--thanks :)...
A. 23 August 2006: if your scard start out slow and let him guide you first of all. and when you feel comfodent then you take controll lower your self onto his bosy 1st of all and just do what you mostly do. good luck ... (read in full...)
Was the teacher hinting at something inappropriate?
Q. A teacher at my school recently said 'fancy a job, (name)?' and then winked at me while smiling at me. One of my mates says thats really inappropriate... is it? I'm so confused :S... thanx xxxxxx...
A. 22 August 2006: ovecourse not he was proboly just messing about unless he is a seriouse teacher then yh it is but if hes cool and fun and makes everyone laugh then no and he didnt mean anything by it best of luck rate my comment xox... (read in full...)
Should I ask for this girl's number?
Q. This is gonna be kinda long. Ok I met up with a (girl) cousin of mine for a few drinks a couple of weeks back. She was in town with her work mates. I got on really well with one girl, we had a lot in common and there seemed to be a spark. We c...
A. 22 August 2006: well yes ovecourse your only askin for her number not to marry her!... (read in full...)
My BF doesn't believe that I love him!
Q. Hey I got a boyfriend, I'm 16 and he's my first love. I love him soo much. The problem is he doesn't believe me. I tell him i do, i try to explain how i feel and what I'm feeling, but he just gets moody. Its starting to be all the time. He tells me ...
A. 22 August 2006: look saying i love you dont mean anything but if you show it thats different show him all types of love and quit donw saying you love him it might turn him off and making him think if your just saying it and dont mean it.he wants action and only you ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 22 August 2006: you go for it!!!! ... (read in full...)
We have a perfect relationship except I get nasty when I drink and he can't take much more of it!
Q. Hi I am 19 and my boyfriend is 25. I love him with all my heart and I know he feels the same. We have a perfect relationship except for one thing. Everytime I get drunk I change. I turn into a nasty spiteful person. I shout and say nasty hurtful ...
A. 22 August 2006: look cut down on drink when you go out with him only drink one or 2 glasses tops and then stick with coctails and there the alcohal but there much prettier and youll stay with your boyfriend who yo love try not to geet drunk or youll lose him as he ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age!!
Q. Hello, A few weeks ago I met a boy who I instantly got along with. He told me he was 18 and so I lied about my age and said i was 17, a year older as I'm actually 16. At the time I didn't think I would see him again, so i didn't think It would ca...
A. 22 August 2006: ok ill give you choices
1: tell him but add "i thought you wouldnt like me and i love you and i just wanted to be with you and all that lovey dovey stuff
2: dont tell him and on your birthday youll get a cake that says happy birthday..... co... (read in full...)
Together 5 years, been split for 8 months but we still have sex!
Q. My ex and I have been split up now for about 8 months. We were together for five years and have known each other for 9 years. It was a pretty bad break up. He called one day, and of course I asked how high when he told me to jump. I'm having a ...
A. 22 August 2006: im sorry but you cannot be friends with som1 your feelin sexual wiv and have having sex together.i dont think he respects you and why dont he get back together with you because he dont want to so stop making him think your single go for another man ... (read in full...)
Hey girls! How do you react when you orgasm?
Q. How do you girls react when you orgasm, I just think the way I react is strange? Thanx...
A. 22 August 2006: orgasms arnt stange but each person is different you might make noises that you dont do in normal everyday life dont matter if its weird, if you like it you like it and dont care how you look or anything. i tend to make noises that are kinda loud ... (read in full...)
Love someone with realising it? - is that even possible!!
Q. Is it possible to love someone without realising? theres this lad i used to like but i dont anymore. but when he said he didnt want to speak to me anymore i cried. do i still love him without realising it? he was also my friend though before things ...
A. 22 August 2006: i think you dont love him but hes always been your friend so you think you really love him but its a friendship love, i think love is between two people who dont share anything near friendship, i dont understand how u can love som1 without relising ... (read in full...)
I asked why he won't talk to me on msn and he wrote "F**k ya!"
Q. He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me....
A. 22 August 2006: leave it and dont be the first person to talk on email or in public let him aproch you and maybe it ant you he proboly has alot of things on his mind and always give him the oppertunity to confide in you and make it clear to him your always there ... (read in full...)
If I ask her out now shes a free agent will my feelings come back ?
Q. Hey I have a bit of a problem. There is was this girl, and about a year ago I was madly in love with her, I thought about her all the time and really wanted to be with her. BUT she had a boyfriend so I gritted my teeth and got over her after a...
A. 22 August 2006: maybe try it out u never know if you dont try that what i say. if you like her the same way as you did after you spend time together then go for it if not then move on and spend your life with another person but if the feelings were there before ... (read in full...)
I can't get my girlfriends past sex life out my head
Q. Hi - hope you can help. Have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and just found out that she has been a lot more sexually active than I - sleeping with at least 14 different partners (she is 32). I think this is a lot personally, I am ...
A. 22 August 2006: so let me get this straight she has been truthful to you and not having sex with another man while your going out so whats there to forgive. try and forget the past its all about the present and plus if you want her you got her but if you cant put ... (read in full...)
We are both in a relationship but I really like this other guy - does he like me too?
Q. I've always felt as though there is something between me and this man. I can read his body language towards me and I'm pretty sure he can read mine. But, I just need some kind of confirmation or someone to say I'm getting it all wrong. Whenever ...
A. 22 August 2006: well he defiantly likes you but you are both in a relationship. if you really like him dump your boy friend make it clear to the man you like you broke up with your present boy friend for him, see what he says and if he dumps his girlfriend then go ... (read in full...)
Is he flirting or just messing with my head? Help me-what should I do?
Q. How can I tell if a guy at works likes me. I think he flirts with me and we get on real well. Were both single but I dont want to make a move in case im reading the signs wrong then it will be uncomfortable working togther. Basically he talks to me ...
A. 22 August 2006: well if he certaintly ant messing with your head!
"iwish i saw you in your short skirt" is a chat up line and wants more in your friendship go for it girl, if he dont see you in that way ditch him as a friend he was winding you up and must go the ... (read in full...)
He's waiting on his ex gf to decide whether she wants him back...but I love him! What should I do?
Q. my husband left me and my two children around 8 months ago and I had a really difficult time until I met a guy in April. I have totally fell for this guy but have only seen him around once a week since we met as he works away. He has just come out ...
A. 22 August 2006: look im sorry im saying this but.........HIS USING YOU!!! find a better guy who dont take advandage ok hunny good luck and dont yyou sit there listening to his problems!... (read in full...)
Does he want a casual relationship or a serious one? He keeps giving me mixed signals! What should I do?
Q. hi, im 18 and im seeing this guy who's 30 he has a daughter whos 8, he seems really caring but i dont know whether he wants a casual relationship or a serious relationship, and the thing is there is too much people that will get hurt if we are ...
A. 22 August 2006: hes proboly just scard as the daughter already had a mummy she might class you as one to so he dont want to get to seriouse incase you brake up and his daughter dont wantto be confussed, take each day as it comes and keep your head up high, what i ... (read in full...)
Boyfriends mum is suss that we have had sex. Tell her?
Q. well me and my boyfriend had sex and his mum keeps makin hints as if she nos like the other day she was in the car with my boyfriend and she asked him if i was on the pill and if we were virgins we havnt told our parents and are scared to abit cos ...
A. 22 August 2006: parents understand when your taking the pill and using a comdom otherwise they tend to go ballistic. maybe wait untill your 16 and both tell parents together and dont forget the pill and condom part and youll do just fine, they cant say anything to ... (read in full...)
Would I now be referred to as a tart!?
Q. I met this boy who i was talking to for a couple of weeks and went to his house and we was talking to each other. We started kissing for hours, then he fingered me. Am i a tart? ...
A. 22 August 2006: how are you a tart if you really like this guy and planned to stay with him not move eonto the next guy then youll get fingered by him later anyway and plus you should know how he is(if you know what i mean) and only you and him know and i bet hell ... (read in full...)
Im a 19 year old lesbian stuck for ideas of what to get my girlfriend..
Q. I'm 19 and a lesbian. I've been in a long distance relationship for just over a year. I'm stuck for ideas for what to get my girlfriend for her birthday. Gifts I've sent her before are: a bracelet, teddy, cushion, photo album, a book, socks and a ...
A. 22 August 2006: spoil her!!! take he to a romantic restuant give her a braclet or a sweet present and tell her you love her and how youo feel about her i think that will be the best present she would love
good luck xoxo ps: i done that with my girlfriend and she ... (read in full...)
We broke up because he says I pick up on stuff and argue... how can I get him to change his mind ?
Q. Hiya.i am feeling very low at the moment.I'm 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. We spilt up on friday, because i often pick on little things and start arguing with him when he has done nothing wrong.He said he didn't want to be with me anymore cos have ...
A. 21 August 2006: look ill break it sown for you, it could be you hormaones and he shouold know that, hes just saing that because that proboly his excuss for breaking up with u... (read in full...)
I'm 17 - she's 15. Illegal?
Q. Hi, I was wondering what is classed as ilegal in the UK with an under 16 year old??? I'm 17 and she is 15! we are really love each other and want to get more physical but don't want to break the law! Please can you tell us what is ok? THANKS....
A. 20 August 2006: im really sorry you cant till hes over 16. but if you love him you will wait and maybe if you wait a year or so until he is 16 it will be more exciting as you are both young it is wise to use protection all the time and the 1st time to
ps: wait... (read in full...)
How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship?
Q. How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship? I'm too scared to say anything to a male friend of mine. We had feelings for each other since we were classmates in college, but I knew he was uncertain about ...
A. 20 August 2006: hi
i just want to say try and find out if he treats you like a girl a boy/girl. i mean by boy/girl if he discusses other girls with you or tells you 'thats girl is hot' expressions to you, this means if so you have no further relationship and you ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship?
Q. How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship? I'm too scared to say anything to a male friend of mine. We had feelings for each other since we were classmates in college, but I knew he was uncertain about ...
A. 20 August 2006: hi
i just want to say try and find out if he treats you like a girl a boy/girl. i mean by boy/girl if he discusses other girls with you or tells you 'thats girl is hot' expressions to you, this means if so you have no further relationship and you ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship?
Q. How do you tell a friend you've fallen in love with them without risking your friendship? I'm too scared to say anything to a male friend of mine. We had feelings for each other since we were classmates in college, but I knew he was uncertain about ...
A. 20 August 2006: hi
i just want to say try and find out if he treats you like a girl a boy/girl. i mean by boy/girl if he discusses other girls with you or tells you 'thats girl is hot' expressions to you, this means if so you have no further relationship and you ... (read in full...)
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