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writes:This is gonna be kinda long.Ok I met up with a (girl) cousin of mine for a few drinks a couple of weeks back. She was in town with her work mates. I got on really well with one girl, we had a lot in common and there seemed to be a spark. We chatted most of the night and had a kiss at one point. EVERYONE was drunk. I forgot to ask for this girl's number.Anyway this girl is a friend of my cousin's through work, so not a real close friend. I could ask my cousin for her number.. but... should I? I'd like to hang out again, go out for a drink or bite to eat to get to know her more... but would it be awkward asking my cousin for her number? Will I seem creepy? What if she doesn't want me to have it, she won't have a chance to say no.......... basically what I'm saying is:SHOULD I do anything and get this girl's number? And how?One other complication is that she lives in a different town to me but it's not a huge problem because I'm often down there at weekends and the like. The girl is single because I asked, she ended it with a long-ish term boyfriend earlier this year. I very rarely feel this way about new girls I meet so this is quite an unusual situation for me. I'm 28 she's 25. Thanks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGot blown out.. she's "busy at the moment 2 b honest but maybe c u around with ur cousin!" But nothing ventured nothing gained I'm glad I asked because otherwise I'd be wondering :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): Kudos!!! Brava!!!
You better let us know. :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGot the number she's away at the moment going to txt her when she gets back.............. will let u know what happens!
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 well yes ovecourse your only askin for her number not to marry her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone I have txt'd my cousin asking for the girl's number am awaiting a response will let you know if I hear back!!
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Sure ask your cousin for this girls number. What have you got to lose? Your cousin should want you to be happy and if she cares about her friend then she should want her to be happy too. The girl that you like should feel flattered by you asking for her number and I am sure by what you said that she feels the same. Your both single and at a sensible age so go for it hunny. Living in different towns should be no problem not if you go down that way a lot any way. If anything it will probably be better because then you don't have to worry about knowing eachothers ex's and things. good luck
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reader, camille +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Ask your cousin to pass your number on to the girl if you want to leave the decision up to her. Or yes, just ask for her number. There's nothing to lose and it sounds like you got on really well so where's the harm? Just go out on your own and take it slowly, see how you get on without all the friends and all the booze.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): Sounds like you should most certainly go for it!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): No you won't seem creepy; why would you think that?
Ask for the number. Trust in yourself. You'll kick yoursel for days if you let this oppurtunity pass you by.
Good luck and let us know how the date went.
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