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hey im zoe i live in england peterborough,

i think i can help people bcus i have had experience in particually bad situations wiff my family friends and personal situations, to help someone u dont need to have a qualification or any gcse or A level all u need to do is undertsand and talk, giving advice is the best thing u can do with someone who has a problem, i dont like telling people what to do i would rather give them a few options and then they can decide what they want to do, i hope the advice and options i give can help the people i talk to and get them out of difficult situations and stress.

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I'm 14 and I want a bf! Is it because I think I'm ugly?

Q.   hey guys i really need help im 14 and still single never had a boyfriend before i really want a boyfriend i want someone to hang out with and i want to experience the life with a boyfriend i've never kissed any guy before. When i was in primary My ...

A.   1 October 2006: hey, theres probably loads of guys that like u there probably just as shy as u and dont want rejection. if theres some1 u wanna go out wiff talk to them about n e fing and see wat sort of responce u get try and be friend and then u may find out he ... (read in full...)

I want them both...What should I do???

Q.   im feeling really depressed cuz i've hurt someone's feelings real badly.i broke up with my ex last year because our parents disapprove of our r/s for religious reasons. im 18 btw and he's 21. another reason why we broke up was also bcuz i broke his ...

A.   11 September 2006: heya im zoe, ur ex b/f sounds as if he dosnt no himself what he wnats and thats why he changes his mind so much about what he wants and he probably got really confused, then again he might not wont u but he might not want anyone else to have u, ... (read in full...)

Im not as into my man as he is me, I do however have feelings for his friend!!

Q.   Dear cupid I have been goin out with a guy for about three months and we get on well but I know he is not the one for me even though he is head over heels in love with me. I get on well with all his friends and consider them to be good friends of ...

A.   24 August 2006: hey, love is always the most difficult thing in life as u cnt control it, ur boyfriend should no that u dont want to be with him any longer and i agree with "baby girl" that u should maby let thwm both go, u will end up hurting some1 without meanin ... (read in full...)

Been married for 5 years but all he does is drink with his mates during his time-off work!

Q.   I am having a problem in my relationship I hope someone can answer. I have been married for 5 years now. We both have jobs out of the county. Well on his days off he does not spend them with me he likes to go drink with his buddies. I just want to ...

A.   24 August 2006: hey, it sounds like ur man may need a shock to realise what hes got, maby u could stay with a friend one weekend wothout telling him and see if he rings you or txt u or tries to get in contact, if he does he cares and is woundering ware u r, he may ... (read in full...)

He told me, "Bros before hoes". Should we just break up?

Q.   Me and my bf's 6 month anniversery was a lil less then a week ago...on our ann. I guess he was with his friends trying to find ways to break up with me and he was texting this chick. The next day everything was back to normal and that nite I found ...

A.   24 August 2006: hey, we will probably never undertsnad males but this dosnt sound like normal talk to ur girlfriend, he sounds like hes tryin to make u want him so much so he ses jump u say how high, i probably like ppl wantin him, it dosnt sound like ur v happy ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me to ask my husband to go out so I can have the house to myself?

Q.   Married for thirty years. Is it wrong of me to ask my husband to go out so I can have the house to myself sometimes? He is refusing, so I go out instead. Would like the house to myself sometimes. Need my own space. Any advice?...

A.   24 August 2006: hey, well he may feel as if u want him to go out bcus hes insucure and scared about another man he may not realise ur actually just wanting ur own space, u should try talking to him and saying u want some time alone for ur own time, maby u could ... (read in full...)

I'm trapped! If I dump my bf of 3 years, my family will be devastated! What can I do?

Q.   I feel so desperate i dont know where to turn. I have been wanting to end things with my boyfriend of 3 years (who lives with me) for a few months now, and normally i wouldnt hesitate, as i know i will be fine on my own, but he has made himself ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, ino things are hard at the minuit, but i dont think living with someone hu makes u unhappy is a gud idea, ur family will always be there for u, its ur choice hu ur wiff not ur families, ino its hard but maby u shud ask for sum chill out time ... (read in full...)

I don't want to have sex with my bf! He wants it and I am scared he will hurt me if I turn him down! Please help me!

Q.   hi, im 16 and im going out with a boy, but he wants sex and i dont want to i want to wait until im 20 or even marriage but he keeps pushing me into it and im suppose to see him tommorow and night and do it but i don't want to, i can't tell him beca...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, well first of all u shud tell someone hu will look after u and keep u safe from him such as a parent or sumthing wen hes out and ur alone u cud get some stuff into a bag and go see ur parents or siblings if not msby a friend, then u should maby ... (read in full...)

He 'played' over my underwear and then it started to hurt? Why?

Q.   Hey, this is sorta embarassing but, here it goes, im 14 years old, my bf is 15 (16 soon) i really love him, trust him, we've been dating for over 3 months now and were always very close for a bout a year before that, ive tossed him off but made it ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, i ent gunna say u shudnt bcus it isnt my place to tell u wat to do but maby u shud read up on sex and stuff lyk that on the internet or connexions-direct, i 14 too and no how u feel, good luck. take care, zoe... (read in full...)

After 2 and 1/2 years, she dumped me ..today. I am devastated...Need help coping!

Q.   my girlfriend of two and a half years just broke up with me today. she said she isn't in love with my anymore. i'm devistated and don't know how to cope with it. any suggestions, please?...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, well every1 finds a differnt way of copin wif fings uv probs herd tht so many tyms b4 but its true, go out wiff friends, surround ya self wiff ppl hu do love u and maby talking to her to find out the reson she just stopped lovin u, she may have ... (read in full...)

I lied about my age!!

Q.   Hello, A few weeks ago I met a boy who I instantly got along with. He told me he was 18 and so I lied about my age and said i was 17, a year older as I'm actually 16. At the time I didn't think I would see him again, so i didn't think It would ca...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, well u could say to him that u dint think we were gunna see him agen and u wanted to sound abit older as he is older then u it shouldnt be a problem, tell him the truth lyin is never a gd idea but hey every1 does it, hell be fine ull probably ... (read in full...)

My bf doesn't want me to live with him and I find it hard on my own. How do I deal with this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. We haved lived together but he couldn't handle someone being there all the time and wanted his space. He said that on occasion I did his head in (no one else has ever said this about me) so he ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey im zoe, it seems that ur boyfriend dosnt want a long term realtionship with u, and that he maby just using up his time, im sorry u have been diagnosed with cancer and my prayers r with u to overcome it. maby u should go to a bar or something and ... (read in full...)

I know he is a messer, is he using me?

Q.   i went out with this boy for a short amount of time when he broke up wiht me. last week i went to see him and theres atill attraction because he kissed me. i liked it. he says he still likes me but i dunno if to trust him. is he just using me? ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, well he may still like you but if he did why wud he of dumped u, he may just want to be a free agent but still do the things u used to do together such as kissing and sexual stuff, u may really like him but if hes a messer he may onli want to ... (read in full...)

She is 20 year older, I am attracted but I don't want a relationship

Q.   I have for some time been attracted to my nextdoor neighbour, she is 20 years older than me but is divorced how can i approach her without offending her i am not looking for a relationship i just want to tell her that i have been attracted to her ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, i think if u want to tell her then while ur talking to her just say shes attractive and u have thought so for some time other wise if u tell her tht u have thought that for 15 years she might think ur abit of a werido just give her a compliment ... (read in full...)

How can I build trust that has been lost?

Q.   my boyfriend and i just broke up because we've been dealing with trust issues; dealing with my past. there are some things i am not ready to tell him... he is giving me a chance to prove to him that he can trust me.. but only as friends.. what are ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, trust is a hard thing to gain once it is lost but that dosnt mean he wont trust u agen, u need to talk to him and maby discuss alittle about what u arnt telling him so he understands y u arnt ready, he probably feels that ur keeping things from ... (read in full...)

He's waiting on his ex gf to decide whether she wants him back...but I love him! What should I do?

Q.   my husband left me and my two children around 8 months ago and I had a really difficult time until I met a guy in April. I have totally fell for this guy but have only seen him around once a week since we met as he works away. He has just come out ...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, i am way younder than u but i can see where ur cuming from, u love this guy yh, but he loves sum1 else, i think his ex wud say jump n him how high, maby this guy just wants u as a friend, but for the sex too, in his eyes he may think ur just ... (read in full...)

If I ask her out now shes a free agent will my feelings come back ?

Q.   Hey I have a bit of a problem. There is was this girl, and about a year ago I was madly in love with her, I thought about her all the time and really wanted to be with her. BUT she had a boyfriend so I gritted my teeth and got over her after a...

A.   22 August 2006: hey, well wen u really loved her she was taken and now she isnt u dont no its like wen u cant have them u love them more sort of thing, mabey u shud spend sum tym tgether go out maby and talk about urself then maby ur love will come back, but if it ... (read in full...)

13 years old and my finger just doesn't do anything for me...

Q.   Hi im 13 years old and like to masterbate but when I finger myself I don't get any pleasure .. whats wrong ?...

A.   22 August 2006: well every teenager feels erges to masturbate girls and boys, but maby u shud consider getting into the mood first not just doing it cos it wont do anything unless u feel in the mood to do it, u can find loads of ways to masturbate online google it, ... (read in full...)

Girl on girl

Q.   hiya i think i like my best mate shes a girl so am i and were 12 years old. everyone thinks were lesbians because all our friends think were very touchy. were both straight but ive had my past with girls. she loves boys but she might be hiding she ...

A.   22 August 2006: well because your just turning into a teenager you feel different things and sumtyms u wont no where u r wiff boys or girls. the thing is you should try talkin to her she myt just be jokin about wiff u or she cud be serious but be carful bcos if ... (read in full...)

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