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writes: I've always felt as though there is something between me and this man. I can read his body language towards me and I'm pretty sure he can read mine. But, I just need some kind of confirmation or someone to say I'm getting it all wrong. Whenever we talk, our bodies are so close we're nearly touching and there's this staring into each others eyes. And when someone else enters a conversation with us, it takes us both a few seconds to look away from each other. Sometimes I've noticed that our hands touch and it takes a while for both of us to move them away. Recently at a function we were both at I was dancing at the dancefloor with mutual friends of ours and I noticed that he was watching me and when the boss asked him to take photos for the monthly mag, everyone said he was taking lots of pics of me. The only problem is that we are both in a relationship with somebody else. Am I right to think that he feels something for me or am I thinking too much into things because I do like him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Well im going with someone right now but the guy i've liked for a long time just told me he really really liked me.Then he asked me out when i had a boyfriend i told him i couldnt go out with because i had a boyfriend he said he would wait for me.When we talk to each other the things he says just makes me fall for him more.But i dont know what i should do,stay with my boyfriend or dumped him and go out with the other guy I mean i really like both of them but i dont know what to do I'm sooo confused i cant stop thinking about it..Just please give me your honest opinion about what you think i should do.Thanks!
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 well he defiantly likes you but you are both in a relationship. if you really like him dump your boy friend make it clear to the man you like you broke up with your present boy friend for him, see what he says and if he dumps his girlfriend then go for it and if he dont dump her you shouldnt of liked another man when your going out with somone and will teach you a lessson
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): The guy is taken dear and so are you. I would definitely say this guy has the 'hots' for you, dear. I would say you are both lusting bigtime..after each other. It's a strong sexual attraction. But you are both in relationships. A lot of women get wrapped up in the erotic illusion of trying out a new hot guy. That's because he's not the same guy you have at home...remember, the guy (your bf) who takes the garbage out in his old sweats and has stubble on his chin. Why don't you ignore these temptations and explore ways to 'find' that sexy, alluring and attractive man (your bf) right there in your own relationship. If you love your bf, do yourself and him, a favor and stop wasting your time. This other man has a woman and he's off limits. Maybe it's time to reassess your own relationship to find out why you are tempted, hun. (disillusionment, complacency boredom in your own relationship, perhaps) Figure out why you want to lust after other men and why is this guy lusting after you? Likely for the same reasons. I say this because, if you both were in meaningful, deeply loving relationships--absolutely no one could tempt you to stray. Just think well before you heed to the mating calls and make the a needless decision to leave your relationship, which could just needs a good boost. Work on that, instead, If your relationships are irretrievable, at least take the hard step of leaving your partners before starting anything. If this man want a relationship but he doesn't leave his gf, you then will know he wants the the best of both worlds and he's not genuine, good man. Be careful... Guard your emotions dear...you could get hurt.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Maybe he fancies you...it certainly seems that way from what you write about body language etc. However, there are a couple of things you need to think about. Firstly, this is a guy from work (...well maybe from the 'boss' remark) and you should take care about starting relationships at work as it may not work out in the long run and you still have the embarrassment of seeing each other professionally. Secondly, you are dating someone and so is he. If you were both single then maybe it would be ok but neither are. If you are unhappy in your current relationship either finish it, or fix whatever is wrong that makes your eyes wander to the other man. It is not fair on your current BF to cheat on him and if this new guy is not willing to finish his relationship to be with you then he isnt worthy of your attention either. Tread carefully with this one and try to figure out if you are besotted with this new guy, or just a bit bored of your current BF and looking for new entertainment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): Body language is usually a good tell tale sign to whether someone likes you or not. If you are both in a relationship though it could be difficult to interpret. Ask yourself if you really do like him. Then go with your gut instinct. You never will know unless you ask him. SO maybe ne day just drop it in for example " so so thinks we hav chemistry" n do a flirtatious smile. Just make sure your ahppy and Good luck!
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