Truth or Dare
Q. Truth or Dare is a game that we all know. It started out as "jump off this, or do a summer-salt" but it becomes more. When I was 10 years old my cousin and I played truth or dare, and eventually he dared me to give him a blowjob. (of course he had ...
A. 23 June 2008: Ah very true. You're very wise for your age honey, because many a time I've played truth or dare and someone's done something or revealed something and regretted it totally. And you get to the age where it's more than "kiss so-and-so on the cheek", ... (read in full...)
Do you think our age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future?
Q. We were engaged two years ago, but we split up. I am almost 28, he is 56. Do you think age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future? HELP PLEASE...
A. 23 June 2008: Only if you let it honey.... (read in full...)
Does he have anger issues, or do most guys act like that?
Q. Is it normal for a 21 year old guy who is a total video game freak, to get really - and I mean really upset when he is losing in a game? He starts cursing so bad, over and over and then punches the couch if he loses. When I say "that sucks I'm sorr...
A. 23 June 2008: Ah my brother is so like that! He goes absolutely mad!... (read in full...)
Are these fortune tellers giving me false hopes?
Q. Hi, I broke up with my b/f, I felt depressed so went to see several fortune tellers. They were pretty accurate about some stuff...and 2 of them said that my ex likes me a lot and he would come back next year. I dunno if this is giving me false hope...
A. 23 June 2008: Well it depends what you believe but I think it's a waste of money going to see one. Maybe there is hope or an element of truth, but if what they say comes true, then I'd say it's more of a coincidence sweetie.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him after he punched a wall during an argument?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months he is very passionate and lovey dovey. I like it I'm that way too. But one night he was over and we got into an arguement about him going to a party without me. I told him if he goes without me ...
A. 23 June 2008: Oh sweetie, this isn't a good sign. I'm sure he's sorry, and people do make mistakes and deserve a second chance, but this could be a very big red flag. It may start out as this and then develop into something more aggressive next time, maybe even ... (read in full...)
I kissed my best friend. Should I leave my boyfriend?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with a man who I like greatly.However on a recent night out with work, I got really close with my best friend from work and ended up kissing him. Although I did not plan this, we were both sober and I have been ...
A. 22 June 2008: Sweetie you need to get your boyfriends opinion on this whole thing. If you're unhappy in the relationship, then regardless of whether you kissed your best friend or not, you shouldn't be together. Yet, if you were happy in the first place with your ... (read in full...)
Do you think I still have my hymen?
Q. i felt a tingling sensation and a small pain 'down there' earlier today but no blood but does this mean my hymen is broken? i found a few web sites that had a couple pictures but they were mostly drawings and i couldnt really make out anything....i ...
A. 22 June 2008: I can't see why your hymen would be broken honey, but if you often get pains down there, it might be worth paying a visit to the doctors.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an orgasm before ever having a period?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to have an orgasm before she's ever had a period?...
A. 22 June 2008: Yeah, sure you can ... (read in full...)
If I look at another guy's penis out of curiosity, does it mean I am gay?
Q. iam 16 years old, sometimes i have some curiousity to look at other's guy's penis !but i am not gay i wondered if is it mean that i am gay or someting ?and if is it a normal thing ?plz helpe me guys and thanks ...
A. 21 June 2008: No sweetie you're not gay, it's natural to be interested.... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 21 June 2008: Honey I had this at exactly her age and I had anaemia. It might be worth going back to the doctors and if someone older goes in with her, they'll take her more seriously! It sounds like she may be missing iron in her diet, is she vegetarian? Also, ... (read in full...)
Negative pregnancy tests, but odd symptoms. Ideas?
Q. Hey, around 4/5 weeks ago i had unprotected sex and i am now 2 weeks and 2 days late for my period. This is pretty strange as i have had regular periods since the age of 13. Ive noticed changes, like, all of a sudden i've got loads of spots and a ...
A. 21 June 2008: Sweetheart you know, I was almost in the same position. My period was late by over 3 weeks and they had always been like clockwork! If the tests are all negative, it's most probably because you're stressing so much! That's what put mine off. If you ... (read in full...)
This thread is Rated "Arrhhh"
Q. As of late i find my posts.. vanishing or not even being posted. Apparently some of the mods/admins around here thinks its ok for a man to want to sleep with his sister. Instead of telling people what they need to hear, it seems as if they would...
A. 21 June 2008: I haven't been on here long, about a fortnight, but I have read some of your answers. I think people appreciate the truth and they should come here to get honesty, not be told what they're doing is right when it's often not! So although you may feel ... (read in full...)
Is that a decent size for a kid my age?
Q. I am 15 years old with a 6 and a half - last measured about 6 months ago - and was wondering if thats a decent size for a kid my age. I am told its nice, but want to hear it from many other people. What do you guys think?...
A. 21 June 2008: Hey! Your size is fine, don't worry! You're average, if not a little larger, so you're doing fine! Especially since you probably haven't stopped growing yet honey.... (read in full...)
My female friend asked me out, but I'm not gay!
Q. i think my best mate (whose also a girl) fancies me, shes asked me out but i dont feel the same way, and im not gay. help!...
A. 21 June 2008: Hey sweetheart - you've just got to be honest! You can't really pretend you're a different sexuality to what you are. I'm sure she'll understand, she might even be expecting it!... (read in full...)
You made me realise how important my family are to me. Thank you all.
Q. I'd really like 2 thank every1 who helped me.....Its been almost months before i saw this site...when i was going through my most bad days in life... were i wanted my man 2 cling to ,to support me,to talk 2, he left me....! i was all alone......then ...
A. 20 June 2008: It's so good to hear you've been helped =] this site is amazing, and it's great to hear people's problems have started sorting themselves out due to some lovely aunts and uncles on here. So here's a big cheer for Dear Cupid =]... (read in full...)
Should I shave my dick??
Q. I am 14 and wondering if i should shave my dick what do you girls pefer most?...
A. 20 June 2008: NO!! Aaaaaaah.... (read in full...)
Sex with a new boyfriend - how soon is too soon?
Q. How soon is too soon, to have sex with a new boyfriend? Im just curious to know....
A. 20 June 2008: Well it's bound to be different in everyone's books. I'd say after about 2 months is okay, but if you're comfortable enough to have sex within a month, then fine. Whenever you feel you trust him and love him enough =]... (read in full...)
Vaginal hygiene - Am I going about it right?
Q. I wash my vagina with a scrubie poof thing and soap. Is this bad? Like, is it the same as douching?...
A. 20 June 2008: Honey it cleans itself so it's not really necessary for you to do this. If you want to give it a quick clean, just use a little soap on your hands OUTSIDE of your vagina and give it a once over. A 'scrubie poof thing' might do damage, and using too ... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm during sex, what should I do?
Q. Okay. Well Ive had sex and my boyfriend seems to cum early... But the last two times we had sex, we were at it for a long time but I got dry... So were gonna buy lube, but the fact is I have never came while haven sex but I can make myself cum.. ...
A. 20 June 2008: Hey!
Well I think the problem here honey is you need more clitoral stimulation, so try rubbing yourself or getting a vibrator to use while you're having sex.
I'm not going to lecture you on how you're most probably underage as you've already ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?
Q. Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?...
A. 20 June 2008: Hey sweetie
Yeah, I'd say so. You can get wet just naturally, as part of your vagina cleaning itself. But if you're going to have sex or something involving your vagina becoming wet, it's best if you're horny and then everything works so much easi... (read in full...)
When you have sex do you have to shave your pubic hairs or not?? Answers wanted ASAP!!
Q. um....i really dnt know how to saii this but...when havin sex, must you shave the area by your vagina or is this a major turnoff, or do guys like it when you have shaved there??? ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sweetie why are you thinking about these things?! Please don't make a big mistake, at least think it over properly first! Never hesitate to message me if you need anything, please don't cause yourself harm or put yourself in dangerous situations too ... (read in full...)
Was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before?
Q. This question may sound really stupid and weird, but I was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before? I am 22 and my boyfriend and I are doing a post- april fools sort of sex surprise thing, we are meeting up together...
A. 19 June 2008: I don't see what would be wrong with it sweetie but if you burn yourself, that aint gonna be nice! Practice first while they're NOT ON so you get the technique and know how far you can go without your skin touching the hot plates. Then turn them to ... (read in full...)
Any phone conversation tips?
Q. What are some good topics to talk about over the phone with your lover?...
A. 19 June 2008: Sweetie everything should come naturally when talking to your lover on the phone really. Discuss interests, how their day has been, if they're up for anything at the weekend, maybe even phone sex? =]... (read in full...)
What makes a perfect dad?
Q. Hi me and my wife are having a child in October. Can anyone tell me what a dads role is? What makes a perfect dad? ...
A. 19 June 2008: The ability to stay calm and try and remember what it was like at their age, even when they do things wrong =]... (read in full...)
Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?
Q. im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...
A. 19 June 2008: It's not always about looks, personality (as pointed out) is a big factor and if you don't seem like an interesting person, then a lot of men wouldn't take a second glace sweetie. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place? Go more places, meet more ... (read in full...)
What do I get my French Teacher for a year end present?
Q. I'm a teenager in my last year at high school. In the first three years for french i had this amazing french teacher who really inspired me into learning. She was probably my fave teacher as she always let me off if i didn't have my homework...
A. 19 June 2008: Boxes of chocolates are always nice and appreciated - Thorntons? Or you could make her something, like a special thank you card, or if she wears necklaces, a necklace?... (read in full...)
Is he too young for me do you think?
Q. I wonder if anyone can advise me on a startling new problem that's come up. Im 35 and single, never been married or had kids, and a few years ago got to know a lovely guy through some friends, who was 19. i found him really attractive and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Hey =] well I'd say you should just go for it! Yes, he's quite a bit younger than you, but if you both love each other then what should stop you? Nothing should get in the way of love.... (read in full...)
Why don't I ever get asked out?
Q. Im very attractive and i have only been asked out once (im 19) I get whistled at by guys a lot and lots of them say im hot and try to use me for sex but never want a relationship with me. I dont get it, Im tall, athletic, smart, funny and ive even ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sweetie they're probably just intimidated. If you're a bit prettier than other girls, they might presume you've already got a partner. Maybe you could make the first move, or show interest before them, to give them courage to ask you out?... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date your sister's boyfriend's sister?
Q. Is it okay to date your sisters boyfriends sister...
A. 19 June 2008: I don't see anything wrong with it honey =]... (read in full...)
Should females tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past?
Q. I read loads of questions about this and seen it myself with a freind, Should females not tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past? if they're going to freak out what's the point? My workmate once boasted to me about how many b/f ...
A. 18 June 2008: To be honest guys, relationships should be filled with honesty. There are things you don't tell people, but if they truly love you, your past can be forgiven and your partner can still love you and move on from it!... (read in full...)
I'm starting to grow facial hair and I need shaving tips please.
Q. I'm 15 years old. I am starting to grow facial hair. I'm wanted to start shaving it but I don't know how to. Can anyone give me tips or instructions on how to shave? Also I'm wondering if I should shave my pubic hair. Do girls like it shaved or not?...
A. 18 June 2008: Hey sweetheart. Well in all honesty, I don't have much of a clue about shaving because I'm a girl and haven't really taken an interest when my fella shaves! But about down there... No! For the love of all things holy, leave it be! Most women love it ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and worried my pubic hair will put her off. What can I do about it?
Q. hi, I'm just 17 I'm a virgin and i feel like i have too much pubic hair. I'm scared that when the moment is right she will see me and be grossed out. my question is, is this a problem? and is there anything i can do about it?...
A. 18 June 2008: Oh sweetheart don't be daft, pubic hair on guys isn't the same as girls. We love a good bit of hair down there on a guy :] or most of us do. Men are good to be hairy! She'd probably think you were a bit funny if you shaved it or had very little! But ... (read in full...)
Any romantic proposal tips please?
Q. Hello, this is DocDell, I am planning to ask my girl to marry me, and well, I just kind of need suggestions, Ideas, of how I should do it, or where I should do it, anything is appretiated....
A. 18 June 2008: Whatever you do, if it involves putting it in an item of food where she can't see it, make sure she doesn't crack a tooth! That happened to a friend of mine. Not romantic...... (read in full...)
How do I gain my girlfriends trust back?
Q. Hi my girlfriends trust in me has been shaken. She doesn't trust me much anymore for what i did. After I told her i wouldn't smoke pot or drink i did it anyway i mean it wasn't much but enough to get her madder then hell. It's a long distance ...
A. 18 June 2008: I agree with the anonymous female reader!... (read in full...)
How do I know when she's orgasmed?
Q. Probably a stupid question, but I'm curious, how do you tell when a girl comes? I never know unless they flat out tell me. I figure they could be faking it, but a friend was saying a girl comes when she's wet, but I've gotten girls wet withou...
A. 18 June 2008: Hello =] well I've heard you can usually feel the vaginal muscles tighten and loosen, move around etc. If you're giving her oral, there may be a different taste or suddenly more wetness down there.... (read in full...)
Do people really change?
Q. Is it a good decision to go back to an ex? Do you think the same mistakes can be repeated? or Do people really change? I hope u can help me ...
A. 18 June 2008: Hey!
Well I believe everyone deserves second chances. But this depends on what they did in the first place to need a second chance! If he really broke your heart with no remorse and hasn't contacted you at all and it left on bad terms, then it's... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to what 'oral sex' means!
Q. When people talk about oral sex, what is it really. is it unprotected sex or what? im confused please help!...
A. 17 June 2008: Using your mouth to pleasure another person's genitals sweetheart.... (read in full...)
What is the possibility that I can get pregnant in the pool?
Q. I had sex in the pool. We used condoms when we were in the bedroom. My question is: Does sperm die in the pool and since he was inside me, what is the percentage rate on possibilities of me getting pregnant??? I am very fertile and I get pregnant ...
A. 17 June 2008: Oh sweetie this wasn't your best idea. Nothing in water can kill sperm, so it's unlikely that any will have died in the water. Why don't you go on the pill if you're into this kind of thing? I don't think condoms and pools are a great idea, so the ... (read in full...)
I want to have an affair but I don't know where to look for someone else?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having problems and he never gives me attention. I want to have an affair but I dont know where to look for someone else. Any advice? I cant go to a bar becasue I am 18....
A. 17 June 2008: Look honey, you don't have to stay with him! If you're really that unhappy and he is really not that bothered, then maybe a break will do you both a world of good?... (read in full...)
My sisters husband forced me to have sex
Q. i lost my virginity at age 12 with my sisters husband. i dident want to but he forced me. know i dont know if to tell my sister wat happend. wat should i do?...
A. 17 June 2008: I'm so sorry to hear this! This is rape, and he should be reported! I know, it's of course not something you particularly want to talk about or say to anyone, but he should be punished for this! Honey you were 12, and that's not fair! Rape is an ... (read in full...)
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