Lies, lies. Should I cut him of my life for lying? Or can he change?
Q. I recently dumped my beloved boyfriend and eventually friend, because he has a bad habit of lying. He doesn't just lie when he needs to in pressure, but he just randomly lies about the most craziest things. Things that aren't important whats soo ...
A. 21 June 2011: He's been contacting me again saying that he's soo sorry and it won't happen again. I really don't believe that so I've decided that we'll just remain friends. If he lies to me one ALL OF YOUR HELP!!! I really appreciate it. I wouldn't be able to ... (read in full...)
I want to call him but should I wait?
Q. Dear Cupid: After exchanging emails with a guy I met online for about a week, I gave hime my phone number. He waited approximately 3 days and called me on his lunch break at work. Our conversations were brief but pleasant. I told him that I enjoy...
A. 21 June 2011: I'm sure he's still interested in you. He's just waiting for you to call. After all you did say he's a shy guy. Maybe he's thinking because you havn't called him, you don't have interest in him. DEFINETLY GIVE HIM A CALL. Socialize with him and ... (read in full...)
Why cant she give me my space for more than a month?
Q. So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago and a month after the break up, she started dating someone...So that was when I decided to not talk to her until i was over her...A week after i told her that, she tried to contact me ...
A. 20 June 2011: Here are some possible answers =)... 1. She still really loves you! She could even regret ending the relationship. Even though she's the one that broke up with you, it's still hard on her part. A while ago I dumped my lover for a GOOD REASON (lyi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to put their friend before their girlfriend sometimes?
Q. Hi. My question is quite a general one. I have noticed sometimes that my bf puts his friends/friend before me. Is this normal or is this a sign of immaturity? There is one friend in particular, typically I dont get on with him, there is no love los...
A. 20 June 2011: It's a bromance =) It is sadly normal for guys to put his friends before his girlfriend. Emphasise SOMETIMES! If he always ditches you for the guys than that's a totally different story. 1 or 2 times a month doesn't seem like much to me, so he ... (read in full...)
Why does my sister stand me up and blame me for it?
Q. I've been going through a rough time lately. I really needed some friendship and support. So I make palns with my sister. But ever since she brokeup with her boyfriend, she's been forever in a bad mood. This is dispite her being the dumper. Anyway I ...
A. 20 June 2011: Its not that, I'm single at the moment. I was in a relationship, but my ex betrayed me and left me.
Hmm. Maybe it's the other way around then. Here are some other possible answers...
1. She could have dumped her boyfriend because of the f... (read in full...)
How do I get over my ex? I'm struggling to do that. Still hurt and seething inside.
Q. I am struggling to get over my ex, we were together over 2 years. He squashed my self worth and lied so much that in the end I had no choice but to leave. The problem is I am extremely bitter! I'm full of anger, hurt and sadness when I think ab...
A. 20 June 2011: I am in the same situation. My ex lied to me soo much over things that weren't imporant whats soo ever. Eventually I called it quits after chance #3. We were together for 4 years and he's left me with anger and sadness as well so it is definetly ... (read in full...)
Is my ex to blame for my low self esteem?
Q. Well the situation is that I have been going out with this lad for just over 2 months. We were set up by our best friends who thought we would go well together. I was very badly hurt in my previous relationship with my ex which lasted 4-5 months. ...
A. 20 June 2011: Question 1
I still find myself listening to music and relating lyrics to our time together. He has moved on and got a new girlfriend, and I am happy with my new boyfriend, so why am I doing this?
Answer = To answer this simply... Think about wh... (read in full...)
Any name ideas for a little boy?
Q. Hey! I am pregnant and we've recently found out it's a little boy... We're running out of ideas for baby names so... Could anyone help us coming up with some ideas? Thanks everyone!...
A. 20 June 2011: CONGRAGULATIONS =)
There are so many names. Some names with meanings to them.
http://www.cutebabynames.org/
This website lists names for boys and girls. It tells you the meaning of each name. I wish you the best.
HOPE I HELPED ^.^... (read in full...)
Why does my sister stand me up and blame me for it?
Q. I've been going through a rough time lately. I really needed some friendship and support. So I make palns with my sister. But ever since she brokeup with her boyfriend, she's been forever in a bad mood. This is dispite her being the dumper. Anyway I ...
A. 19 June 2011: That's very weird. Maybe there is some sister jealousy playing a role. She has just recently been doing this since her break up so maybe she's jealous of the relationship you and your boyfriend have if you do have a bf. Maybe thats why she dumped ... (read in full...)
Not in love with wife, but lover says she wants to have child with her boyfriend, and no longer wants sex!
Q. I am in quite a complicated relationship, let me explain: 1. I am a married man, no kids 2. In a relationship with a woman 7 years older to me who is living with another man. 3. We work toghether, earlier in the same team now in different teams...
A. 19 June 2011: Why would you be thinking of starting another relationship when you haven't yet ended the relationship you are already in. I really do feel for your wife! The least you could do is end that relationship instead of having an affair. This would be ... (read in full...)
Is this his polite way of breaking up or what else could he mean?
Q. I'm confused right now. my bf told me he needed space like one week.. is this breaking up with me in a polite manner or he just need a little time without me?...
A. 19 June 2011: When a guy asks for space its usually because he wants to break up but doesn't want to do it too quickly in case he changes his mind. Obviously something isn't working between you two. Are you acting clingy? I told my bf that when he was too clingy ... (read in full...)
I want to keep the baby but he wants an abortion!
Q. Hello readers... I've recently found out that I am pregnant. I'm thrilled but really hurt at the same time. The father on the other hand is upset and want me to have an abortion. BIG PROBLEM, because I don't want to. I just don't understand how he ...
A. 19 June 2011: He obviously wasn't livign in REALITY. It probably just hit him that he's going to be a father. A lot of the times we say things we don't actually mean. He's realizing that if you kept the child that he would have to a GIVE UP HIS FREEDOM AND THE ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want me after so many years, why doesn't he just let me go?
Q. I am 46,divorced with grown up kids. I have been single for 6 years and I live on my own. 4 years ago I met a man online who was 6 years younger than me. We talked almost every night and he told me he was leaving his wife. The years rolled by,...
A. 19 June 2011: DON'T ALLOW A MAN TO RUN YOUR LIFE! I would't keep trying to contact him if he seems as if he's avoiding you. He could just be toying with your head. Some men aren't looking for a serious relationship, but instead someone to comfort them and be ... (read in full...)
I've got low self-esteem.
Q. I can't help but be bothered about self image issues and peoples opinions about me. My friends just made a huge montage of pictures and framed them in their front room. I've put on a bit of weight in the last couple of years and there are pictures...
A. 19 June 2011: Sometimes a visual of ourself is just what we need to wake us up. Use the picture as a motivator to get yourself in shape and change what you're unhappy about. We always seem to see the bad in our appearance and then the good. Our minds are complex ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with my bf, is it too soon to plan a future together?
Q. My bf *ethan* and I have been together for 7 months. We're both 13 and I have been thru so much pain torture and scariness that I learn not to trust many people. Him and I are completley in love....I have never felt like i do about him. i''ve never ...
A. 19 June 2011: If you have to ask yourself this question the answer is most likely yes, you are too young to be planning your future with this bf of yours. When the time comes to set a future with someone, you won't have to ask for opinons. You'll be mature enough ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and don't want to give the baby away but am unsure about keeping it either
Q. So I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago. I'm still not sure how far along I am but after two at-home tests and a blood test from the hospital I know for sure I am pregnant. I'm not on any birth control, because I thought for sure I ...
A. 19 June 2011: If you have an abortion that could still also affect your life. You'll always think of how your life would have been if you would have kept your child. In my opinion I am against abortions. Most who do abort their child regrets it but those who keep ... (read in full...)
Everyone else I know is in a relationship. Why not me?
Q. I really need some advice. I have never in my life had a girlfriend and want to have a relationship. I want companionship in my life. I want to experience the closeness, kissing, cuddling, sex... I really feel behind the curve. It hasn'...
A. 19 June 2011: You know what! You might be soooo damb awesome that girls are intimidated by you XD just a thought. You need to put yourself out there. Socialize, go to parties, mall, events, clubs, etc. YOU'RE BOUND TO MEET SOMEONE! Jump the gun!!! FLIRT IT UP ... (read in full...)
Strangely attracted to a girl not my usual type. She gets made fun of a lot an I'm afraid friends will turn on me to What now?
Q. Okay so theres this girl that i just met and she likes me and i think shes kinda cute but my friends dont they were making fun of her really bad even though i kinda liked her i admit shes not my usual type shes short and not as thin as my usual ...
A. 19 June 2011: Your SO-CALLED FRIENDS are NOT TRUE FRIENDS if they would make fun of YOUR girlfriend. If they were true friends, they'd back off and accept your choices in life. If she's been bullied I'm sure she would like to have a boyfriend to comfort her and ... (read in full...)
Too scared to date the girl I like because I am sexually confused! Help!
Q. There is this girl at school that I like and I wanna make a move and try to talk to her but the thing is I'm scared and sexually confused. I'm still a virgin because I'm sexually confused. Somedays I want guys and then girls. Most on the time I want ...
A. 19 June 2011: Well you are bisexual so keep your options open. Don't shut someone out because you are confused. Her personality might make up for her not being a guy and she might be able to turn you on anyway. Relationships aren't all about the sex! Conversate ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to use another guy's pictures when chatting to her? Or is she over-reacting?
Q. I had been talking to this girl for a few weeks just for fun and chatting with her. Initially I posted this other guys pictures. She got really upset and yelled at me and also removed me as her contact. From my understanding we flirted but ther...
A. 19 June 2011: She is definetly not overreacting. I'm a girl that would have been furous too because I just don't understand why people just can't be truthful. I take lying very seriously. I think girls do more than guys so that's probably why you think she ... (read in full...)
How do I get his interest? I think he could be my life partner.
Q. I love a guy and I need him badly in my life.I know he likes me but,not quite sure whether he loves me.I get the feeling that he's inspired only when I am around him but not other times.I need him to be my life partner.what should I do?...
A. 19 June 2011: USE WHAT YA MAMA GAVE YA! Just joking XD Don't make it obvious that you love him but don't let him do all the chasing either. You could show him that you're interested by getting to know him well if you don't yet. If so you could bring him along ... (read in full...)
I do love him. I want him back. Am I getting back with him for the right reasons?
Q. Ok- i was dating my ex for 2 years and i ended things about 9 months ago. Since then he's been contacting me and trying to get back with me. and we've actually hung out a few time and had a really fun time. And he is usually saying things like i ...
A. 19 June 2011: You said you really love him. If you TRUELY LOVE HIM than you're not being selfish and wouldn't be getting back with him just because you are lonely. He's tried to contact you so obviously he still has interest in you. If you don't give it another ... (read in full...)
How do I control my insecurity?
Q. i have major insecurities and i feel like it will ruin my relationship, my boyfriend says it wont ruin our relationship and compliments me everyday, hes never cheated and the only thing we've had a serious arguement about is him watching porn and a ...
A. 19 June 2011: Every girl is insecure at one time in her life. I don't think that you are insecure of yourself though but instead your boyfriend. He's the one who is making you think you're not good enough. It's the relationship that you are in that makes you feel ... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend doesn't treat her well, should I tell her I like her?
Q. one of my friends thats a girl has a boyfriend. i don't know alot about their relationship but the things my friend has told me he doesn't treat her well enough mostly when shes around her friends. the other day she was with her friends and she saw ...
A. 19 June 2011: If I were you I'd give he advise on the relationship she is currently in. I wouldn't just flat out ask her if she has interests in you when shes probably in a weak and upsetting state with her current bf. Show that you like her by getting her out of ... (read in full...)
Can I have a lasting relationship with this girl?
Q. Is it possible to have a lasting relationship with a lady who is one year younger than you. My situation is, I met this girl about 5-6 months ago we get along well and have healthy relationship upto now. I made it clear that I really love her and I ...
A. 19 June 2011: If she really wants to spend the rest of her life with you like she said, than you don't have anything to worry about. When you both reach your 60's she'll be happy she's dating a younger guy. I'm a girl who actually doesn't care if a guy is younger ... (read in full...)
He hurts me so bad but I keep taking him back! How can I just break away from him for good??
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles. I just recently took my lying, cheating, disrespectful, sneaky bf back. I love him so much that no matter what he do or has done to me, i always forgive him and take him back...regardless of the situation. He has done ...
A. 19 June 2011: Don't allow a guy to run your life!!! Stick with your gut. You said you know you can do better, so make it happen. It is not healthy to stay in a relationship that has been off and on. If he's msging other girls, its obvious that the relationship ... (read in full...)
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