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writes:So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago and a month after the break up, she started dating someone...So that was when I decided to not talk to her until i was over her...A week after i told her that, she tried to contact me and asked me when i would talk to her..At first i ignored her, but then she texted me the next day all irritated cause i ignored her and saying how she needs to suck up the fact that her best friend wont talk to her, so I just told her that i wasnt ready yet. That was about a month ago...Then she tried to contact me again on fathers day, which would be today asking me if i still wasnt ready, all i said was we'll talk about it later when I get home. When i got home, i texted her and she never replied back. What does all of this mean? I'm really confused on why she just cant give me my space for more than a month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks..that really did help. I just wish i knew which one of those she was feeling
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reader, SMARTERthaniappear +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Here are some possible answers =)...1. She still really loves you! She could even regret ending the relationship. Even though she's the one that broke up with you, it's still hard on her part. A while ago I dumped my lover for a GOOD REASON (lying!!!) but I still began to question my decision. 2. She's used to talking with you and doesn't want to lose that part of your relationship. Because you are broken up she doesn't want you two to become distant. When I broke up with my boy friend, it was like he was in another country!!! I felt so distant and alone. This could be why your girlfriend keeps trying to stay in contact with you.3. Maybe she's gotten over it faster than you have. Tell her you'll let her know when you're ready. Tell her to lay off on the messages and phone calls until YOU R READY.Conclusion = This is not healthy for either of you. She needs to stop NOW or she could ruin your friendship. Confront her on this matter and if she really cares for you, she'll respect your wishes =)HOPE I HELPED ^.^
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 HI
JUST SAY TO HER IT'S GREAT THAT SHE CAN SEEM TO GET OVER THE FACT YOUR NOT TOGETHER ANY MORE, BUT YOU CANT AND NEED MORE TIME TO DEAL WITH THIS. HER TEXTING AND PHONING IS ONLY MAKING IT MORE PAINFUL, AND IS PROLONGING THE SPACE YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH IT. AND IF SHE CANT DO THIS ONE THING FOR YOU, THEN IT WILL BE IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU BOTH TO REMAIN FRIENDS. MYBE SHE WILL LISTEN THEN
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